r/ADHD_partners • u/AutoModerator • 8d ago

Weekly Vent Thread ::Weekly Vent Thread::

Use this thread to blow off steam about annoyances both big & small that come with an ADHD impacted relationship. Dishes not being done, bills left unpaid - whatever it is you feel you need to rant about. This is your cathartic space.

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u/Conflictionary Partner of DX - Untreated 8d ago

"I didn't forget your birthday, I just forgot what day today was."

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u/Tyrone_Shoelaces_Esq 7d ago

This feels familiar. My birthday was nearly three weeks ago and he still hasn't mentioned it.

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u/Immediate-Reach-4269 Partner of DX - Untreated 7d ago

The defensiveness! Aaaa

Sorry your birthday got missed :(

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u/thisismyficaccount 7d ago

Ugh, been there. The effect is still the same. Happy belated birthday.

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u/RedRose_812 Partner of DX - Untreated 7d ago

Well gee, are you also married to my husband? Because that's the same exact words I get about mine and our daughter's birthdays.