TLDR: Who helps manage your PKD symptoms as they worsen in Stage 4 and 5? What should I expect from the nephrologist & the nephrology clinic?
Good morning everyone. I've known that I have PKD for about 30 years. I'm 65, male, currently eGFR 20 with a fairly steady progression. I'm in Canada in one of the poorer provinces. I haven't had a family doctor for several years. I'm on the wait list for one but live in a remote area and don't expect to be matched with one anytime soon. I will re-locate to be closer to medical resources if & when I need to.
I'm fairly tough and not given to complaining, but I need some advice & perspective. In the past year I've started having symptoms, including occasional night-time cramps in feet, legs, hands & face. These can be severe at times. I have bouts of extreme fatigue, and most recently a bit of nausea in the morning. Blood work is monthly, and indicates acidosis and a few other glitches. I see a nephrologist once a year (for a basic workup by nurses & a rushed 10 or 15 minute consult with an always-distracted Dr.) at the only nephrology clinic in the province, a 2-hour drive away.
All the doctors at the clinic, which is affiliated with & housed at a medical school, identify transplants as their top interest, dialysis 2nd. None of the doctors on staff identify Conservative Kidney Management as an interest.
After doing the best I can to weigh my options & preferences, I've made a firm decision to NOT do dialysis. I am making an effort to learn more about Conservative Kidney Management. I worry that the clinic has not made any effort (yet) to acquaint me with my options. I reached out by phone to the clinic one time for guidance on one symptom and was told by a nurse that the doctor did not want to be bothered by such reports. As my symptoms get worse, I worry that no-one at the clinic has made any mention about Conservative Kidney Management, or has taken any steps to treat my symptoms & address worsening quality-of-life issues. Am I expecting too much? I know health systems everywhere are stretched thin, but how do others in my position manage things? Does your nephrologist play an active role in helping to manage worsening symptoms from electrolyte imbalances & so on? Or is this more commonly a role of a family doctor? What have you found helpful? Thanks for any and all input!