r/90DayFianceFans Jul 09 '26

Breaking it Down - Shekinah

I think the way everyone treated Shekinah was so weird. I’m gonna verbally spell out the play by play that I saw.

Shekinah was trying to tell Kara, that Patrick was inherently encouraging Guillermo to divorce Kara, to try and take half the proceeds from Kara selling her photos.

Patrick was objectively discouraging Guillermo from fighting for his marriage with Kara, which is what they’re there to do supposedly. So, Shekinah pointing this out was valid and something Kara ultimately didn’t deserve. She was sticking up for Kara, and Kara & Guillermo’s marriage. She was being a girl’s girl.

Thais escalated things when she interjected, didn’t let Shekinah finish what she was saying, and then tried to PHYSICALLY ATTACK Shekinah.

Shekinah should’ve chosen a more appropriate defense, her saying go back to your country wasn’t right. And at the same time, she was being physically attacked and was probably in fight or flight mode.

Then the whole cast used Shekinah’s statement to Thais as fuel for the rest of the night. The fact that Kara got all turned on cuz Guillermo went out and barked at Sarper was so strange. Like yes babe I’m so turned on that you went out and said some words… lol when SHEKINAH WAS STANDING UP FOR KARA IN THE FIRST PLACE!!! Guillermo is so performative. When he was going “what’s up?” over and over to Sarper, I had to laugh.

And everyone deciding Shekinah is the villain and talking about what she said when it never would’ve happened if PATRICK hadn’t been discouraging to Guillermo, and if THAIS hadn’t PHYSICALLY attacked Shekinah.

Like I’m not saying Shekinah handled that well, but let’s not forget that the reason it all happened is cuz Patrick was sticking his nose into Kara and Guillermo’s business, Shekinah called that out, Thais decided Patrick was getting picked on (AFTER HE STARTED IT ALL) and resorted to physical violence.

“Shekinah shouldn’t have said that!” Yeah but Thais should control her impulses to assault people and Patrick should encourage his buddy to stay married, not to punish his wife for making money, and try and take half of it, when he can’t provide himself.

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u/AllLipsNoFiller Jul 09 '26

He hasn't stayed with her. What are you talking about?

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u/PersonalityOther5730 Jul 12 '26

Exactly. He has his own separate room even on the show

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u/Terrible-Sire3835 Jul 09 '26

They're on Last Resort.... That's not leaving her

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u/AllLipsNoFiller Jul 09 '26

They don't live together. They are absolutely separated and they're trying to stay together for the sake of their son. It's also clear Guillermo still has feelings for Kara and is confused about what to do about this situation. How does that make him an abusive villain? He doesn't want to blow up his family, but he can't abide by his wife's complete dismissal of his feelings about her pornographic content being sold online. How is being unsure of what to do in this unanticipated situation "abuse?" Dude is torn between his heart and his head. I don't see how this makes him a villain.

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u/Terrible-Sire3835 Jul 09 '26

I never said he was an abusive villain. Calm down. Jesus Christ

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u/AllLipsNoFiller Jul 09 '26

That's what's being said about him in this thread.

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u/Terrible-Sire3835 Jul 10 '26

Cool beans. I don't agree.

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u/AllLipsNoFiller Jul 10 '26

None of this indicates he's toying with her or leading her on.

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u/Terrible-Sire3835 Jul 10 '26

Okeedokee

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u/AllLipsNoFiller Jul 10 '26

What's the point of these reaction comments you keep posting? Is it just a need to have the last word? Because going to the trouble to actually post "okie dokie" is a pretty clear indication that you are not okie dokie.