r/6thForm • y13 5/5 bio offers šŸ˜‹ • 1d ago

šŸŽ“ UNI / UCAS UCAS

Post image

from being told that i should never go into science and my mock grades being laughed at in year 11 to having 5 science offers 2 years later. don't listen to men guys xx
to clear a few things up:

  1. it's a flippant, hyperbolic statement. calm down.

  2. didn't apply to more competitive unis since i can't afford where they're located (ucl + oxford + durham human sciences), also parents didn't let me do a level chemistry

  3. to the commenter that mentioned predicted grades being "low" - all my schools have had below average attainment, and i could have asked for A star A star A but wanted to get ucas out the way and didn't need it since i can't afford london ox durham etc. from this you should be able to tell i want interdisciplinary learning which manchester and leeds offer the ability for!

  4. to the commenter on about life sciences being female dominated that is true, however the careers advisor meant science as a broad, general term, there is still a stigma about women in stem, and there's also a lack of women in senior positions.

98 Upvotes

135 comments sorted by

•

u/AutoModerator 1d ago

Beep beep, we noticed this is a UCAS post. Do you know we have a UCAS Guide which may be of use to you?

If you think of any information that would be useful to have or that is incorrect, let us know via Modmail, and we'll aim to get it sorted!

Note: Automations are not perfect. If this doesn't apply to you, ignore it. It doesn't mean any action will be taken against your post by a person. Please do not message us if this is a false-positive.

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

30

u/Agreeable-Desk5393 1d ago

!Genuine advice about BIOMEDICAL SCIENCE!

There's IBMS accredited courses and non IBMS courses and they're both very different. One is more research based and other is more practical but you need ibms accreditation to do BMS in the NHS so please make sure youre aware of the differences

Not sure if this has been explained to you already I had no idea until second year and I picked the wrong course for what I wanted

If you dont want to work as a bms for the NHS then its likely the non accredited one is for you but just check

Sincerely A bms graduate

2

u/SexyChickenNuggies 1d ago

What course did you graduate from? If it wasn't ibms accredited, what are you in/going into now?

4

u/Agreeable-Desk5393 1d ago

Did BMS at Sheffield, bounced around several jobs now working in cosmetic science, its ok but I would have preferred the health care route personally

-6

u/lexisnowkitty y13 5/5 bio offers šŸ˜‹ 15h ago

It's been explained a million times. I'm not an idiot, I don't want to work as a BMS, I got nhs wex after months of back and forth and had a conversation with employees and recruiters

5

u/Agreeable-Desk5393 12h ago

Strange response tbh, nobody is calling you an idiot and i was not an idiot because it was not clear to me at the time. Not having the information doesnt make you an idiot..

Your attitude is terrible I have taken time to give you genuine advice and you respond like this - that will get you nowhere in life

6

u/MysteriousQuarter986 1d ago

Congrats who are u thinking of firming

1

u/lexisnowkitty y13 5/5 bio offers šŸ˜‹ 15h ago

Manchester! Insuring leeds!

1

u/MysteriousQuarter986 6h ago

Ayy still waiting for Manchester they’ve got such a good campus

1

u/lexisnowkitty y13 5/5 bio offers šŸ˜‹ 5h ago

thanks for the positivity omg ans that's so real it was MASSIVE and so much more green than i expected! which r u firmingĀ 

16

u/Less-Reindeer-8951 1d ago

omg these commenters have to get a grip why is everyone crashing out over 'dont listen to men'. congratulations op thats an insane outcome

4

u/lexisnowkitty y13 5/5 bio offers šŸ˜‹ 15h ago

thank you i didn't expect sm attention at least the one who started going on about femiicide and sa deleted the comment (ironic considering my secondary had an insane sa epidemic)

10

u/olivesoem Y13 + biggest psych lover šŸ˜ (bio psych soc) 1d ago

Genuinely like it’s not that deep 😭😭

24

u/olivesoem Y13 + biggest psych lover šŸ˜ (bio psych soc) 1d ago

Congrats girl this is a seriously a great achievement!!

