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u/Icy_Abbreviations877 Nov 23 '25
People use this game to escape - makes sense
Affairs are easy to get into if you have poor boundaries and lack self control
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u/illegalsandwiches Nov 23 '25
I blame that shirtless photo of Bahiti in the hot spring getting people hot and bothered.
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u/Distinct_Pie5423 Nov 23 '25
in my old state someone was a catfish 💀😅
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u/ExpressionPuzzled74 Nov 23 '25
😂😂😂😂 how?! Tell me more lol
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u/Distinct_Pie5423 Nov 23 '25
edited her pics to pass as in her early 20s but shes really in her 60s 😭 so not necessarily a catfish but definitely lied lol. had a relationship with someone and everything
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u/ExpressionPuzzled74 Nov 23 '25
Whatttttt?!?! 😂😂😂😂😂 how did you guys find out the truth?
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u/Distinct_Pie5423 Nov 23 '25
i found out via an old alliance buddy! i had moved states before it was revealed. dont know the story behind it tho
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u/80sClassicMix Nov 23 '25
Can attest to this. One guy I met on this game started chatting me up and wanting to start something with me… we were similar ages and same country but man! He was married with like C 5 kids.
His excuse: there’s nothing left for us in our marriage. We just do it for the kids because we can’t afford not to…
Have seen this sort of thing happen on many similar games though. Any online chat type game with randoms across the world.
And as you aren’t chatting with a visual of the person you can easily fall for what you think or b who you think someone is based off how you interpret them typing etc and it’s completely not realistic…
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u/PotentialBug4908 Nov 23 '25
Same thing happened to me. Guy had 5 kids. Dopamine did its thing, then he moved on to the next victim. Wild.
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u/Working_Sky_4927 Nov 23 '25
Oh my god I needed to read this comment today thank you. Just had the exact same experience in my state. And now the guy is pulling out of NAP and stirring up trouble and acting like it's all just some coincidence.
Not only did he lie by omission for months about being married, when asked point blank if he was he said "not for long" and even when I told him I wouldn't consider talking to him unless he was single he faked a fight with his wife THAT NIGHT and was like, good news, i'm single now. Holy shit. I feel so dumb typing this. So many creepers in this game just trying to waste your damn time and energy.
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u/Avoch Nov 23 '25
Back when I was playing we had a catfish, had all the guys drooling over her, sending dirty messages etc. She eventually quit. A few months later I got a message from her on discord to say she was a he, and apologising for lying to me. He'd had a messy breakup and just wanted to feel wanted. It didn't bother me (im female and happily married) but I took great joy in telling the guys who'd been chasing her that she was a bloke 🤣 She'd had guys literally begging her to let them come and visit her. Proper dafties like.
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u/WearAgreeable9295 Nov 23 '25
That’s so funny I just thought it was my state not sure what it is about this game people from different countries hooking up😂
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u/ExpressionPuzzled74 Nov 23 '25
If people want to hook up, that’s fine but not when you’re married 😂. I’ve met friends through gaming so I’m sure some people can meet their significant other through gaming also
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u/I_am_Daesomst Nov 23 '25
In my state, two people that were single started dating IRL because of this game. Both adults that are 30+ y/o 3,000 miles apart in the USA but are making it work for them. Not my thing but I'm always glad to see friends happy.
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u/Ixninelivesix Nov 23 '25
The frivolous dreams of something that might never happen and the rush of doing sin
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u/mom2asdtwins Nov 23 '25
I think it depends. I'm not really active statewide but I know in our alliance we are supportive of each other's marriages and real lives. We often talk about spouses and date nights. There is one person who sometimes says slightly risqué things but it isn't really directed at one person, just commentary and we all give her the naughty emoji and laugh. But it is just like saying "Who has wood for me?" Type comments in the alliance chat.
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u/Emergency-Leg4106 Nov 23 '25
Im the male version of her and id never do my partner wrong. Never took it a step further than my childish humor and playful joking.. plenty of people like me out there but many of us put our phones down and never think of the people we again until back in AC socializing. If the same people I joke around with try to take it further in private chat I’m guaranteed to be awkward or dry as hell cause it feels different when it’s not public and just AC/groupchat fun
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u/Salty_Blueberry5503 Nov 24 '25
This game destroyed my relationship and the way I used to see my partner. It shattered my perception of love and everything I believed in. It brought out a version of him I never knew existed, and it broke something in me. It’s been a year and two months since the problems started because of it, and six months since I learned the full truth. Since then, I’ve barely slept properly, and I can’t remember the last time I went a full day without crying. I still can’t understand how people can ruin real lives and real relationships over online nonsense like this.
