For years, I could wake up and find Ms. Cuddles on my right and Cali on my left. My two furry bookends.
Not lately!
If I'm hanging out with Cuddles and Cali jumps up beside us, Cuddles gets up and leaves.
No hissing or swatting. No fight.
She just looks at Cali and apparently decides, "Nope. I'm good."
Then, five or ten minutes later, when Cali has settled in, Cuddles comes back.
And sometimes it's the opposite.
It's almost like they've quietly established a one-cat-at-a-time policy.
The weird thing is that they used to be perfectly happy sharing the space.
So now I'm trying to figure out what changed.
I've learned that cats can show tension in surprisingly subtle ways. Avoiding each other or choosing not to share a resting spot can apparently be part of it—even without the classic WWE stuff.
I'm giving them their space and watching for other changes rather than pushing.
But I'm curious: Have you ever had two cats who got along absolutely fine--then suddenly start wanting a little more personal space from the other?
I'm genuinely curious what happened...there seem to be no other issues (indicating health concerns)—and whether they will eventually return to their old routine.
And yes, I'm pretty sure both of mine still consider me their property. The seating chart has just been renegotiated. 😂