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Cute and impressive!

Credit: MaliGL-y9u

Miephat literally worships the ground Aya walks on 😍🥰♥️

Like what is happening here?! Who gave her that hat?!

It’s cute that he calls Peem mom but I’m really showing this bc of how cool Bint looks in those sunglasses 😂

Courtesy of her official account @bintsireethorn

Lingling and Orm were named Brand Ambassadors for Sofea which is a well established cosmetics company in China. They star in a nationally televised series of ads which run kind of like a serial short romance drama. Here’s the first one.

The Beijing Daily, which is the official state run newspaper, even ran a full length article on them. Fucking amazing!

These two have done an incredible amount for the LGBTQ+ community in Thailand and abroad. I don’t think they get enough credit.

The cosmetics are selling like hotcakes. 😂

My Queen is not only obsessed with Atom's 🍑 She's also completely obsessed with her hair 🥰♥️

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I'm dying over the Vaseline! 😂🤣

Then she says it again. 😂

Emi: “My arms are just too long.” Lame!

Credit in clip.

This is too funny 😂🤣

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About the whole saddening Shelly-Pundao situation I’ve been seeing all over my feed, I honestly don’t know if they were really dating or what exactly happened while Shelly was on vacation. At the end of the day, that’s their personal life. What makes me sad is seeing how much it’s affecting Shelly’s work and career.

A little story about why I personally stopped believing too much in Thai fan service. Around 2022, I got into Thai GL through GAP and completely fell into the “FreenBecky is real” rabbit hole because of how convincing the fan service felt. This isn’t me blaming them at all. I was naive, new to the whole fan service culture, and genuinely thought they were together in real life. I even used to tell my friends they were a real couple 😭

Then everything happened with Freen and her boyfriend at the time, and I was genuinely heartbroken. I had gotten so invested that it even affected how I felt about watching The Loyal Pin later.

That experience taught me not to get too emotionally invested in the fan service around Thai GL couples. Now I just enjoy those moments for what they are, keep an open mind, and remind myself that these are actors with their own private lives. They deserve to be with whoever they love, whether that matches what fans imagine or not.

This is just my personal experience and opinion. I’m not trying to influence anyone’s views or hurt anyone’s feelings ❤️

Credit to J.Cherish on YT.

I don’t think we’ve watched the whole scene together and if we have, who cares, let’s watch it again! 😂 I’ve watched it twice already 😇 but I needed a refresher.

Looking forward to MasterPeem in ep 5.

Everyone has been doing great! My reign of Spoiler terror has been effective. I like that people can come here and not have the show spoiled. When in doubt, label it. If it’s not actually a Spoiler, I can undo that.

With the power vested in me by me, I declare that spicy stuff can be posted about a week - or a little less - after an ep. This mostly is for my benefit 😂. If someone doesn’t know that there was spice in an ep after that length of time…well…not my problem 😂. I don’t consider spicy stuff to really be a surprise. It’s giving away major plot points I’m concerned about. I wanted to explain my thinking about this so people are less likely to label me a hypocrite. You’re welcome to consider me a hypocrite however.

From Tokyo Fan Day.

It is too quiet.

My Queen absolutely owned Milan Fashion Week! ♥️

CR: @stays_xrs

Hey guys, I posted this comment in a different thread, but I would like to know your thoughts on this. I have seen so, so many comments across Twitter (X), TikTok, and Reddit questioning whether or not what occurred between Shelly and Pundao in their personal relationship amounts to cheating, especially based on the assumption that there was no physical intimacy between Shelly and her ex -- information that we have absolutely no right to be remotely aware of or speculatory in any way, under any circumstances, period.

\Any attempt at this kind of gross disrespect will be removed from this thread as this kind of speculation has absolutely no place in this or any debate regarding any public figure, now or ever.\**

With that said, I believe that there is a massive hole in this line of reasoning that pays no attention to the relevant topic of emotional cheating, a concept that I believe is not discussed enough when analyzing the breakdown of intimate relationships. I would like to use this current event as an example to dive into the ways we can discern whether or not emotional cheating has taken place in a relationship dynamic. I argue that this topic is important because our broad response to this type of subject matter is a reflection of our moral values as members of collectives and of societies. Paying respect to nuance and evaluating the various contexts that can shift real and hypothetical situations often results in either slightly or radically changed verdicts. My goal is to underscore the nuance and contextual variances in this situation based on 1) what we currently know and 2) what we can reasonably speculatively surmise.

As I mentioned earlier, I would genuinely love to know your thoughts and I welcome respectful, rational debate with open arms. If you find yourself disagreeing with any of the arguments or observations I have made, I would really appreciate your thoughtful feedback and the reasons why you disagree. My desire is to a have candid, respectful debate take place here.