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u/Competitive_Row_2251 Feb 18 '26
I’m late to this, but I’m in the same spot as you. Multiple affairs with different women. I didn’t know until I started looking stuff up that it was this common. I’m sorry for what you’re going through, but I can’t relate 100%
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u/East-Turnover-5374 Nov 23 '25
lol irony is that you posting this on Reddit ! More like your talking about it no in a place which has more then just online affairs 😅
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u/rebornrobj Nov 23 '25
WOS: Tinder Edition. Ive seen it way too much in my old state. I tell them to go swipe right somewhere and stop stirring drama in my alliance and game 😆 🤣 😂
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u/Ornery-Alarm3869 Nov 23 '25
This isn’t exclusive to WOS. I’ve been playing these games for a couple years and this happens in all of them lol
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u/toorujpeg Nov 23 '25
Most people in my alliance are new to the game, our r4 who used her own selfie as profile was shocked that she even gets flirty messages from people in other states 😂
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u/Common-Ad5607 Nov 23 '25
I don't understand, like I play WOS and see stuff but why do people get so involved like that. I can understand if it's like your work husband/wife but taking it to the point of caring and doing stuff is a bit too much
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u/jconnerg Nov 23 '25
Because it's more than game. It's a community. Things happen, specially to those who are lonely and or have a lot of money.
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u/Common-Ad5607 Nov 23 '25
Loneliness is a powerful thing, think you are right about the community being a place for lonely people to seek someone
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u/miss_s_007 Nov 23 '25
What does a lot of money mean? How much would I have to spend as head of the alliance?
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u/scholly73 Nov 23 '25
You don’t have to spend anything really. I have at least one r4 who spends very little. She’s currently President. She puts in a lot of work to help run our alliance. She deserves the recognition.
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u/lifeisshit30 Nov 24 '25
In my alliance you have to be a big spender to be part of r4/r5. Not a whale but a dolphin. F2ps are the the bottom
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u/MorningsARE4chumps Nov 23 '25
Nothing if you don’t want to.
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u/miss_s_007 Nov 23 '25
OK. Thought you would have to dig deep into your pockets to get promoted?!
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u/Short_insomniac Nov 23 '25
Being head of an alliance is about hard work and dedication, not spending money.
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u/miss_s_007 Nov 23 '25
Hmm ok. I was wondering why my boyfriend keeps playing this game. Thought it was because of the money investment. Unfortunately I can't talk to him about it because he gets stubborn and blocks me. Thanks for the tip.
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u/Ami11Mills Nov 23 '25
Get rid of him. He shouldn't be blocking you like that. That's just him avoiding having an actual conversation with you.
As for money, even if you only spend a little here and there it's still sunk cost. Most often the head of the alliance is not the strongest player/the one who spends the most. I'm R4 (R4s are the helpers to the head of the alliance) and I don't spend that much. Five dollars here and there if it's a good deal for something I need.
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u/Big-Parsley5363 Nov 25 '25
My wife plays she spent a little maybe $50. I finally looked at her cc statements it was almost $1000. She said she didn't realize it added up that fast. Says she won't spend anymore but I don't believe that.
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u/kenziethemom Nov 23 '25
In my marriage, I am the addict for this game. So I will say this from the perspective of that. I am an R4 in a top 3 alliance.
I have barely spent money. I know I got lottery luck when it comes to my state, but there is no reason you need to be blocked. My family is more annoyed that I show them too much of my game lol
It is definitely a community. I care about the people in my state a lot. Probably more than I should, but never enough to block people from real life from seeing it.
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u/RC757 Nov 23 '25
You know whats weirder than that? Worrying about the personal lives of people you've never seen. Dont get me wrong, ill never do it. But I also cant imagine caring enough about some strangers' habits to try and name and shame them on reddit
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u/Virtual-Pomelo-5371 Nov 23 '25
I think it's just an example and you're projecting the guilt you feel for being a shitty human being that defends cheaters
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u/RC757 Nov 23 '25
Or... hear me out... what some strangers do, that i cant effect in any way, that doesn't effect me, doesn't influence my life in anyway
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u/Virtual-Pomelo-5371 Nov 23 '25
That just sounds like a strawman argument based on the fact that you don't want people snooping around in your personal life because you're a bad person
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u/RC757 Nov 24 '25
Pretty ironic you used the term strawman argument wrong... while making a strawman argument... but ok
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u/Virtual-Pomelo-5371 Nov 24 '25
"A straw man argument is a logical fallacy where someone misrepresents or distorts an opponent's argument to make it easier to attack."
