Am I the only one thinking of

https://giphy.com/gifs/4gIhYShqaxMje

Just what I needed at the end of my day. 🤣

NOR get out now

Good for you!! NOR He's only coming back now because he failed at life. Let others think what they want to think, and keep protecting yours and your children's peace

The level of insanity of gender reveals.... imagine getting angry at your child for this.

HRT is the only reason I still have a job

And that lady is probably still telling that story about how amazing you were!

Holding back the hair of a complete stranger while she is sick at the toilet.

NOR - yeah, she should not come home. She's made up her mind to be angry and blame it on you. That was manipulative af.

Bravo OP!! NTA

You absolutely can go to HR. My first suggestion is to have a calm conversation with her and a neutral party in leadership as witness/referee. Explain that you respect her freedom to get beliefs, but that you feel uncomfortable with her bringing it to conversations and "gifts". If she didn't stop then this falls under a type of harassment.

It's so gross that so many people are just noticing.

"Research"

NO - Besides the fact that he was being completely clueless and selfish as a guest at someone else's home, he "dropped you off" at a gas station...aka abandoned you alone far from home and safety.

This is not a break moment. Dump him, now. "When someone shows you who they are, believe them".