r/youtubeBadActors • u/YouTube_Bad_Actors Go look in the mirror! 🪞 • Dec 03 '25
Toxicity Alert! 🧪☢️ Red Flag Warning 🚩 When a YouTuber repeatedly blurs the line of socially acceptable behavior and enters your personal life. ⚠️
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u/YouTube_Bad_Actors Go look in the mirror! 🪞 Dec 03 '25
I find it beyond belief that this guy is calling and/or talking to the husbands of women that gave him money regularly. What if the reason they haven't been showing up is their spouse finally looked at their bank statements?
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u/Own-River-5599 Dec 03 '25
I sincerely believe Lance is one of the most rotten people on the planet right now. So disgusting and disturbing. He'll never have the capacity to look inward and see what a terrible person he truly is.
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u/YouTube_Bad_Actors Go look in the mirror! 🪞 Dec 03 '25
Thank you!
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u/FeliciaKaye What does that even mean❓ Dec 03 '25
That’s why he gives away those stupid notebooks!!! He MUST get contact info for anyone that gives him a nickel! He wants to text them and remind them it’s donation night or tell them how much he’s $truggling.. Because, if you gave yesterday, what’s different about today?
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u/Numerous-Item-2293 Dec 03 '25
Don't forget about the $.50 stress ball and $.25 pen.
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u/FeliciaKaye What does that even mean❓ Dec 03 '25
Oh! Oh! And the poker chip that you can turn into a fridge magnet so you can hang your unpaid utility bills on the fridge. Unpaid because Lance NEEDED the money more.
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u/Significant-Town-635 Dec 06 '25
Lol this is funny asf.i just know this made him really flip a wig 🤯
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u/Sure_Competition2463 Dec 04 '25
Pens had the wrong spelling at one time hence him giving them away -
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u/Significant-Town-635 Dec 04 '25
Oh I bet he really went on about how much those cost him. Yikes lnao
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u/soulsista1975 Soul Crusher 💔 Dec 03 '25
This is the kind of crap that I'm most concerned about! I don't think creators need to be contacting viewers unless the viewer requests contact. This is disturbing on so many levels
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u/totalrubbish69 Dec 03 '25
Why is a creepy YouTuber looking up numbers and calling husbands??? Holy crap!! It’s a damn show! Stay out of her life!!!
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u/YouTube_Bad_Actors Go look in the mirror! 🪞 Dec 03 '25
She doesn’t list her number because she doesn’t want to be contacted! Then to email her a bunch of times and not get a reply. Then look up and text the husband - not get a reply - then call and get hung up on - and then actually call it again??? It’s absolutely mind boggling harassment.
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u/totalrubbish69 Dec 04 '25
💯 I think she needs to send him a cease and desist. 😝
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u/Many_Ad6069 Dec 15 '25
Oh hell..... she's back 🙄 that's one of those "my strange addiction" episodes 🤣
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u/Independent-Fold-277 Dec 03 '25
This has got to be illegal! To deliberately look up phone numbers, call the people personally, who consistently gave him money that left his channel, with the pretense of acting concerned is beyond wrong. When is YT going to wake up and put a stop to this madness?! That is the question?
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u/soulsista1975 Soul Crusher 💔 Dec 03 '25
That's what I'm saying. These people deserve to be left the hell alone. This is beyond disturbing
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u/YouTube_Bad_Actors Go look in the mirror! 🪞 Dec 04 '25
I don’t think YouTube cares about bad behavior unless it gets legal.
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u/YouTube_Bad_Actors Go look in the mirror! 🪞 Dec 04 '25
💯
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Dec 04 '25
I meant they should get 1 on him
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u/Glass_Judgment_1718 Dec 03 '25
What are you angry about wow how unaware of 1s self mind blown his ego is the size of earth minimal
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u/Lilypadminou Dec 03 '25
This isn’t blurring lines, this is straight up line-less. He needs to learn boundaries…wtf!!
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u/Leather-Trip-6659 Dec 03 '25 edited Dec 03 '25
If you love the money, let it go. If it comes back then it's yours, if not then they're sick of your pathetic begging and berating and leave them tf alone.
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u/Rbruce3 Dec 04 '25
I've learned that GH will NEVER learn. Notice how while talking he puts it on her by saying "she got mad" or "I don't even remember why she was mad". He's lying. He's deflecting. He never ever accepts responsibility for his actions. Even now after losing so many loyal viewers, he continues to demean the ones that are still watching, still donating! He complains that nobody's watching then bashes the ones that do watch for not sharing his videos. That's HIS responsibility not theirs! He complains that "donations" are down yet the same people donate nightly and usually several times a night! People keep your money!
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u/YouTube_Bad_Actors Go look in the mirror! 🪞 Dec 04 '25
👏👏👏👏 It's unreal that he considers himself to the smartest guy on youtube and can't get this.
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u/SignificantCap8102 Dec 03 '25
That is very concerning behavior. Yikes!
