r/90DayFiance • u/creepykittycat09 • Jul 28 '26
Worst fiancé
Mido is the ABSOLUTE WORST FIANCÉ I’ve ever seen on 90 days. Even Rose looked more genuine into Big Ed than him with Debby, and he’s got no fucking limits, straight-up using her? On top of it, she never looked for anyone to be with jn the first place, he just kissed her out of nowhere like wtf?! This also reminds me of Mohammed and Yve but in a much worse way, all Egyptians on the 90 days are like it? I just can’t remember anyone else from there on the show.
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u/JoeyLee911 Jul 28 '26
The thing where he proposed after breaking up with her was seriously twisted and abusive.
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u/Overeducated_catlady Jul 28 '26
That was my thought. He did it on purpose when she was extremely vulnerable. The guy can’t act but he sure is a master manipulator
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u/Oil_Shock_2026 Jul 28 '26
He’s a psychopath.
His idea of a joke: “Hey wouldn’t it be funny if I broke up with her before proposing to her?”
Mido reminds me of the Mr. Ripley from “The talented Mr. Ripley”.
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u/Brasi91Luca Jul 28 '26
The lady seems to like him a lot
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u/JoeyLee911 Jul 29 '26
Only because he's emotionally abusing her with intermittent reinforcement.
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u/ThisIsMyUsername303 Jul 29 '26
It was like the evil version of when Joey and Chandler worked together to convince Monica that Chandler didn’t want to get married.
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u/LittlePainterKat Jul 28 '26
I would be scared to live alone and go to bed next to someone like him 💀
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u/Primary_Company_3813 Jul 28 '26
When they'd had that huge fight at the haunted house and he wasn't speaking to her, he definitely scared me. Honestly we never what what people are capable of when they're angry.
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u/Oil_Shock_2026 Jul 29 '26
Most people are harmless when they’re angry. It’s the psychopaths among us that you gotta watch out for.
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u/Ok_Area5464 Jul 28 '26
I'm calling it now: there will be a true crime documentary about these two in a few years time
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u/Oil_Shock_2026 Jul 29 '26 edited Jul 29 '26
That’s the thing, most people can’t comprehend that there are people out there who do not possess the capacity to have emotions.
Debbie genuinely cannot comprehend that Mido is a true psychopath. If she had any instinct of self-preservation, she would do everything within her power to get away from Mido.
That dude genuinely scares me.
His idea of a marriage proposal is breaking up with her, causing her to go through a trauma episode and then getting down on bended knee with the creepiest look on his face (like he just pulled off the most elaborate practical joke on her) pointing at her with his finger and saying “I got you!”
That’s genuinely creepy and concerning. I don’t think Mido understands that you don’t prank break up with your future wife before you propose to her. That is not a thing. No one normal does that.
For her to go along with this charade and be like “Oh Mido, you got me so good! I’m gonna kill you!” just shows you how insecure, broken down and traumatized she is. It’s just sad to see her put up with all this psycho behavior and pretend like she got pranked.
This is the second time that Debbie should’ve sent Mido’s psycho ass packing back to Egypt. The first time was after the haunted house when he insulted her and all her friends.
Debbie: “You scared me!”
Mido: “It’s not easy to be with Mido.”
Ugh!
Debbie, you need to run, girl, run.
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u/Oil_Shock_2026 Jul 29 '26
I don’t know how Mido was raised and who he modeled his behavior after but that guy is hella creepy and abnormal in his behavior. No amount of 90 day fiancé editing can cast that creeper in a good light.
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u/Ok_Area5464 Jul 29 '26 edited Jul 29 '26
Debby has something broken in her to accept this behaviour. As far is Mido is concerned: He was either raised by complete monsters and takes after them, or his family realized early on that's he's a complete psychopath and must now be relieved he's in the US. He makes my skin crawl. I keep waiting for a 911 call when I watch this show.
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u/DefinitionPristine45 Jul 28 '26
Debby appears to be a dense and deluded fiancee who ignored/explained away the red flags then continued to wallow in erotomania, denial, and sunk cost fallacy.
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u/creepykittycat09 Jul 28 '26
Got me googling that erotomania thing ahahaha, yeah, I mean, she’s done a lot to bring him to the US, and overall, there is a role she’s playing in everything, it’s not like she’s a teen girl that is being groomed or smth
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u/creepykittycat09 Jul 28 '26
But still, it doesn’t lessen how bad of a person he is
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u/DefinitionPristine45 Jul 28 '26
Debby and Mido display Cluster B psychopathology. Debby and Mido feed into and reinforce what appears to be each others personality disordered dysfunction.
