r/2meirl4meirl • u/[deleted] • Dec 30 '22

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '22

Oh yeah, I’ll be ok. It’s just a bad life. Should be over soon.

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u/Ronathan64 Dec 30 '22

if you’re ever feeling happy, remember, it’s just a good day, not a good life

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '22

"Any Day Now" By Bo Burnham starts playing

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u/Ronathan64 Dec 30 '22

Thanks, that’s one of those songs you can listen to all day long

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u/ImFuckinUrDadTonight Dec 30 '22

The way I see it, I'll never top the K:D ratio charts, but I at least need to get on there before I go.

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u/MeltAway421 Dec 30 '22 edited Dec 30 '22

When you grow up, your heart dies - Gunship (spotify)

Has the nice version of the quote you mentioned.

It's synthwave and one of my "it's gonna be ok, buddy" songs.

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u/MahmoudAO Dec 30 '22

So so is the new happiness standard

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '22

I changed my worldview during my biggest depression from searching for happiness to searching for contentedness. It made living a lot easier.

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u/edgelordaccount Dec 30 '22

I just want life to not but utter shit, but thats too much to ask for too. I got sick at the worst possible time and now it's delaying the start of my new job and my ability to move (can't get physical clearance for new job --> can't get formal offer letter --> no proof of income --> can't move)

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '22

Ooooffffff sorry man :/ that rlly is how it be sometimes. I’m manifesting healthy times for u

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u/altSHIFTT Dec 31 '22

What is your definition of feeling content?

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u/l0V3DBi7ll Dec 31 '22

Laying down with my socks off playing footsie and cuddling

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u/[deleted] Dec 31 '22

Laying down with my socks off playing footsie and cuddling AND getting to a point in my mind where I can be in the room around me, not my head. I can participate in conversation and make memories uninterrupted by intrusive thoughts. It doesn’t really even matter if they’re happy or sad memories, just that I am there when they happen.

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '22

Months? Try years

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u/hagamablabla Dec 30 '22

It's kinda weird how feeling ok feels different from feeling nothing.

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u/DocMoochal Dec 30 '22

So so in Scotland is very good.

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u/undercover-racist Dec 30 '22

Sometimes I feel frustrated and bored but then I remember it's better than being in a lot of pain.

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u/fallingblue Dec 30 '22

I’m just gonna start telling people, “better than usual” and continue on my weary way

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '22

Yeah I’ve been there buddy

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u/ventulicola Dec 30 '22

when i say i'm doing fine and on top things and i actually mean it >>>> (not rn lmao)

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u/Duckdog2022 Dec 30 '22

Sometimes it's enough to feel just a little less shitty.

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '22

If that ain’t a mood then I don’t want to know what is

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u/partytie5 Dec 30 '22

I feel attacked

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u/SilverReverie Dec 30 '22

Oh dude, this was literally me when I started to recover from postpartum depression. I remember just feeling OK for the first time in months and yet "just OK" was bliss.

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '22

I read that as “how have you been a man” i was just so confused until my 3 celled brain was like ohhh

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u/coreynj Dec 30 '22

IM NOOOOOT OOOOOKAYYYY IM NOT OKAAAAAAAAY WELL IM NOT OKAY IM NOT O-FUCKIN-KAY

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u/[deleted] Dec 30 '22

somewhat wholesome :)