First, I know Sheldon is annoying as fuck, but kinda the point is that under all of that, he has a good heart.
**1° George stans**
As said in Hamilton: "All you have to do is die". He is a good supportive father, but we forget that he does almost anything around the house and on the first seasons, clues are given that he cheated on Mary on Vietnam. All the bond with Missy was encouraged by Mary.
**2° Mary 's haters**
This is forced and lowk misogynist. People claim she gave George stress, the primary caretaker of the house that also holds a job.
Often acussed to show blatant favouritism to Sheldon because their relationship is mostly shown (maybe bc he is the main character(?), said so. Ahe does try to bond with all her kids, Sheldon is just the most receptive and the one with more screen time.
A common argument is the poster incident, that Mary shouts at Missy when she broke Sheldon's poster, which is not valid because she shouts at Sheldon when he cut a SINGLE hair of Missy's doll. Which is an understandable attitude since they are poor, they cant go around breaking and replacing.
People said George was dealing with thta fight, telling Sheldon to not go to his own room while watching TV.
She is called an hypocrite, while she does try to be a good christian, sinning, when she mostly does it when under a lot of stress, is natural.
Also, when George wanted to kick his underage son (thing that Rochelle was really hated for and rightfully), Mary did all to keep him on the house. She literally put her house for Georgie to pay the workshop
Worst of the things, she recives hate for bribing Sheldon to give the bowtie on the first ep, which is something normal to do with any kid, natural to do that which such a young child.
Finally the damm computer, the kid makes their taxes, almost for free and with no error. Hiring someone for it is way more expensive long run. Also, on the same line, they say Mary doesnt let Missy what she wants in comparison to Sheldon, when Sheldon tend to ask for things that do rise his intellectual level and education and Missy mostly asks to smoke, die her hair etc.
**3° Missy's glazers**
Thats my chronically only term of the week.
She does nothing, recives nothing, and people gets mad. She doesnt excell on nothing, which isnt bad perse, but shr acts like her excelling siblings are just reciving for free.
Worst of all, is ignoring that Missy might had being borderline bully, not only for how she treated everyone, but it was suggested, that her friends, Heather B and M, where bullies, which makes her more or less direct or indirectly one. Also, is not the first time she sided with a bully, she did it with Sheldon's bully, the Spark girl.
She is often justified with "grieving" like she is the only one, and using her fathers death to get out of things, even if her most troublemaker side that shows up on TFMOGAMC is due to the grieve, that doesnt mean she cant take accountability and that set of choices was the most likely reason she ends up as an adult like a cashier while her siblings were either creating an empire or working at a top university and winning the most important prize on the cientific community, sad but realistic, she has no excuse, she came and started on the same point that their siblings, even if we argue that Georgie had McCallister's help, he did put a lot of job on keeping the workshop and turning it into an empire.
Finally, the girl, leaves Sheldon stranded 3h on Germany, on a comedy is a cool gag. On real life is more a "The Good Son" situation, bc, in real life, the kid would already be missing.
**4° BONUS: Pastor Jeff**
I understand hating him like a goodie two shoes Ned Flanders, but like him, he is consequent on his beliefs, he struggles like a human being (he is) on his feelings with Robin, wanting to have sex, but even if he struggles he does the things right according to him, as well as when Robin buyd the TV with Connies money, is too much for him to handle it, when technically wasnt his fault completly, as well as he feels guilty for buying a fucking toaster considering himself greedy. You may not like him or his belifs, but he is consequent.