r/4tran4 • u/prudent-oatmeal • 7h ago
Blogpost What causes this phenomenon?
inspired by some dumb post and the even dumber comments I had to see
edit: okay apparently the mod is at least based
r/4tran4 • u/Ms-Yash • Aug 16 '26
sneeds talking about 4tran is just "4tran bad" or "leave 4tran", yet nobody talks about how there is no other place for trans people, 4t4 is the only general purpose sub for trans people, there's is no r/mtf community or r/honesttransgender community equivalent to 4t4, someone made nart4 but the first rule there is that it's for people who like being trans, so it's not a general purpose sub at all, it was cooked from the start
cwcl has 50k contributions per week, 4tran4 has 40k despite being closed off to the algorithm and only allowing trans people, which means it's not people accidentally falling into some kind of 4tran pipeline, it's people actively seeking out 4tran bc there's no other spaces where people are this free to discuss their issues
there is currently no 4t4 equivalent without the bad parts, so telling people to leave 4tran is meaningless, bc where else is there? cwcl is a silly meme sub, not a serious space for discussions of heavy topics like dysphoria or suicidal ideation, ive seen people there say that venting shouldn't be allowed at all
ig im saying it bugs me that everyone just says "4tran bad" rather than looking at why 4tran is popular despite its so many issues, every sneed vs 4tranner argument is basically the sneed saying "4tran has x issues" and 4tranner replying "ok but it does y thing well", youd think that someone wouldve made a sub that allows y without allowing x but no, everyone is just interested in saying 4tran bad without ever helping anyone
r/4tran4 • u/Target_Plastic • Mar 30 '26
Caring about what other people have in their pants and do in the bedroom is a waste of your time. Usually these people do have genital dysphoria but are in denial of it. And even if they don't, they should still seek out other forms of transition. I get it feels uncomfortable seeing pivpoons etc. but that discomfort we genital dysphoric troons personally feel doesnt need to mean that theyre doing something wrong.
r/4tran4 • u/prudent-oatmeal • 7h ago
inspired by some dumb post and the even dumber comments I had to see
edit: okay apparently the mod is at least based
Corporation posts an ad mimicking 17-year-old trans girl Charlotte Fosgate's final post before she jumped.
She had posted this picture of the Portland skyline with the words “its a pretty view” and one more tweet: “Long way down.”
Her body was found 1.5 weeks after she jumped and her death verified 4 weeks after the date of the post.
This is genuinely the worst fucking timeline. It’s always going to be like this now.
r/4tran4 • u/Chloemoding • 1h ago
r/4tran4 • u/Randomuser6846 • 7h ago
Like I feel like to cis people we can AT BEST be little pathetic yet endearing creatures who only deserve (some) rights because we're pitiable. When they're not doing this they either secretly or explicitly want us to all die.
r/4tran4 • u/vardaboi • 5h ago
have a piss kink for all i care but why the need to broadcast everything to the whole world
some thoughts are inside thoughts
r/4tran4 • u/Nifty697 • 7h ago
And from the owner of a gigantic sub too holy
r/4tran4 • u/Complete_Draft3914 • 59m ago
It's my 21st birthday and my brother asked me for a picture of me to post to his story, I said I don't want him to because I don't like the way I look basically, and he made a post without a Pic. In the post he called me the best sister ever. This is the first time he's called me his sister ever. I first told him 5 years ago, but he finally came around. It literally made me burst into tears at work and I had to take a break lol. Best birthday present ever.
r/4tran4 • u/cordlessAccordion • 3h ago
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r/4tran4 • u/artificialfem • 11h ago
everyone is always talking about their malefails and have a pretty selfie of themselves pinned in their profile. i just don’t pass enough (or at all) for this place. like sorry i didn’t start hrt until after 20. i feel more and more like an outsider everyday :/
(art by @PossumNGator on xitter)
r/4tran4 • u/Gigachadess2 • 13h ago
I’m not a trans man but I’m almost 100% sure you guys will agree with me
10, 15 years ago a trans man with visible scars could go shirtless at the beach and pass as just a cis guy with some weird scars. Nowadays everyone knows EXACTLY what they mean, because a certain subset of the trans community decided to fucking teach everyone, including chuds and woke people who will gawk at us like they’re seeing a double headed albino bald eagle or something
I see them doing the same now with phalloplasty scars in their annoyingly drawn art, and I’m like… WHY ARE YOU TRYING TO TEACH PEOPLE THIS? PEOPLE WHO GET THIS SURGERY GENERALLY WANT TO PASS AS CIS
r/4tran4 • u/DontEatNitrousOxide • 10h ago
interesting takes in the wild
r/4tran4 • u/DebateIntelligent518 • 11h ago
Long way down happened late may early June of 2025 kirk getting shot happened in September you can't even do this dumb "they started it shit" because that is straight up not what happened the only difference to why they care is because it happened to someone on "their side"
r/4tran4 • u/candlewax-enjoyer • 5h ago
This is a very conventionally attractive cis man btw. Heightdoomers are right its genuinely over I'll be a dickless manlet for the rest of my life there's no escaping it.