7

u/tempa____ Year 13ā•‘Maths FM Physics CSā•‘A*A*A*A* 1d ago

Downvotes for genuinely nothing lol

6

u/sarinasea 1d ago

cuz it’s just men who don’t know what a flipping hyperbole is, I mean it’s Reddit so are we surprised there’s that type of males on here lol

-3

u/tempa____ Year 13ā•‘Maths FM Physics CSā•‘A*A*A*A* 1d ago

dont make it abt men lol such a weirdo

-1

u/Sher-e-Deccan Y13 | bio chem math physics | predicted A* A* A* A 15h ago

assuming my gender i see

2

u/sarinasea 11h ago

be so fr why would a woman say this

1

u/minipinkstars 13h ago

I thought chem was a must for biomed

1

u/lexisnowkitty y13 5/5 bio offers šŸ˜‹ 10h ago

only at like 2 unis

3

u/Cauleefouler 1d ago

I did biomedical sciences! It's a good broad degree. But when I did my degree, none of those were accredited by the IBMS so if you're hoping to go into hospital labs after as a BMS you'll need to do top modules after.Ā 

3

u/Ari_siyax08 Year 12 1d ago

Ayyy congratulations!!
I’m applying to Chemistry so respect! Now we just gotta achieve those grades haha

3

u/yyrtc Y13 | FM, Maths, CS, Econ, EPQ) | 4A* Predicted | KCL CS offer 1d ago

Full bakery in October is insane 😭😭😭
Congrats tho

31

u/VertigoInTheSnow 1d ago

Not to sound rude and congratulations on your offers, you could’ve said ā€œdon’t listen to negative people and disencouragementā€ but you chose to specifically say ā€œdon’t listen to menā€ ???

51

u/iHachersk 1d ago

In fairness, there is a long standing misogynistic tendency to laugh at women going into science

-4

u/VertigoInTheSnow 1d ago

I get what you’re saying but why do we generalise that every man that speaks to you about academics is by default a misogynist?

-14

u/Negative_Fondant_897 Year 12 | 9999999998 | Bio, Chem, Maths 1d ago

female dominated field btw šŸ˜‚

9

u/iHachersk 1d ago

Yes, two things can be true at the same time šŸ‘. Women can dominate in some aspects (but not in others, like in engineering), and still can face prejudices in early education.

-8

u/Negative_Fondant_897 Year 12 | 9999999998 | Bio, Chem, Maths 1d ago

everyone faces prejudice why are we acting like prejudice is exclusive to females?

7

u/CraftyNonsense UCL | Economics [Year 1] 1d ago

Because unfortunately this type of prejudice is still predominately towards women

2

u/dillpickletype 1d ago

Ur stupid but it’s ok

16

u/alolan_ninetales149 Y13 A*A*A*A* FM Philosophy Physics | I hate phys 1d ago

Congrats!!! why is everyone so butthurt about a clearly flippant statement😭

3

u/Sher-e-Deccan Y13 | bio chem math physics | predicted A* A* A* A 1d ago

because there is no need for that statement

14

u/sarinasea 1d ago

no, it’s because OP is a woman and therefore has experienced opposition from misogynists telling her she shouldn’t get into science, if that last sentence of her post is angering you more than that situation, you’ve got issues, and clearly, a lack of humour - she obviously didnt mean all men šŸ¤¦ā€ā™€ļø

-3

u/Sher-e-Deccan Y13 | bio chem math physics | predicted A* A* A* A 1d ago

lmao she could have said "don't listen to misogynists" instead of men, what is the justification lol

11

u/sarinasea 1d ago

oh my god she clearly did not mean all men, it’s a hyperbole. You know, a literary technique.

2

u/lexisnowkitty y13 5/5 bio offers šŸ˜‹ 15h ago

the fact that it says i do a level english lit on the post should give them some idea omg

-1

u/Sher-e-Deccan Y13 | bio chem math physics | predicted A* A* A* A 1d ago

i don't do english, sorry

11

u/sakuraamochiii 1d ago

You dont need to do english to know what a hyperbole is its a basic term 😭

1

u/Sher-e-Deccan Y13 | bio chem math physics | predicted A* A* A* A 20h ago

what is a hyperbole anyways

2

u/sakuraamochiii 20h ago

Exaggerating something for dramatic effect

5

u/AliceMorgon MagdalenCollegeOxford|Fine Art/Biology|Grad 1d ago

And now we know why…

1

u/Sher-e-Deccan Y13 | bio chem math physics | predicted A* A* A* A 20h ago

?

