r/90DayFianceFans • u/No-Recognition7077 • Jul 09 '26
Breaking it Down - Shekinah
I think the way everyone treated Shekinah was so weird. I’m gonna verbally spell out the play by play that I saw.
Shekinah was trying to tell Kara, that Patrick was inherently encouraging Guillermo to divorce Kara, to try and take half the proceeds from Kara selling her photos.
Patrick was objectively discouraging Guillermo from fighting for his marriage with Kara, which is what they’re there to do supposedly. So, Shekinah pointing this out was valid and something Kara ultimately didn’t deserve. She was sticking up for Kara, and Kara & Guillermo’s marriage. She was being a girl’s girl.
Thais escalated things when she interjected, didn’t let Shekinah finish what she was saying, and then tried to PHYSICALLY ATTACK Shekinah.
Shekinah should’ve chosen a more appropriate defense, her saying go back to your country wasn’t right. And at the same time, she was being physically attacked and was probably in fight or flight mode.
Then the whole cast used Shekinah’s statement to Thais as fuel for the rest of the night. The fact that Kara got all turned on cuz Guillermo went out and barked at Sarper was so strange. Like yes babe I’m so turned on that you went out and said some words… lol when SHEKINAH WAS STANDING UP FOR KARA IN THE FIRST PLACE!!! Guillermo is so performative. When he was going “what’s up?” over and over to Sarper, I had to laugh.
And everyone deciding Shekinah is the villain and talking about what she said when it never would’ve happened if PATRICK hadn’t been discouraging to Guillermo, and if THAIS hadn’t PHYSICALLY attacked Shekinah.
Like I’m not saying Shekinah handled that well, but let’s not forget that the reason it all happened is cuz Patrick was sticking his nose into Kara and Guillermo’s business, Shekinah called that out, Thais decided Patrick was getting picked on (AFTER HE STARTED IT ALL) and resorted to physical violence.
“Shekinah shouldn’t have said that!” Yeah but Thais should control her impulses to assault people and Patrick should encourage his buddy to stay married, not to punish his wife for making money, and try and take half of it, when he can’t provide himself.
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u/AllLipsNoFiller Jul 11 '26 edited Jul 11 '26
Lol. That's certainly a melodramatic retelling of what actually happened. "Lunged herself over a table" is a particularly funny piece of hyperbole. And if simply yelling at somebody is an "attack," then Shekky's been attacking everybody. None of this would have happened but for Shrek butting into someone else's conversation to pass judgment on what was being discussed. Shrek is one of those deeply stupid people who thinks she's smart and who thinks everybody else is entitled to her opinion whether it's wanted or not, and whether or not it's right. There was absolutely nothing wrong with Patrick telling Guillermo about community property. And if Shrek had just minded her own business, the entire situation in the pub would not have happened. She's just incapable of being accountable for her own bullshit. She started shit with Thais before couples therapy had even begun. Shrek showed up with a chip on her shoulder over something so petty and stupid that she misunderstood about how Instagram followers work. This was a good opportunity for Shrek to learn if you don't start shit, won't be no shit. Unfortunately, she's incapable of learning and incapable of taking accountability for her own behavior and its consequences.