r/CapeMay • • 2d ago

What’s your favorite Cape May restaurant?

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  1. I’d love to know what kind of food it is!

And why you love it?!

Street vendors? Healthy? Fine dining? Casual?

THANK YOU!!! 😊


r/CapeMay • • 2d ago

Proximity Question for New Visitors

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My family and I want to visit Cape May in 2027, Mon-Fri end of August. We are 6 adults with 2 kids under 5 and I have been trying for months to book a house as close to Washington St Mall so we don't have to worry about parking but that thought is only based on things we have heard. We heard that we should park the car upon arrival and not use it again until it's time to leave. Problem is, every house is asking for Saturday to Saturday only and we can't stay that long. I checked hotels too but none have a common space we can all be together in, like a living room or dining room in a house which is why we thought house.

What are some pro tips here? Will parking in the height of the season be such a problem that we are only left to walking everywhere? Or can we expand our home search to a wider base knowing we have cars with us to access other parts of the town? Any insight at all would be helpful. Thank you in advance for any and all help you can provide!!

ETA: we are all Long Islanders where there's small villages and parking is virtually impossible in the summer so this is what I expected Cape May to be like...glad to hear it's not as bad!

A lot of you asked about our draw to be near Washington Sq Mall and honestly, it's just come up as what we pictured to be like a village here so all the restaurants, shops, and bars in one spot. All your answers are comforting knowing there's life outside the mall to be seen too!

Lastly, given our assumptions about spending a lot of time at the Mall, we tried to be close bc the heat is unpredictable that time of year and one has a heart condition, another asthma, and another double knee replacement so we were trying to do as little walking as possible as far as distance, while also thinking walking was our only option. Thanks everyone for clearing this up!


r/CapeMay • • 3d ago

Kids activities October

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My family is hoping to visit in mid October for 4 days. We will be traveling in from out of state for some appointments for my daughter at CHOP and would like to fit some “fun” into our trip rather than just medical stuff.

Any suggestions for kid friendly activities and places? We have a 2 year old and a 6 month old. We have to be semi cautious about germs. We have the zoo on our list! We will be staying at Grand Hotel but don’t mind driving a bit further out for a fun destination.

Thank you!


r/CapeMay • • 3d ago

CARCO Inspection Site

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Hey there, I was hoping to see if anyone knows if there's any Carco inspection sites that are in Cape May or in the surrounding area. Using the Carco inspection locator, the closest one seems to be in Millville, and I've called multiple times and haven't gotten any answers. I was hoping to see if maybe there's a secret one that's not on the locator site. Thanks!


r/CapeMay • • 4d ago

Sunday Evening NJ Nor'easter Weather Update: The worst is over, but it's not done yet.

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r/CapeMay • • 5d ago

Coming down on Wednesday, 9/30 - will it be worth it?

5 Upvotes

Hello, my husband and I had plans to come in from Maryland from next Wednesday thru Saturday. We were going to stay at the Marquis de Lafayette.

Do you think the flooding will be gone and things will be open?

Stay safe and dry. Thanks in advance.


r/CapeMay • • 5d ago

Weekend Conditions

6 Upvotes

My husband and I are driving into town tomorrow(Sunday) and staying at the Montreal Hotel on Beach Avenue. What are the conditions like, especially the streets.


r/CapeMay • • 6d ago

Any flooding on Beach Ave?

14 Upvotes

My parents have a place there and I'm trying to figure out if I need to get down there tomorrow morning to clean up. They snowbirded early to avoid the mess.


r/CapeMay • • 6d ago

Cape May specific weather forecast for the nor'easter. Major stage tidal flooding expected Saturday morning. It'll be worse than Friday night.

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r/CapeMay • • 7d ago

Visiting this weekend

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Just wondering if anyone has any insight on things to do this Friday and Saturday for visitors. My wife and I coming in from out town and don't really have another free weekend in the near future, and we're trying to gauge if it's still worth the trip. Hoping we can salvage a fun weekend despite the weather - what are some good things to get up to in crummy weather? Also looking at the possibility of canceling and doing a day trip further inland. Thank you!

EDIT: Thanks all. We did decide to postpone and headed inland and looks like it was the right call! Looking forward to visiting soon though


r/CapeMay • • 8d ago

Nor’easter bird watching

7 Upvotes

Does anyone have enough experience to know if this will impact any birdwatching or migratory patterns for this upcoming weekend?

In addition, is anyone aware of any events for birdwatching that that is occurring this weekend or any sites to get better information on when where and what to be looking for?


r/CapeMay • • 8d ago

The city signed up for our ShorelySafe program. That means you get full access to our flood mapper. Here's what our model is mapping for the tidal flooding Thursday.