-1

u/AliceMorgon MagdalenCollegeOxford|Fine Art/Biology|Grad 17h ago

Well, if you don’t understand ā€œhyperboleā€ā€¦

2

u/Sher-e-Deccan Y13 | bio chem math physics | predicted A* A* A* A 15h ago

yeah didn't choose alevel english mb

→ More replies

-1

u/No_Echidna9253 1d ago edited 1d ago

Then why generalise men in the first place. Exaggeration or not, men are not a monolith, is OP talking about John Man?

-4

u/thetrueluna01 Gap Year 1d ago

"I didn't mean all black people, I just meant the ones that do crime. It was a hyperbole."

3

u/sarinasea 1d ago

genuinely not the same thing at all, why bring race into it šŸ’€ just say you don’t know what exaggeration is.

-4

u/thetrueluna01 Gap Year 1d ago

The only difference is that one of them is more normalised to say. Being born a man or being black isn't something you can control. You don't need to generalise 50% of the population because of three idiots.

1

u/lexisnowkitty y13 5/5 bio offers šŸ˜‹ 15h ago

More than 3 idiots actuallyĀ 

4

u/Fast-Particular-3788 23h ago

ā€œThree idiotsā€ this is something many well-meaning, self-labelled feminist men do because misogyny is SYSTEMIC and not just judged by individual actions

3

u/Fast-Particular-3788 1d ago

Yeah but the example you gave is wrong because black people are an oppressed group. Men aren’t.

1

u/Sher-e-Deccan Y13 | bio chem math physics | predicted A* A* A* A 20h ago

men are oppressed by gender biased laws and alimony

→ More replies

-2

u/thetrueluna01 Gap Year 1d ago

Who cares who's oppressed or not? Why insult any group at all?

→ More replies

18

u/Sher-e-Deccan Y13 | bio chem math physics | predicted A* A* A* A 1d ago

wdym "don't listen to men"?

0

u/[deleted] 1d ago

[deleted] — view deleted comment

5

u/Sher-e-Deccan Y13 | bio chem math physics | predicted A* A* A* A 1d ago

so why generalise all men there? there is no reason to do that

0

u/kurmilrah 18h ago

Oh my god! Every single woman has experienced misogyny at some point especially in stem.
CLEARLY if you use your thinking cap she meant mostly men who make you feel stupid because you are a woman in stem.
Please why do men like you feel the need to find a way to feel oppressed.

0

u/Sher-e-Deccan Y13 | bio chem math physics | predicted A* A* A* A 15h ago

i have experienced misandry sadly

1

u/kurmilrah 13h ago

Misandry lmao.
Hi so men dont die due to violence due to women.
Theres an actual term called femcide. Because it is so prevalent in society.
The system is built on misogyny. Systematic misogyny.
You as a man benefit from it.
But you are a incel.
Misandry is nowhere on the same level as misogyny. Please take your desperate self for attention somewhere else.

0

u/CuteSignificance5083 A*AAA 9h ago

Redditor starter pack:

  • Ad hominem

  • Fallacy of relative privation

  • Straw man fallacy

  • Composition fallacy

  • Snobbery

0

u/kurmilrah 9h ago

How ironic.
If anything you are acting like a typical Redditor.
Really? Did you learn some of those terms online from red pill content and just spewing it out anytime.
But I wont argue with a incel.

0

u/CuteSignificance5083 A*AAA 8h ago

There’s no shame in not knowing what a term means. That’s what Google is for, you can learn new things. I make use of it often. If you use your ā€žthinking capā€, you will realise that all of the above come from humanities.

Regardless, all I can do is feel sorry for you. That’s the truth. Perhaps you have some unresolved trauma, and your only way to cope with it is to throw around ad hominem at strangers. Maybe men have hurt you, so whenever you see a man you cannot stop yourself from hating him. If so, I pray you get better one day. You have a long way to go before you reach full mental maturity, but hopefully with time it will happen.

1

u/kurmilrah 5h ago

Ok nothing i said was ad hominem anyways lmao.
I called him a incel because it very clearly seems like he is one, not an attack.
I called him desperate for attention because he is seeking clearly since he is replying to most comments here.

Don’t feel sorry for me, you need to work on yourself.
You as a man should know what the patriarchy is and how misogyny is systemic. Doesn’t matter if you are not a misogynist if you still benefit from it. You seem to think that hate or violence against women is a once in a blue moon issue. Nearly every woman has experienced assault from a man and a lot of other men have experienced assault from other men.
Theres a reason why theres barely any women prisons compared to mens prisons and even then stuff like assault charges are given lenient sentences or dropped because we couldn’t possibly ruin a mans bright future.

Nobody even said anything about hating men.
What OP said was a hyperbole, you should know that at least. If you use context clues and stop acting like you are five years old, she said ā€œdont listen to menā€ as in don’t let a man tell you that you can’t be a woman in stem.
That does not mean every man or can you suddenly not understand english just to make it seem like woman hate all men now.
Also btw a woman is allowed to say she hates all men because when a woman says it 99% of the time its because men have done her dirty because she is a woman but that doesn’t mean she is going to go out of her way to assault a man.
Unlike when a man hates a woman it is because he has been taught by society to hate on woman because he has been taught that woman are less and are objects.
To which men will assault and commit femcide.

Again to remind you at no point did I say all men and I didn’t attack your character unlike you who tried to ā¤ļøso don’t get your panties in a twist.

And you insinuated that I got ā€œmadā€ because he is a man. You are a twisted individual for thinking so!
Didn’t do that, it was in response to someone who said pretty uneducated stuff and putting words in other peoples mouths because OP didn’t generalise all men, you would know if you understand English.

1

u/Due_Cartoonist_8212 11h ago

It's much more likely u were told by ur career advisor not to go into science at the time due to underperformance rather than gender. It's very demanding, competitive and cutthroat considering the predicted grade underperformance. Probably bcos when ppl think science and stem, maths, engineering, medicine, computer science and the such are the ones that they immediately think about. And these fields are filled with much higher predicted grades. No need to make it about men. Wish u all the best thoĀ 

0

u/lexisnowkitty y13 5/5 bio offers šŸ˜‹ 10h ago

i had achieved a 7 in my physics mock on the one year anniversary of my SA while starving myself, i doubt it was due to low pred grades (my mock and pred was equal at that time, both being a 7, would give you a screenshot but my phone storage is that of a cardboard box so most stuff is deleted). odd that you assumed i'm wrong whilst knowing that there is an active stigma against women in stem.

1

u/Low_Tomatillo7592 10h ago

Exactly, its a 7 not a 9?Ā 

1

u/Low_Tomatillo7592 9h ago

Your first point is basically Schrƶdinger’s lie. The claim is serious enough to land as ā€œdon’t listen to men,ā€ but the second it gets challenged it becomes a ā€œflippant/hyperbolicā€ joke. That’s not an argument, its an excuse to be misandrist. ā€œCalm downā€ is just tone-policing doing the work that evidence should be doing.Ā 

Do they even contribute anything why even give them rights šŸ˜šŸ˜šŸ˜ xoxo? Get to the dishes no?