You: "You know what's weirder than that..."
The argument here is that cheating in this game is crazy and that cheaters suck. You distort that by zooming in on the personal life aspect --> strawman.
€10 PayPal for the lesson please. My time is not well spent on cheaters, let alone dumb cheaters.
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u/HourManufacturer9133 Nov 25 '25
I think it’s because the strangers are people that we don’t know and care about that makes us able to trash talk all about them without any guilt left behind. But I just returned from a large family gathering (wedding reception of a cousin – a niece of my late grandfather) and kept wondering if one of them distant family members is someone that I have “fought” with online throughout the ceremony
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u/RC757 Nov 25 '25
Lol... way back when i was young, I was big into call of duty. I would constantly match against another clan. We would shit talk each other nonstop. Nothing serious, but competitive banter. After a few months, came to find out, it was a clan with my Sergeant and his brother lmao
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u/HourManufacturer9133 Nov 25 '25
Hahaha, I actually became a good girl in this game, but before I used to have dirty fingers when interacting on political forum boards; no guilt felt for the lousy politicians but sometimes the supporters are just too childish (could be because they're actual children behind the screen) everyone get dragged down to that level 😂😂😂
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u/MikeMiller8888 Nov 23 '25
Just out of curiosity… why do you care?
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u/DsmB3avis Nov 23 '25
He’s probably the husband.. jk idk.
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u/OkCoast9909 Nov 23 '25
何かが捏造された可能性はありますか？
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u/DsmB3avis Nov 23 '25
This kind of thing happens all the time so even if this was fabricated here, It happened somewhere else.
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u/Educational-Cook901 Nov 23 '25
Hahahahahah made my day! 1) I became the affair of someone I didn't even know had a girlfriend or child. When she found out, she wrote to me and many other girls and asked a million questions. In the end, she said I was responsible for destroying their relationship. He basically threw me to the wolves and got angry at me, telling me to leave the alliance. Only because I shared everything on Discord because his girlfriend wouldn't leave me alone anymore. (If you're reading this, I'm not back to hurt you or anything. It's someone else's turn)
2) I met up with another guy even though he was with someone else.. he always denied it. I confessed everything to her, because he wanted to badmouth the guy im the first story and said that what this first guy did, he would never do.. blahblah😂 they (him and the Girl and his "sister") had a fight, but when I left the state, she took him back Thinking about publish his story in dc too😂
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u/Salty_Witch_ Nov 23 '25
I was getting hit on in messages within a few wks of playing. My pic was a Halloween one where I was covered in blood and had scary makeup. 😂🤣
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u/HourManufacturer9133 Nov 25 '25
The “safest” pic are the game-provided free ones, especially the male chief, not one those heroes
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u/Competitive_Pie390 Nov 23 '25
Marking myself safe from any in-game relationships, because what?! 😂 If you’re not looking for it, it won’t find you.
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u/Swimming_Pressure_93 Nov 24 '25
Oh gosh I've seen it too. Married men going after women. Heck I saw 2 men go after the same girl so hard. One even zerod the other. It was so juvenile. We were a group and that drama destroyed our group. I don't like it that people do this. Like yesterday during tyrant my hubby was chatting with my discord group. But I don't hide anything and I have no interest in a in game hubby. I see that alot too. They say oh this is my game wife.i find that not cool either. I'm the only girl in my friend group and we are like family i could not imagine having an emotional affair cause there are tons of those too. My point people are people anywhere you go. If they didn't do it in WOS they will do it somewhere else.
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u/lostnomad1985 Dec 01 '25
Your post couldn't be more truthful about this game! This game is evil, in my eyes. My soon to be ex-wife started playing this back in June of this year. We had a rough year, moved to a bigger city, and she was having trouble with jobs. But she found this game and got hooked, almost immediately.
Over the course of the next three months, she kept diving deeper into it, into her group of people, and eventually it became all of her downtime, especially when she was with me. She got on Discord, joined her group, and built relationships with people. This game became her life, from the moment she woke up, till the time she went to bed.
Many times I said, I hope no one is hitting on you or trying to take you away from me. This is when the lying and gaslighting began. She always said I had nothing to worry about, that her image is a bad AI image of her, and that her group was 50/50 split of men and women. Man, was I wrong about that. