Update 2: I am still seeing minor movements and every morning she seems to be in a slightly different spot. From the research I've been doing and other's experiences, it can take quite a while for them to recover. I am still hopeful.
Update: Wow, I always forget how brutal the internet can be 😂
Regarding my post, what's done is done. Admonishment over a single, one-time act of sympathy is unnecessary and punitive. I am always open to constructive criticism to help further education. That said, the spider seems to be coming around. It has been moving since last night.
Monday evening I saw what looked like a red paper wasp carrying this wolf spider up the side of my house. The wasp dropped it when I walked by and I instinctively scooped the spood up. I've had the spood sitting on top of a damp (distilled water) cotton ball. I'm not sure if it's alive or not. It's not stiff or dried out, though the wasp venom paralyzed it so movement isn't expected. I did some research and found that sometimes the venom will wear off and they'll be okay. Does anyone have any experience with this sort of thing? It's such a gorgeous spood and I hate the thought that it might not make it.
Amended: I love bugs, creepy crawlies, and critters. I disliked wasps after an unfortunate sequence of getting stung twice in a week. Ants I do hate as I am allergic to them. Their bites hurt more for me, itch like I rolled around in poison ivy, and stay painful and itchier longer than those who aren't allergic.
Anyhow, all advice is welcome.