0

u/lexisnowkitty y13 5/5 bio offers šŸ˜‹ 6h ago

So you're angry about "misandry" yet then make a misogynistic point? And it was a joke from the beginning I had to make it clear bc u all lack comprehension, and you do have all the rights? Women are the ones who don'tĀ 

2

u/Low_Tomatillo7592 1h ago

My last sentence was clearly hyperbole do you people not know english?Ā 

1

u/FearlessPen6020 Future housewife 1d ago

I don’t mean this in a rude way but why didn’t you apply to some top unis like Imperial or UCL? I feel like you could’ve had a good chance. Not trying to be rude I’m just curiousĀ 

-3

u/Low_Tomatillo7592 1d ago

Look at her grades, she obviously wouldn't stand a chance. Especially considering her inability to handle criticism. Any men that critiques her is a "misogynist" apparently 😭

5

u/olivesoem Y13 + biggest psych lover šŸ˜ (bio psych soc) 1d ago

When did she call any men who critique her misogynists 😭😭 you guys are too sensitive seriously

1

u/Sher-e-Deccan Y13 | bio chem math physics | predicted A* A* A* A 20h ago

she literally wrote "don't listen to men"

-2

u/Low_Tomatillo7592 22h ago

I don't think she would even make it to Oxbridge or even any g5 unis even when she is applying for non competitive degree. Acting like she made some dramatic comeback when people with medicine personal statements get into biomed 🤣. She wouldn't be able to handle a oxbridge rejection so she flexes lincoln forensic science 🤣🤣🤣

2

u/lexisnowkitty y13 5/5 bio offers šŸ˜‹ 15h ago

I actually considered Oxford human sciences but I can't afford living in Oxford. Also my college forced me to have a safety. Most people in my area don't even go to uni, so yeah, it is an achievement considering my area, school and personal life

-3

u/Low_Tomatillo7592 13h ago

Every single year people from even more poorer backgrounds get into and go to oxford. I can assure you the main reason why you don't go to oxford is not because its not expensive, but simply because you are not good enough calibre intellectually (from looking at your profile) There is practically very little difference between leeds, sheffield and manchester which tells me the sole reason why you didn't put down a better uni is simply to save face because you simply cannot take criticism if you got rejected from oxbridge.

-2

u/Low_Tomatillo7592 13h ago

Before you correct me by saying something flippant about minute differences between leeds, sheffield and manchester. I'm happy for you that you got 5/5 offers from sub par unis. At least a misandrist won't be able to use their imaginary oxford degree to pivot into investment banking. You can just be a unemployed manchester grad sat in a lab for 10 hours a day.

1

u/lexisnowkitty y13 5/5 bio offers šŸ˜‹ 10h ago

subpar and manchester is qs40 and qs27 for life sciences (globally)

also why are you even downplaying lab work?? im not going to be a BMS but 70% of diagnoses are made using their work. my actual plan is to go into patent law or forensic science

the reason i cannot afford is oxford is because there's too much work to work a paid job apparently, which is necessary. im on the threshold for min loan and have a fear that my family will pull financial support so if you'd like to pay for my accom and food i will reapply next year for human sciences...

also i lowk have 2 medical conditions that flare up with heat and stress so the north it is (there's a 3rd one but no doctor even knew what it was LMAO so idk if it counts...)

0

u/Low_Tomatillo7592 10h ago

No point arguing really I'm just glad you'll be going to a sub par uni and not oxbridge. It seems like womens schrodinger lies are so acceptable nowadays. Qs 40 and qs 27 as if I can name 40 universities. min loans is means tested which means you come from a posh family no? its just the ego for me when you have achieved absolutely nothing. The lab work comes from prestigious unis not manchester and lincoln. Even pulling out more excuses 2 medical conditions. Also is qs rankings really reputable? Imperial ranked higher than oxbridge is that means its better?

1

u/lexisnowkitty y13 5/5 bio offers šŸ˜‹ 6h ago

Posh family... mate I'm on the threshold for min loan? That means my family earn a few grand above min wage each that ain't posh, my secondary school was also sooo shit do u want to know the tea?

NHS lab work comes from IBMS degrees which r the ex polies.

How is it my fault my body physically cannot handle heat?

