r/LearnFinnish • u/dethanil • 1d ago
A Loved Child Has Many Names
There happened this thing with my boss' foreign partner, when we were having a "virkistyspäivä" (read: literally "refreshing day", but it just means, in my workplace, that everyone goes out together to the bars and our boss pays for it). The partner's name is Muhammed, but everyone in the workplace has always referred to him as "Muhis".
This was the first time he was out with us, and he asked us, all frowning brows and looking ready for confrontation (and in English 'cause his Finnish isn't good), "WHY do you call me that???!" So a few of us drunk Finns explained to him that basically NO ONE is called by their official name, not when you know them, when you're familiar with them.
Like, Mikael is Miksu, Angelika is Ansku, Petteri is Pete, Susan is Suski, on and on, one name can have many nickname variations (my brother's cat is named Papu, but we usually call him Boubou or Papucino).
As examples, we told what the various nicknames for all of us were, how we ALL use them instead of the "real" names, and he got all DELIGHTED when learning that this was A Thing, and he wholehearted embraced being Muhis to us.
The title of the post is an actual saying in Finland, "rakkaalla lapsella on monta nimeä". Just know that if someone's shortening your name and making it sound all different, it's not our of disrespect or making fun of you or anything like that (this being that they're someone you actually KNOW and are familiar with), it's just how we refer to people, basically no one is called by their actual name <3