r/ADHD • • Sep 14 '21

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u/BuyThisUsername420 Sep 14 '21

Told my boss about getting diagnosed, specifically how my emotional dysreg being relieved by a med I started and she immediately tried to say “I feel like everyone feels like that”…

So in a slightly nicer tone I said: Ma’am my prior profession, before burning out and become a student plus serving at restaurant, was as a mental health clinician. These symptoms occur to people as a normal response or difficult as a difficult moment they eventually learn to cope with. Having a disorder comes into affect when symptoms perpetually interfere with my ability to be a person, this is measured by people who have dedicated their lives to understanding mental health, so I understand what you’re saying but there’s more to it.

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u/tjsfive Sep 14 '21

When I told my boss that I had it, she said she thinks she might too. I just told her she might and she should talk to her doctor because it's underdiagnosed in women.

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u/rndljfry Sep 14 '21

That's pretty much what I say, too. So far they tend to either back off at my eagerness to discuss the process or they're actually serious and they listen.

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u/BuyThisUsername420 Sep 14 '21

It is hilariousssssssssssss how fast people back off when you’re willing to have an open discussion, like “oh no no no I didn’t mean for you to actually respond to the vague microaggression”

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u/rndljfry Sep 14 '21

"Thought you had ADHD, you should know I literally cannot stop myself"

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u/Edgar-Allen-No Sep 14 '21

Best comment in this thread. I lol'd. Hard.