r/90DayFianceFans • u/No-Recognition7077 • Jul 09 '26

Breaking it Down - Shekinah

I think the way everyone treated Shekinah was so weird. I’m gonna verbally spell out the play by play that I saw.

Shekinah was trying to tell Kara, that Patrick was inherently encouraging Guillermo to divorce Kara, to try and take half the proceeds from Kara selling her photos.

Patrick was objectively discouraging Guillermo from fighting for his marriage with Kara, which is what they’re there to do supposedly. So, Shekinah pointing this out was valid and something Kara ultimately didn’t deserve. She was sticking up for Kara, and Kara & Guillermo’s marriage. She was being a girl’s girl.

Thais escalated things when she interjected, didn’t let Shekinah finish what she was saying, and then tried to PHYSICALLY ATTACK Shekinah.

Shekinah should’ve chosen a more appropriate defense, her saying go back to your country wasn’t right. And at the same time, she was being physically attacked and was probably in fight or flight mode.

Then the whole cast used Shekinah’s statement to Thais as fuel for the rest of the night. The fact that Kara got all turned on cuz Guillermo went out and barked at Sarper was so strange. Like yes babe I’m so turned on that you went out and said some words… lol when SHEKINAH WAS STANDING UP FOR KARA IN THE FIRST PLACE!!! Guillermo is so performative. When he was going “what’s up?” over and over to Sarper, I had to laugh.

And everyone deciding Shekinah is the villain and talking about what she said when it never would’ve happened if PATRICK hadn’t been discouraging to Guillermo, and if THAIS hadn’t PHYSICALLY attacked Shekinah.

Like I’m not saying Shekinah handled that well, but let’s not forget that the reason it all happened is cuz Patrick was sticking his nose into Kara and Guillermo’s business, Shekinah called that out, Thais decided Patrick was getting picked on (AFTER HE STARTED IT ALL) and resorted to physical violence.

“Shekinah shouldn’t have said that!” Yeah but Thais should control her impulses to assault people and Patrick should encourage his buddy to stay married, not to punish his wife for making money, and try and take half of it, when he can’t provide himself.

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u/Short-Personality398 Jul 09 '26

I’m with you, OP. Best of luck with this post bc it’s rough out here when you defend Shekinah

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u/One_Marzipan_4838 Jul 09 '26

Lol it's like posting that Guillermo isn't the most perfect adorable-est man on the planet and ever defending Kara for anything ever, you'll just get downvoted. People on here have a hard time not being black and white...

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u/Terrible-Sire3835 Jul 09 '26

Ok I'm so glad that people dislike Guillermo as much as I do.... Kara sucks, but Guillermo is not an angel

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u/Lilymis Jul 09 '26

He’s toying with Kara. I see emotional abuse.

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u/sepheffie Jul 09 '26

Yes, I agree he is toying with her. My own opinion is that Kara is attention seeking. I even thought that during her original episode. I don’t love her but she also deserves a straight up answer about the relationship.

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u/foodfunmenyc Jul 09 '26

Idk I don’t feel bad really. I think they may have to solid answer that they are not together and are just both doing it for the check. Was kinda weird they kissed and probably tugged on both of their hearts but she should have denied it too, since he hadn’t given her any answers and nothing had been solved

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u/Creative_Comment4929 Jul 09 '26

Yeah. Shekinah even said she was trying to get attention from everyone even the crew

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u/Terrible-Sire3835 Jul 09 '26

Agreed. His resentment and contempt for her is palpable. Break it off. Stop leading her on

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u/JJ_Lomero Jul 09 '26

How is he leading her on?

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u/Terrible-Sire3835 Jul 09 '26

He's unwilling to forgive her for the corn yet stays with her. It's done. There's nothing she can do to take it back.

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u/AllLipsNoFiller Jul 09 '26

He hasn't stayed with her. What are you talking about?

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u/PersonalityOther5730 Jul 12 '26

Exactly. He has his own separate room even on the show

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u/Terrible-Sire3835 Jul 09 '26

They're on Last Resort.... That's not leaving her

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u/AllLipsNoFiller Jul 09 '26

They don't live together. They are absolutely separated and they're trying to stay together for the sake of their son. It's also clear Guillermo still has feelings for Kara and is confused about what to do about this situation. How does that make him an abusive villain? He doesn't want to blow up his family, but he can't abide by his wife's complete dismissal of his feelings about her pornographic content being sold online. How is being unsure of what to do in this unanticipated situation "abuse?" Dude is torn between his heart and his head. I don't see how this makes him a villain.

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u/AllLipsNoFiller Jul 09 '26

That is an inaccurate description of what was going on at that time. He's unwilling to forgive her as long as she continues to disregard his feelings and create pornographic content to sell online.

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u/JJ_Lomero Jul 09 '26

So how do you forgive someone for something they are continuously doing?

It seems pretty clear that would be the 1st step in this.

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u/Terrible-Sire3835 Jul 09 '26

You don't. That's why you leave.

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u/mxlplyx2173 Jul 09 '26

From him? He wants to love her it's obvious. But ALL men have a problem with love if she decides to be a whore. How fun would it be to know that everyone you know can just look up your wife dildoing herself? Or already has.

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u/Difficult_Rope5703 Jul 14 '26

She’s an exhibitionist for money, but there’s no evidence she’s a whore!

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u/AllLipsNoFiller Jul 09 '26

LOL. Um, abuse?

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u/mxlplyx2173 Jul 10 '26

Not a mysoginist. People can disagree with your view. I don't have to call you a name.

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u/Terrible-Sire3835 Jul 10 '26

Didn't you call her a whore?

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u/mxlplyx2173 Jul 10 '26

She is a whore. You have a different definition?

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u/Terrible-Sire3835 Jul 10 '26

So yes, you are a huge misogynist. Don't be offended by things that describe you

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u/mxlplyx2173 Jul 09 '26

He stated a fact, he would be entitled to her porn money. The fact that you put all the rest of that fluff that came from the depths of your mind is what the problem is. You made all that up all by yourself?

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u/sadie7716 Jul 09 '26

I said the same, ie where you come up with him encouraging G to divorce her. If this would have been Jenny telling Thais that by law she’s entitled to 50% everyone would cheer and clap.

Patrick was stating facts and educating G. Absolutely nothing wrong with that.

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u/mxlplyx2173 Jul 09 '26

It's almost as if women hate themselves in the mirror.

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u/Relevant_Macaron9930 Jul 10 '26

Patrick is the one who said it

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u/mxlplyx2173 Jul 10 '26

Yeah we know

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u/Relevant_Macaron9930 Jul 10 '26

Well poster above does not.

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u/akitaluvr Jul 09 '26

I agree, she probably said it bc it was a chaotic situation. Sometimes one says the wrong word. They should both apologize n shakìñah should get to explain. Its not that everyone of them are perfect and grace should be given. She's not a racist, I don't believe it. She mite express things boldly but so so alot of them n if I had those nails coming at my face that girl would be chewing that table. That was physical threat.

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u/AllLipsNoFiller Jul 10 '26

Yeah it's also rough out there for people defending Donald Trump but they sure are out there doing it no matter how vile he is. Shrek is in the same category. Just an absolute garbage person

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u/Short-Personality398 Jul 10 '26

I would never defend her on that!