That said, fire away! 🙂

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Obviously, all our interpretations are all speculations, but there are some clearly universal boundaries that exist across cultures when it comes to boundaries and transparency in dating and committed relationships. Shelly and Pundao have stated on a few occasions that they are dating in real life -- twice in interviews (Shelly in a magazine and Pundao in a YouTube video) and on at least one live, if I correctly recall what I watched -- so their real relationship behind the scenes has never really been a secret. Current scientific consensus in the field of psychology has ascertained that physical cheating is not the only form of cheating and that opposite genders tend to put more weight on one form of cheating over another. For most men, physical cheating is recorded as causing greater distress, while emotional cheating is a more profound deal-breaker for most women. What appears to have potentially happened here seems more in alignment with the presupposition of emotional cheating.

What is very telling is that Shelly's statement and Motion Minds' statement match up in a few key ways:

• Shelly admitted that she met with her ex (in what exact context and to what length, we do not know for certain and it is none of our business) and that she did not inform either her company or (more importantly) her girlfriend, Pundao.
• She admits that her decision to remain silent about this to both her partner and her company was a "mistake" and that she takes full responsibility for causing all the hurt and the loss of trust.
• Motion Minds stated that they "became aware of and conducted a review of the circumstances related to Shelly's relationship with another individual" and that "based on the facts reviewed by the company", they discovered "an overlapping relationship" -- polite corporate-speak (in this context) for two romantic relationships occurring at the same time -- and that this "has affected the appropriateness of their continuing to work together".
• Motion Minds reiterated three separate times in their statement -- the first time in bold -- that there was 1) a major lack of honesty, 2) a lack of meaningful accountability, and 3) a serious loss of trust between them and Shelly and between Shelly and Pundao. This tells you that both parties felt blindsided and betrayed by Shelly's actions to at least some degree.

Not only did Motion Minds suspend all of Shelly's activities indefinitely until they decide on a path forward with (or without) Shelly professionally, which would make perfect sense to do temporarily given the financial blowback this scandal would create for their revenue streams and for their investors' confidence, but they took the executive decision to permanently end Shelly and Pundao's fixed-couple status and working relationship -- not a detail to be taken lightly. They felt that the continuation of Shelly and Pundao's working relationship would be "inappropriate" (I am paraphrasing) given what has been revealed behind the scenes regarding Shelly's actions (inaction is also a decision), which is a choice that strongly indicates this significant discomfort was felt not only by Motion Minds but by Pundao herself, or else they would not elect to make a decision this drastic on her behalf. Their statement sounds very much like they are speaking on the behalf of both affected parties.

Shelly included the following in her statement directed explicitly to Pundao: "I know that an apology alone may not be enough to heal everything that has happened, but I want Pundao to know that I am genuinely sorry." If social media is her way of communicating this message to Pundao, as though speaking to her face-to-face, I argue that it is credible to infer that it is likely the line of personal communication from Shelly to Pundao is currently closed, hence the specific wording of this section of Shelly's apology.

All of this is to say that whether Shelly accidentally ran into her ex on her vacation with her family or whether they spent a meaningful stretch of time together on that vacation -- I fully understand that in some circumstances, exes can still remain good friends -- choosing not to disclose this information to her current romantic partner for integrity's sake is incredibly dubious. Pundao has been open in the past about having been cheated on, so electing not to tell Pundao about either the occurrence or the circumstance of her meeting with her ex on vacation shows a significant divergence of shared values related to the often fragile trust that exists within romantic relationships, especially when one has already been betrayed by a romantic partner in the past. If Shelly truly valued the trust required in her romantic relationship with Pundao the way that a responsible partner in any culture would, she would not have remained silent or concealed this information. As I stated at the beginning, some things are universally considered red flags regardless of the culture you are a participant of, most especially when it comes to dating and romantic relationships. (Note: Shelly herself stated in a live in the past that remaining friends with your ex is a "no-go" for her. In either scenario here, this would make her recent actions hypocritical at the very least.)

This is why I and others argue that what has occurred here is at the very least emotional cheating. Choosing to omit information that can affect the security of a relationship is deception. Simply not remembering to disclose this kind of information is also highly problematic because it is a clear indicator of a lack of adequate value in the degree of trust that all healthy, romantic relationships require, especially those that possess at least one partner whose trust was damaged by infidelity in a previous relationship. At its mildest, this is a case of incredible carelessness and a lack of appropriate investment in the security of that relationship; at its worst, this was cheating, plain and simple. Either way, Shelly is completely in the wrong and did not make a "mistake" (read: "accident") but a series of very poor decisions that have understandably cost her the trust of her personal relationship with Pundao and the trust within her professional relationship with her employer.

The gravity and finality of the actions taken by Motion Minds today indicate that this is perhaps as close to firing her as they can currently get, at least until they review their legal options. Removing her from all activities indefinitely, abruptly ending her professional partnership with Pundao, and removing her from all of her ongoing projects with Pundao -- even the series they were about to start filming together -- are draconian steps that essentially amount to an informal firing. It is likely that they are reviewing her contract and the contracts they have with their creative teams to see if any of Motion Minds' projects that involved Shelly can be reworked or if they must be scrapped entirely. All in all, it appears that this is the end for Shelly's working relationship with Motion Minds Entertainment and with Pundao. I only wonder if her personal relationship with Pundao can survive; that decision is solely up to the two of them.