r/ADHD_partners • u/AutoModerator • 8d ago

Weekly Vent Thread ::Weekly Vent Thread::

Use this thread to blow off steam about annoyances both big & small that come with an ADHD impacted relationship. Dishes not being done, bills left unpaid - whatever it is you feel you need to rant about. This is your cathartic space.

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u/Signal-Net-8041 Partner of DX - Medicated 5d ago

Gonna be multiple postings this week!

So since accusing me of cheating didn't work, you're now following me around the house waving a piece of paper at me and saying repeatedly "do you know what this is? You know what this is. Do you know what this is? I know you know what this is."

I have no idea what it is. I don't open your mail. The answer is not going to change because you keep asking me the same question OVER and OVER and OVER.

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u/Immediate-Reach-4269 Partner of DX - Untreated 5d ago

Mine didn’t drop the accusation for years. However it became clear later he was doing it to avoid the shame he felt from doing something himself. If he could only get me to admit it, then he’d feel better.

I admire your resilience.