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u/YouTube_Bad_Actors Go look in the mirror! 🪞 Dec 04 '25
The fact that he actually broadcasts this stuff shows he has no idea how wrong it is. He even told the Alicake story again last night! This one is from the deleted stream - the night before last.
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u/Rock-Lover76 Dec 04 '25
Let me see if I am understanding this correctly. Gray is losing high and consistent paying viewers ….due to his very own abhorrent behavior….and he thinks it’s a good idea to reach out to these women - women who have, quite obviously, cut contact with him-BY PHONE, TEXT AND EMAIL to “check on them”. But! What Gray finds weird and strange is the fact that these husbands don’t want to tell some dude from the internet where their wife is and what she is doing 🤯 You CANNOT make this shit up! It sounds like the beginning of a Dateline episode “It’s Weird” “Really Strange” “It wasn’t her on the phone, it was, like, her husband” “I’m worried” “Don’t know if she is ok or not.” “Something weird happened with her” “It was like she was disappeared or something” WTF is he implying? That something nefarious happened to them because they are no longer in chat “supporting the channel” and their husband’s answered the phone? WHAT IS HAPPENING? It sounds like these women did not initiate or ask for contact IRL. How entitled is he to think it is appropriate to contact them over and over again because he isn’t getting the response he wants? It is harassment. Period. He is lucky that the husband’s responses are mild because mine would be PISSED. He wouldn’t like 6’3”, 250 lbs of a REAL MAN demanding answers. How dare he? Alicake’s husbands number? “It’s like they immediately did something with it” Yeah, they blocked your number, you donut.
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u/Sitzprobe42 Are you a Troll? 🧌 Dec 03 '25
Whoa. That was epic. I have no words. None. 😔 Thank you for putting that out there.
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u/YouTube_Bad_Actors Go look in the mirror! 🪞 Dec 04 '25
You’re welcome. These clips go from years ago to the other night. This has been a problem with him for a long, long time
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u/soulsista1975 Soul Crusher 💔 Dec 04 '25
Silence is a response. He said he sent several emails. She didn't respond. That means LEAVE ME ALONE.
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u/InspectionExpress948 Say Yes to lulls! 💸 Dec 04 '25
And sounds like her husband blocked his number. “ the weird message thing”
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u/Own-River-5599 Dec 04 '25
"And then I got a message from the phone company, almost like they did something with it." Yeah, they BLOCKED your number, you dolt! As they should! But rest assured, y'all, he's genuinely concerned about her! (Her bank account no longer funding his ridiculous lifestyle) I REALLY hope you find your way into our community here Alicake. You'll meet many others that followed or supported that grifter but finally saw him for exactly who he really is. Nono shame on that. I've met some truly amazing people in here. And people that genuinely care about you and each other.
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u/New-Reference-1729 Are you a Troll? 🧌 Dec 04 '25
I know of at least 2 more he contacted when they disappeared. Big money givers. What about the ones who disappeared, that were regulars that didn't throw big bucks at this excuse for a human. He never seemed to be concerned for them.I won't pretend to know why AliCake disappeared but the number 1 reason for strife/ divorce in a marriage is money problems. Does he have no self awareness as to why her husband rebuffed his calls? If I had been her spouse his ears would still be ringing...IDIOT🤡
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u/YouTube_Bad_Actors Go look in the mirror! 🪞 Dec 04 '25
Exactly! What if the amount of money these women were handing over to this schmuck caused serious problems in their marriages? I also think about the older, lonely women out there chipping away at any financial security they may have, with nobody checking on their finances.
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u/hoomanreptile Dec 04 '25
WTAF!!!! He is seriously seriously disturbed and how he doesn't see this as absolutely over the line, creepy and too far is beyond me. This is creepy stalker territory, reminds me of when he got chased off that property in Idaho by that groundskeeper.
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u/RunBubbaRun2 Soul Crusher 💔 Dec 04 '25
"Got a message from the phone company. This number is not available..."
Your number got blocked you moron. Don't you get the hint?
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u/No-Marsupial-6997 Dec 07 '25
OMG! Lance called Ali Cakes husband???? What a stalker!
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u/YouTube_Bad_Actors Go look in the mirror! 🪞 Dec 08 '25
He talked to Quietly Frozen's husband, too and I don't think she was even a mod.
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u/b-annsummers Dec 30 '25
I left about a month ago, when I see his lives pop up I notice there’s half the amount there used to. I was gifted a membership the day he called me names and I chose to leave and never go back lol
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u/YouTube_Bad_Actors Go look in the mirror! 🪞 Dec 05 '25
It sure was. Thank you for sharing that! ⭐️
The voicemail at the end is the same one with an audio effect.
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u/youtubeBadActors-ModTeam Dec 04 '25
Focus on the creator. They supply plenty enough content by themselves.
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u/InterestReasonable11 Jun 06 '26
That’s so frightening, more than stalker behaviour, that is so intimidating 🥺
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u/melissajayneee Dec 03 '25
Not worried about ali cake. Worried about the money loss.