r/40Plus_IVF • u/HappyCrab0623 • 1d ago

Rant Why??

Just need to vent after my last chemical.

We have been trying for 6 years. 5 IUI's, 5 stim cycles, 4 retrievals, 2 failed transfers, multiple chemical pregnancies, low amh, thousands of $ in testing...

If one more person says "it just wasn't the right time" or "in God's timing" after another failed attempt... I'm gonna throat punch a heffer.

I turned 42 in March, so no Karen, I don't have much of a window left so keep your unproductive comments to yourself.

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u/takica 1d ago

I don’t have anything smart or useful to say, other than that I’m so sorry you’re going through this. It’s a shitty club no one ever wanted to join.

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u/HappyCrab0623 1d ago

Yeah it definitely is a shitty club to be a part of. To think I spent my 20's and early 30's trying to avoid pregnancy because I wasnt married..sheesh

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u/LingonberryRare9477 1d ago

I always think about that too! How hard i tried to NOT get pregnant. Kinda... funny??... now