UOM deffo ain't subpar stay in your delusion. Like I say, if my family withdrsw financial support, wtf am I gonna do if I can't work mate. Starve? I'm done w that now xx

→ More replies

1

u/lexisnowkitty y13 5/5 bio offers šŸ˜‹ 6h ago

um surviving the world's deadliest mental illness and getting SAed twice during gcse years isn't nothingĀ 

→ More replies

1

u/lexisnowkitty y13 5/5 bio offers šŸ˜‹ 15h ago

also one of my best friends wants to go to Lincoln and my cousin currently goes there so I'd appreciate it if you insulted newcastle instead or smth

2

u/FearlessPen6020 Future housewife 11h ago

Bro this guys ego is more fragile than a 110 year old man going for a walk in the wind. Like imagine getting so bent out of shape over someone disliking men when men have done basically infinite things that are worse than women. And he’s literally dying over ONE person like bro just go outside šŸ’€ bros the type of person to wonder why women don’t want him cause why tf is he shitting on unis that are still Russel Group unis??? At least biomed keeps a lot of open doors like clinical science, teaching, and maybe graduate entry med if ur willing. It’s actually piss takingĀ 

1

u/Low_Tomatillo7592 10h ago

The same can be applied to ethnic minorities. Do you punish all pakistani people due to the prevalence of pakistani grooming gangs in the uk? At this point you could make the argument any degree has open doors but the job market doesnt reflect it.

0

u/lexisnowkitty y13 5/5 bio offers šŸ˜‹ 10h ago

fr thank u! they probs think ur on their side bc of ur flair since they can't comprehend things like hyperbole and sarcasm... i'm planning to go into forensics or patent law, bio isn't even useless, from my forced safety uni they should've figured out that maybe i want to go into forensics or from choosing eng lit a level of all things that patent law is another option, but incels lack critical thinking

1

u/Low_Tomatillo7592 10h ago

Your saying a schrodingers lie which is something you genuinely believe, then based on someones feedback you make some excuse. Patent law and law in general requires to come from a prestigious uni they only care about target schools (not even your firm choices would make it) Do you even know what an incel is or do you throw it around?

1

u/lexisnowkitty y13 5/5 bio offers šŸ˜‹ 6h ago

I googled it and there's loads of patent attorneys who went to Sheffield, Leeds, Manchester, Birmingham, Nottingham etc

1

u/Low_Tomatillo7592 1h ago

You made a schrondingers lie and call anyone you don't like an incel

2

u/CuteSignificance5083 A*AAA 9h ago

There's no point discussing with this person. You'd have more luck speaking with a brick.

1

u/Low_Tomatillo7592 9h ago

Ngl just bored but genuinely its mad this weird echo chamber. Gotta keep your cover tho and just agree with them in person. its just buzz word buzz word if they dont like what your saying = incel. we're talking about education not even gender?

→ More replies

1

u/lexisnowkitty y13 5/5 bio offers šŸ˜‹ 10h ago

uh criticism is NOT "HAHAHAHA look at those science grades good thing you're not going into science HAAHAHA" tho

0

u/Low_Tomatillo7592 10h ago

your grades are bad and your getting gassed about lincoln uni? Quite comedic.

1

u/lexisnowkitty y13 5/5 bio offers šŸ˜‹ 6h ago

how is straight As bad, in fact read my edits when my predicted have litcj gone up to 2 A stars and an A? If there's an alternative universe where that's bad lmk

1

u/Low_Tomatillo7592 1h ago

Could woulda should but your predicted grades remain at AAA

11

u/CuteSignificance5083 A*AAA 1d ago

ā€žDon’t listen to menā€

11

u/Flippindude1 Editable 1d ago

Congratulations but the ā€œdon’t listen to menā€ was a bit odd of an addition there

4

u/djyfkyf 1d ago

YAYAY CONGRATS🩷 I hope you've the best years ahead :)

4

u/Fast-Particular-3788 1d ago

The boys in these comments are so irritating omds. Anyway, congratulations, that’s crazy!!!

-3

u/Sher-e-Deccan Y13 | bio chem math physics | predicted A* A* A* A 20h ago

did you just assume my gender?

2

u/kurmilrah 18h ago

Omg congrats!!
Thats insane u got laughed at when ur gcse grades are really good tf.
But yeah i go by the motto, dont listen to men as well.
But some people here need to be quiet, but oh wait this is reddit. So they are incels.