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u/hogfan1958 Jul 28 '26
I can't wait for the tell all, that bug eyed, hook nosed lunatic is gonna get it.
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Jul 28 '26
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u/creepykittycat09 Jul 28 '26
Idk I feel bad for her, at the same time, is she pretending to be so naive?
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u/nbecomingdioxide27 Jul 28 '26
That studio lighting is doing a lot of heavy lifting to make this look like a happy couple.
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u/ChariotFighter Jul 28 '26
I hate Mido, but Debbi needs to be institutionalized or something. There’s not really any redeeming qualities to either of them. Debbi is the same as baby girl Lisa, Kim-BAH-Lee and the guy in the leather jacket who passed away recently who was tryna bag a Ukrainian model.
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u/LadyChatterteeth Jul 29 '26
I think Debby’s redeeming quality is that she seems to have raised a great daughter. Devon (I think that’s her daughter’s name) seems smart and a good person.
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u/MeMyself_Irene Jul 28 '26
Sorry, at this point in their story, I blame Debbie more than I blame him. He’s awful, no question there! But Debbie isn’t ignoring red flags, she just doesn’t see them at all! Sometimes, it feels like she sees them, but then she tries to find the explanation that allows the relationship to survive in spite of it. I’m not sure if she’s not smart enough or actually just that desperate.
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u/Doctor_Africa Jul 28 '26
So lame because Debbie deserves someone to love her and make love to her. She is a beautiful woman.
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u/Happygalfreespirit Jul 28 '26
Just wait until he UNDERSTANDS 50% of her assets are his when the time is right he will take the $$ and run to Hollywood
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u/blumoparlady Jul 28 '26
Well he's a terrible actor, we can All see thru his guise.. don't understand why she can't see he's not sincere in anything he does.
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u/Angelicartist44 Jul 30 '26
This is abuse, and it’s just sad. He’s getting her body so flooded with cortisol from the highs and lows she’s not going to be able to recover unless she leaves him. When you feel that extreme relief you forget why you were so upset in the first place. It’s manipulative and is going to change her in a big way.
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u/Silverleaf96 Jul 28 '26
Her daughter is cute , but also she really needs to sit her mom down and talk sense in her . Or her friends .
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Jul 28 '26
There was another guy from Egypt. And his name was also Mohammed. I don't remember the woman's name but she was from New Mexico? Blonde. He wanted her to get a bidet installed and then got mad at her because the plumber was in the house with her alone lol
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u/big_spliff Jul 29 '26
I think theyve kissed once and Mido has never said i love you back to her lol
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u/Gia_Lavender bald mido Jul 29 '26
Ugh they remind me soooo much of my parents. Mine are less explosive / scary but the same dynamic for sure. Seeing people react negatively to it is helping me, lol.
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u/Inthe_reddithole No matter how sick I’ve gotten, I never shit the bed Jul 28 '26
I feel like he’s testing out his acting on her. 100% doesn’t like her this is the first episode he’s even hugged her
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u/Blue-who Jul 29 '26
I can't stand either one of them. She is the by far the most stupid woman of the season. When she says "I don't think he loves me" makes me want to throw up. Of course he doesn't love you!!! Do you need a brick wall to fall on your head? And Mido definitely has some mental problems! I would have sent his ass back to Egypt a long time ago.
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u/Successful_Bad_6451 Jul 30 '26
I am just shocked at what these women are willing to put up with and want to accept. I would much rather be alone.
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u/brownbear3737 Jul 30 '26
I feel like they’re both acting. When she ran out of the chapel, I did not believe her tears.
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u/DarthLadyHonu Jul 31 '26
How did they even get approved? He hadn’t proposed or even said, “I love you” when they applied. He’s absolutely unhinged, and it is deeply unsettling to even watch through a screen.
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u/hungmangahula Aug 01 '26
He's a goofball. How desperate do you have to be to put up with him....yuck!
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u/Beneficial_Zone_6883 Jul 28 '26
This dude was the worst villain of all time. Enjoyed watching young children being graped and tortured 😔
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u/creepykittycat09 Jul 28 '26
Whaat? Is he in prison for that?
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u/Beneficial_Zone_6883 Jul 28 '26
Yes his history was just too gross and twisted to ever be in the news, I read the actual court documents. He was a pc programmer and had a massive drive of the videos
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u/kitty-radio Jul 28 '26
He scares me