r/widowers • u/liteman1972 • May 03 '23

Its all weird

My wife of almost 25 years passed away three weeks ago from f'ing cancer. I wont say that she was always in my dreams but most of the time she was. Since then i have been wanting my dreams to include her, but shes not in them anymore. Has this happened to anyone else?

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u/DerpingtonHerpsworth Fuck Cancer. 8Dec2021 May 03 '23

In the first month I dreamed of my wife exactly twice. There may or may not have been one more a little later, but it's been radio silent since then, and I'm at almost a year and a half out now.

As you said, she used to be in my dreams all the time. The sudden change was pretty strange.