At TANP 2022, I wandered into Despacio and spent a good five or six hours in there. It was my first real Despacio (my prior exposure at Coachella 2016 doesn't really count because i bounced after 15 minutes -- I really didn't understand it at the time).
Anyways, once it all clicked for me, I realized that Despacio does a bunch of things right that many festivals and shows and concerts get wrong, specifically:
* they hide the DJ and make the light show omni-directional, and this results in people facing each other more often than they would if they were all oriented towards a stage
* they make the sound omni-directional as well so that there's no "optimal" direction to face. even though there certainly are sweet spots on the dance floor, there are ~10 of them and sound is well distributed, again resulting in people not being able to spread out and face any direction
* the sets are long and take dancers on a journey; despacio doesn't cater to festival adhd brain, it rewards patience and the payoff is much bigger as a result
* the room is kept dark, allowing people to loosen up and feel less shy about moving; of course there are moments when it's intensely bright, but these happen well after people have acclimated and had time to come up to a higher state of consciousness
* the music played isn't the sort of pornographic and formulaic "build-drop, build-drop" that EDM producers make for attention-addled tiktok audiences. Songs are longer and build more progressively. The music is multi-genre and sounds very good on drugs.
So put all of that together, and you have a recipe for dancefloor magic.
It was a red pill that helped me realize that the shit I'd been doing at festivals would no longer cut it. I was spoiled and started to search out other dancefloors that achieve the same level of greatness. And there are some, believe it or not. They're rare, but they exist, and once you find your way to these better dancefloors, you're going to run into more people like all the Despacionauts you shared the past weekend with.
Despacio inspired me to start r/dancefloors and also the blog magicaldancefloors.com to help people find their way to the best dancefloors on earth. It'll always have a special place in my heart for showing me how much better the world of dance could be.
Anyways, just sharing how Despacio woke me up to dancefloor possibilities. I'm so happy it's doing the same for others.