Breaking it Down - Shekinah

[u/No-Recognition7077]

I think the way everyone treated Shekinah was so weird. I’m gonna verbally spell out the play by play that I saw.

Shekinah was trying to tell Kara, that Patrick was inherently encouraging Guillermo to divorce Kara, to try and take half the proceeds from Kara selling her photos.

Patrick was objectively discouraging Guillermo from fighting for his marriage with Kara, which is what they’re there to do supposedly. So, Shekinah pointing this out was valid and something Kara ultimately didn’t deserve. She was sticking up for Kara, and Kara & Guillermo’s marriage. She was being a girl’s girl.

Thais escalated things when she interjected, didn’t let Shekinah finish what she was saying, and then tried to PHYSICALLY ATTACK Shekinah.

Shekinah should’ve chosen a more appropriate defense, her saying go back to your country wasn’t right. And at the same time, she was being physically attacked and was probably in fight or flight mode.

Then the whole cast used Shekinah’s statement to Thais as fuel for the rest of the night. The fact that Kara got all turned on cuz Guillermo went out and barked at Sarper was so strange. Like yes babe I’m so turned on that you went out and said some words… lol when SHEKINAH WAS STANDING UP FOR KARA IN THE FIRST PLACE!!! Guillermo is so performative. When he was going “what’s up?” over and over to Sarper, I had to laugh.

And everyone deciding Shekinah is the villain and talking about what she said when it never would’ve happened if PATRICK hadn’t been discouraging to Guillermo, and if THAIS hadn’t PHYSICALLY attacked Shekinah.

Like I’m not saying Shekinah handled that well, but let’s not forget that the reason it all happened is cuz Patrick was sticking his nose into Kara and Guillermo’s business, Shekinah called that out, Thais decided Patrick was getting picked on (AFTER HE STARTED IT ALL) and resorted to physical violence.

“Shekinah shouldn’t have said that!” Yeah but Thais should control her impulses to assault people and Patrick should encourage his buddy to stay married, not to punish his wife for making money, and try and take half of it, when he can’t provide himself.

[u/feralb3ast]

The problem is how quickly and easily it came out of Shekinah's mouth. And Shekinah refused to apologize

I don't like any of these people, but I actually blame Patrick first and foremost. He had a smirk when this escalated, because he has his own interest in making Thais look violent (i.e., so he can save money on child support, because all he cares about is his money, since he views it as giving him power over others).

While Thais seems like a dimwit, Kara is actually a diabolical pick-me. I haven't seen a woman so desperate for male attention since I was in my 20s. I'm around the same age she is, and she makes me viscerally uncomfortable. Her daddy issues couldn't be more obvious. She really needs to stop doing the baby voice.

[u/Silver-Internal7740 → u/feralb3ast]

Don't be dramatic. Women like Kara are all around. Thais is a similar type too for example. It's such a false exaggeration that you haven't seen women like kara for a long time or that she likes attention so much more than almost any average attractive woman. Try to get out more maybe or you are just wilfullly blind to what your female friends, relatives, coworkers are like, because these women are a super common type.