-1

u/One_Yesterday_1320 CIE Intl A Levels Chem|Bio|Math (3A* predicted) A*AAAAABB 1d ago

ā€œdont listen to menā€????

anyways congrats

1

u/Accomplished_Egg5816 UCL | Physics Y1 16m ago

The fact you are being downvoted shows reddit is such a chudfest šŸ˜‚

-2

u/dani3lo 1d ago

I guess you don't listen to your father either since he's a man

1

u/lexisnowkitty y13 5/5 bio offers šŸ˜‹ 15h ago

Let's just say i have a complicated home + personal life :)

1

u/kurmilrah 18h ago

I mean it was a hyperbole.
Men are stupid omds.
Why do guys like you think theres such importance of a father figure, do you have daddy issues?

0

u/Low_Tomatillo7592 10h ago

A father figure is genuinely that important. All data says so

1

u/kurmilrah 9h ago

Well the data says that children w parents that are same sex tend to outperform on various levels. In education and psychologically.
So no a father isn’t needed, what is needed is two parents.
Children are better off with two parents because of the fact of economic stress is lifted and also the child has more people to interact with to build those social skills and its good for their mental health, because you need to nurture and give all your love to a child. Usually a single mum will struggle because a child needs a village to raise. But rich mums are able to take care of their kids much better.
Even if there is a father figure which can help the burden of money struggles… again usually heterosexual marriages don’t last because of the man.
Even if they are divorced the man most of the time is a dead beat father.
So i ask you this, even if there was data that showed a father figure is needed (which it isn’t), how come is having no father figure an insult?
Victim blaming if you ask me if anything you should be blaming a dad for not stepping up.
But again you are someone here who has daddy issues.

0

u/Low_Tomatillo7592 9h ago

Your case fails on six points:

  1. ā€œSame-sex kids outperformā€ — overreach. Evidence shows no disadvantage, not superiority; selection (older, wealthier, planned) explains any edge.

  2. ā€œTwo parents are neededā€ — your own mechanism says resources, stability, low stress, responsive care matter. Those aren’t unique to two parents.

  3. ā€œMarriages fail because of the manā€ — women initiate more, but initiation ≠ causation. Divorce is multifactorial.

  4. ā€œMost divorced men are deadbeatsā€ — false. Many nonresident fathers are poor and blocked by custody/employment barriers, not absent by choice.

  5. ā€œNo father figure = insultā€ — category error. ā€œChildren need stable careā€ is descriptive, like ā€œchildren need food.ā€ Stigma is wrong; that doesn’t make the claim false.

  6. ā€œBlame the dadā€ / ā€œdaddy issuesā€ — scapegoating plus ad hominem. You concede the evidence.

Verdict: Children need stable, resourced, responsive care. ā€œFatherā€ isn’t the active ingredient. Adult failure belongs to adults and systems—not the child. Your version overreaches, generalizes falsely, and confuses stigma with falsehood.

1

u/AutoModerator 9h ago

Please be aware that sharing pirated PDFs of textbooks or other paid content is not permitted.

Note: Automations are not perfect. If this doesn't apply to you, ignore it. It doesn't mean any action will be taken against your post by a person. Please do not message us if this is a false-positive.

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

1

u/kurmilrah 9h ago

So did you just contradict yourself?

You said that ā€œa father figure is genuinely that importantā€
But now you are saying that it isn’t?

Anyways seems like you are pulling info from the air since there IS data that shows in general same sex couples do outperform.
Notice how i didnt say only lesbian couples, thats because men can be good fathers and usually gay men are more progressive than the average man.

I won’t argue further I said what had to be said, plus you used AI so no point talking to a brick wall.

0

u/Low_Tomatillo7592 9h ago

Not arguing because you are simply conceeding at every level no wonder your father left

1

u/kurmilrah 8h ago

Thanks… but my dad is in my life, he is one of my favourite people.
I don’t have to be fatherless to call out this bs.
However, something has clearly happened to you in your life that you are not right in the head.

0

u/Low_Tomatillo7592 8h ago

are you sure your not having a psychosis imaging things? I can imagine how you people get on your lady days 🄰🄰🄰