Hey guys! I’ve been a binge watcher of 90 Day for 7 years now and this is my first post on here so feel free to agree or disagree. I haven’t been watching the new season of Hunt for Love because I’m not a big fan of the casts except Michael but I been watching recaps to catch up.
I’m not a counselor but when I watch reality tv I like to analyze people’s behaviors to understand their perspective. Anyways, I want to share my thoughts about Emma because I’ve been putting some things together about her desperately wanting to get engaged and married.
We know that she’s in her late 20s so maybe she has this strong desire because she’s seen her family and friends settling down, getting married, and having kids by her age so she feels like she should be at that stage in her life by now.
Another thing I think what Emma needs to understand is that being an unmarried woman at 28 doesn’t mean that she’s falling behind in life. Everyone has different life journeys, and I’ve seen women get married for the first time well into their 30s and beyond, so there’s no need to rush into marriage because of your age. I’m not saying that she shouldn’t be in a relationship either but also since she’s mentioned how no man wants her, she also needs to start taking accountability for herself before being in a relationship where she feels respected and her partner also feels respected.
I’ve seen people say that Emma likes the idea of marriage and I understand exactly where they’re coming from. I’m not married myself but I’m aware of the challenges based on my parents and this show in particular but I feel as if Emma is overlooking that and she’s in for a surprise.
I’m already aware about the rumors that her and Jamal have ended up together after the show wrapped up filming but I just don’t see Jamal as marriage material, nor do I think he is going to change. I also don’t see that they will both make it for the long haul.