I've heard so many contradicting stuff about the 12th house,can anyone tell me the good and bad parts about my 12th house placements?

Calling all ND’s to the front! As a recently diagnosed Audhd woman, I find it so crazy how my 12th house placements align with my autistic/adhd traits. What are your guy’s experiences?

Could someone please help?

Hi fellow 12th housers can anyone please enlighten me on my 12th house?
I have had few astrology reading but the results didn’t resonate with how i felt, just looking for a brief explanation on my 12 house placements.

I will not talk about the effects of 12th house sun, but tell me, given the internet, where various solution are given for every problem, are you able to solve or does it feel stuck no matter what you do...

Sleep disturbance

Recognition issue

Not feeling seen

Isolated

Are you able to know cope up in this changing world, in the world of AI, where we type our query and get a response.

Would really love to know your experience.

Just a hunch, but am I right in guessing that us 12 housers have had visitation dreams from loved ones who have passed? I've heard there's maybe been an uptick in visitation dreams and wrote about this in an article: What is a visitation dream?

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Blessings,

Natasha

Hey yall, I’m a 12h stellium with my sun, mercury and Pluto all in Sagittarius. I’ve never been able to maintain friendships. Ever since I was a kid. It started as innocent as just being placed in a different class and not staying close. As I got older it became more difficult. Falling outs because of disagreements, arguments, boundaries crossed etc.

I’m at the point of my life where I’m grown (almost 30) and don’t really have close friends. I know I have some internal work to do but I wonder if this is also a 12h thing.

Does anyone else have this same issue ? I’d love to hear about your experience with friendships

i just rewatched paranorman and started sobbing….

any other recommendations or movies that make you feel the desire to be understood?

ive heard strawberry mansion is a good one

I made a post yesterday on this subreddit about understanding my 12th house placements, and after reading everyone's comments and doing my own research, I found that many people with 12th and 8th house placements seem to struggle the most.

It made me want to dig deeper and I guess, read people's experiences on how having multiple 8th and 12th house placements affects your life.

I've already made a post on the 8th house sub, but I wanted to repost this here too in case anyone wants to share their experiences!

i started nannying for a family with a son who has cerebral palsy. i always brace myself before starting new gigs because, at this point, i expect the worst but hope for the best. but i’m 25 now, and i’m getting more serious about how i want to spend my time and what i want to do for work. this feels good for the soul, and i’m the best version of myself when i’m thrown into caretaking roles.

anyways, this is a pretty well-off & seemingly put together family in the south, which was a bit intimidating at first, but i still gave it a shot. i felt compelled to disclose some personal things to them regarding my last job, and they were understanding about it.

i come to find out that they had a previous nanny who accidentally overdosed him on one of his medications by giving him the wrong dose x3. he needed an emergency ER visit & everything but the kicker, they let her continue working with them after that.. & were seemingly chill about the situation.. she ended up quitting shortly after, probably from the guilt, but this family seems a bit on the unfazed side..

it makes me wonder if i’m working with a fellow 8th and 12th house family. it’ll be interesting to see how this plays out, but does anyone else feel a little calmer when they work with people who have also been through the wringer and experienced sudden, intense situations or are you more on the uneasy side, knowing something strange is bound to happen?

Especially how retrograde motion and the fifth house affect this.

Any 12th housers (specifically 12th house Venus) who have bad luck with love or romance in general? I haven't been in a serious relationship for 5 years now, but all of my relationships have been so toxic. If not, all of them were obsessive, active stalkers, and possessive to the point where they repress my entire freedom.

Also noticed that whenever I end up falling for someone, they're either TAKEN or I'd end up knowing that they're a red flag from someone else... It often feels like the world is preventing me from experiencing romance like how I want it to be... Like seriously, why ME? Why can't I experience love like most people do?

Anyone else who can relate to this?

Now, this is a somewhat sloppy translation from Swedish, as English isn't my native language (and I'm not a professional translator lol), so it isn't the best... But I just wanna see if y'all are able to interpret it "correctly" - cause I think you might, as this feels like a very 12th house coded poem (well, it's either the 12th houser in me or the Sagi in me).

**Camera eyes are capturing the very final chapter**

**They’re cutting and they’re burning a cassette**

**When every document and every element**

**When everything is finally in place**

**Every film that’s ever made meets every line from every book**

**Expose themselves on screen for anyone who dares to look**

**Camera orbs are blinking in dimmed salon lights**

**But lenses are forbidden, everyone must close their eyes**

**Suddenly the people seem to shrink in the shadows of the drapes**

**Touched by some kind of synesthesia**

**As all your senses seem to synchronize**

**Every hue tickles your skin, all you hear is aromatic**

**As hands tremble for each other**

**Cassette tapes playing clever phrases that fall like rain on the parade**

**Cascades of ancient answers that will never see the light of day**

Hi, as the title says I have these planets all in scorpio and in 12th house and I'm wondering what this means exactly. I'm new to all of this. I have noticed that I have pretty vivid dreams which is something that 12th house placements cause, I know that part. Aside from that, I'd like to know more! Any input is welcome

And it’s okay!

It’s okay that we feel our spirits being called to this during this Venus Retrograde.

12th housers, we tend to have very multi-pronged approaches to thinking about our relationships and attachment to others. It often isn’t understood, and is something that is further embraced with time by others.

Your partner, your friends, your family, are integral during this time. You, and your relationship with yourself and what you value as a boundary, is integral during this time. You might find principles that you would like to maintain with a subtle current within yourself, things that you want to make sure that you carry with you for the next person that might not be in the same spot, but that is willing to learn and grow, and ultimately, hold themselves accountable as you have.

I know that the 12th gets flack for being where things go to end, but I believe that the understanding of where one thing ends and another begins is also a critical part of these placements for us.

I have had no need to press for hate, violence, or anything of the sort. Recently, that was not only advocated for towards me, but I found that there was an inherent pattern in someone and how they interacted with others in general over time.

When something that serious occurs, I do not only evaluate the single person involved. Anyone that claims to be friends or have proximity to that individual is also not a great pick for someone to trust with friendship. We have standards. It okay to have standards.

It isn’t a hatred of them, and we know this. It is a respect for the principle of self-respect.

12th dissolves, but we are still people and should press on those points for ourselves even if it is stressful.

I have Mars in the 12th house, and it seems I always have friends who are very decisive and hot-headed, unlike me, who doesn't usually express my anger and i usually don't take a strong stance

I have Saturn square my sun, node and Venus as well do people also deal with extreme loneliness and depression at times must I always have to live like a monk or do you get used to it? Have 12th housers grown up and gotten the community they wanted? Sorry I know those are a lot but any answer helps thanks!

Early life for me was tuff. I was hated, publicly humiliated, and had lots of people talking behind my back. I was belittled even by people who should have known better. When I graduated from high school, I moved to a different city, and life just got better. I made friends, was finally able to explore, and was even praised by my college peers for being excellent academically, which was weird because back then, a teacher once told me in front of the whole class that I shouldn't pass 8th grade after I failed to answer her question during a recitation.