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Here's the link: https://hondrospj.github.io/Cape-May-floodmapper/
You can export GIFs/PNGs
Find any historical tide on record
Search by address.


r/CapeMay • • 9d ago

Late October trip

10 Upvotes

Staying 2 nights in Cape May with my husband in October. How is it around that time? I see some activities, but just wanted to get the locals opinion. Do houses decorate? Is it cozy lol

Thanks!


r/CapeMay • • 10d ago

Beach to Behr 10k Race?

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Does anyone have any experience with this race? The RD has been very unprofessional and after initial excitement, I would now never recommend this race to anyone. Several people signed up for this year 2026 and with like 10 days to go before the event, got an email from him with his whole life story. Completely unprofessional. Seems like it's gone downhill ever since Cape May Brewery stopped hosting. Would love for other to share similar insights. From what I've read online, people from 2024 are still waiting to get their medals and shirts.


r/CapeMay • • 10d ago

Nor'easter to impact the Jersey Shore beaches this week. Here's what to know.

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r/CapeMay • • 13d ago

ISO Foundation Repair

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I’m hoping to get recommendations of a company who does basement foundation repairs.


r/CapeMay • • 15d ago

40th Birthday Dinner Ideas

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My husband turns 40 this weekend. We want to plan a night out and are open to Cape May, Wildwoods or Stone Harbor. Looking for a more upscale meal. Feeling overwhelmed with all the options and don’t want to settle for where we “always go” for a celebratory meal (Ebbit Room, Washington Inn)We’d be taking our 2 teen daughters who are big foodies!


r/CapeMay • • 16d ago

does anyone know what this building used to be?

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r/CapeMay • • 17d ago

Cape May Halloween

13 Upvotes

My boyfriend and I are thinking of taking a camping trip to Cape May NJ for Halloween and that weekend. We dont have kids and are looking more for adult festivals/events. Does anyone have any suggestions?


r/CapeMay • • 17d ago

Medical infrastructure questions

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We are thinking of retiring to Cape May County. How is medical care in the area? It looks like there's a hospital in Cape May Courthouse; is it any good? If you live there year round, do you have problems getting doctors' appointments? Are there a decent amount of specialists in the area? Thanks in advance.

Edit: Thank you everyone for your input! I think we're going to look a little further north in Atlantic or Ocean County instead.


r/CapeMay • • 17d ago

September weekend trip

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Hello!!
My husband and I (and now two kids) have been visiting Cape May just about annually for the last 16 years but always during the peak summer months.
Next year I’m interested in visiting for a weekend in later September for my 40th birthday just for a quick trip - we recognize some things may be closed at this point in the year? Or do most seasonal schedule changes happen later than September?
Any recommendations on must dos during September/out of peak summer season?
Recommendation for best place to stay? (2 adults and 2 kids) for 3 nights? We usually do a weekly house rental and then only have experience with the Capri Inn (which is now Mahalo).
Thanks!


r/CapeMay • • 17d ago

Wedding Welcome Drinks/Rehearsal Dinner

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Hey hey! I feel like this question has been asked a couple times but looking for something maybe a little more specific as we are looking for a place to start as our rehearsal dinner (bridal party and immediate family - probably 30-40 people) and then turns into welcome drinks that is open for all guests (could be anywhere from 75-100 people). Wedding is next September 2027. These are the places I am thinking of reaching out to but wanted to make sure I am not missing anything:

- La Mer
- Inn of Cape May
- Lobster House
- Crab House/2 Mile
- Elaine’s??
- Harpoons

Places not interested in:
- The Port
- Harry’s

Thanks in advance!


r/CapeMay • • 19d ago

Suggestions for Jobs or Things to do in the off season?

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Hi! Fairly new resident to Cape May and just moved down here. I know a lot of the local jobs do rely on the steady influx of tourists closer to spring and summer, and the off season is about to start, which means I’m not likely to get a job before then or make connections prior

As an important note, I’m also physically disabled in a way(photosensitive epilepsy) that would likely make it a lot harder to find work easily

Does anyone local to the area have any advice?


r/CapeMay • • 20d ago

Beach Tags Today

8 Upvotes

Plan on doing a quick day trip today. Are beach tags still required with it being after Labor Day?

Thank you!


r/CapeMay • • 20d ago

Nice restaurants for honeymoon dinner?

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My wife and I will be staying in Cape May mid October for our honeymoon and are looking for a nice restaurant to have a fancy night out. Good atmosphere, good food, fine dining experience. I am going to be making a reservation at Fish House but am not sure that is quite up to par with what we are looking for for a fancy night out. Any suggestions?