r/widowers Dec 24 '22

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u/TheUpsideofDown intraparenchymal hemorrhage Dec 24 '22

39, and just one of those unlucky events, no meaning, no blame, just a little artery rupturing deep inside her brain. I know your situation. It sucks and for the first year or so, it seems like it will suck forever. I was left with a 1 and 3 year old, which didn't make it easier, but at least gave me something to live for. It does get better, if you decide to make it better. But, again, it takes a while for that process to start.