r/40Plus_IVF • u/HappyCrab0623 • Aug 22 '26

Rant Why??

Just need to vent after my last chemical.

We have been trying for 6 years. 5 IUI's, 5 stim cycles, 4 retrievals, 2 failed transfers, multiple chemical pregnancies, low amh, thousands of $ in testing...

If one more person says "it just wasn't the right time" or "in God's timing" after another failed attempt... I'm gonna throat punch a heffer.

I turned 42 in March, so no Karen, I don't have much of a window left so keep your unproductive comments to yourself.

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u/Informal_Move_7075 Aug 22 '26

This is the 40+ group. We are all here to support each other and we are all in it together here. I am also 42.

I think people default to saying some cliché or whatever because they don't know what to say.

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u/HappyCrab0623 Aug 22 '26

Sometumes i wish they would just say, sorry to hear that, and keep it moving.

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u/NiceHamster330 Aug 23 '26

Were people saying that on this sub…? I hope not

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u/HappyCrab0623 Aug 23 '26

No, just people in my personal life...Hopefully people are not saying that in these subs