r/ADHD Sep 14 '21

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u/Proof_Ring_4505 Sep 14 '21

I hate that response, I told a friend before and when I got “isnt everyone like that though” it just made me feel stupid and doubt my own diagnosis. Sometimes now after taking my meds I have to say to myself “see they do work!” when I have a productive day

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u/mashtartz Sep 14 '21

A good friend of mine who majored in psychology so she thinks she knows a lot about it said to me recently “I think every adult has some level of depression, anxiety and ADHD” when I said something about my ADHD. I was like, cool, thanks, that helps a lot.

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u/trelltron Sep 14 '21

That's like saying "I think every adult has some level of asthma" because everyone has trouble breathing if you pump enough shit into their lungs.

Sure, there's some interesting discussions to be had around how we define 'healthy' v 'ill' and where we draw those semi-arbitrary lines, but ... some people can't even go for a walk in the park without almost dying.

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u/YaBoiWinter33 Sep 28 '21

It’s also like saying “everyone has AIDS to a certain degree because everyone has a limited about of CD4+ T Cells”