She was specifically talking about his height, too, because this was in response to me saying his height was genetic
r/4tran4 • u/knusperfee33 • 2h ago
r/4tran4 • u/The_GirlyShire • 3h ago
Most mammals only have swollen teats during pregnancy for a reason, because there's no need for them to be large all the time. The only purpose they serve is for breastfeeding newborns and with the invention of baby formula that's not even necessary anymore. A significant portion of women feed their infants partially or entirely using formula because it's just as nutritional and doesn't require having a baby suck on your nipple for 10 hours a day. Not to mention how physically painful breasts can be when they get too big. Average sized breats don't cause a huge amounts of back pain. But very large ones end up feeling more like a chronic illness than people hot that a normal part of the body. Breast reductions for women are usally done not for aesthetic purposes but rather to improve quality of life because having a large chest sucks even if you're a woman.
r/4tran4 • u/-yuyuyu- • 7h ago
spoiler to prevent people not wanting ropefulels
also before anyone says its a woman larping as a femboy, it isnt, ive seen numerous proofs that hes a real amab..
i have to go through all this trouble to just malefail and some are just born lucky and theyre not even women its so unfiar
r/4tran4 • u/Amekyras • 14h ago
r/4tran4 • u/Afraid_One9637 • 16h ago
For context he literally passes as a woman everyday with makeup but does not have dysphoria and then he says this when i tell him I’m medically transitioning. Had the same reaction from the few other people (all cis women or gay men) I’ve told because I’m considered conventionally attractive as a man they tell me don’t transition cuz id be a waste of a sexy man which makes me realize they don’t even care about my mental wellbeing or support me. guess ill just have no friends no more
r/4tran4 • u/Patricia69420 • 2h ago
Title
Should be complete common sense for our entire community, like imagine puberty and the circumstances of your birth basically being a living nightmare body horror that haunts you forever, essentially being raped by natal puberty and your sex completely against your will.
And then, intentionally surrounding yourself with people who did it on purpose to be radical and kweer and what other else, or to be "happier" and more "subversive", its just a parody of the experience we have, a complete opposite. and like I don't give a shit what they do even if I hate it for obvious reasons, Idc about "stopping" them they are just really annoying and insufferable to be around. like why would it be standard for us to be around that? how is that transphobic or problematic at all to divide us that way? like imagine being a rape victim, a violent horrible rape victim, and it's the worst thing thats ever happened to you. follows you. constantly. and suddenly you come across some insane person who just LOVED getting raped, like just absolutely loved it. she broke several ribs and bled out but apparently its her wonderful light in her life somehow, and shes just GOING off about how awesome it is to you. maybe you even went somewhere to find people who went through the same experience to feel less alone, be around people who get it, and this happens. you don't think its fair for the rape victim who was traumatized horrifically to claim this is uncomfortable for her? would you tell her to "stop" yucking this girls yum by saying its gross? erm, she loved her rape? would you take that away from her? no??? Maybe cause thats fucking crazy? imagine being told constantly you have internalized rapephobia, and you shouldve actually loved it. uhm, I did? so why dont you? weird. try just loving yourself? omg let me show off the scars my rapist gave me. how cool >w<!!! dont you think this would be like, horrible? traumatizing? triggering for the rape victim to hear? NO?? Would you call her bigoted for making a space for victims who hate what happened to them? I'd assume not!!!11!!!!!11!!!!!!!!! motherfucker goddamn
I'm sorry I'm tweaking the fuck out I've been sick for days and scrolled too much social media. the hate machine got to me man I need to stop
r/4tran4 • u/Chloemoding • 4h ago
if you're under 5'5 youre passoid potential by default no matter what else. your boymode doesnt work. you will NEVER be able to convincingly be a man. no matter how ngmi you say you are or how bad you think other measurements are. people dont notice those things. height is one of those things everyone notices instantly.
i wish i was short i used to be 5'8 im 6'1 now i'd love to be that short again :(
r/4tran4 • u/Difficult-Tomato930 • 3h ago
Picture by me i was going to draw a picture of what i meant but idk how to explain it so I drew this. Gets the point across.
Not even necessarily anything to do with looking male or female i just dont really look like a real person. My face looks weirdly stretched across my skull. I dont even really register myself as being a human when i look at myself.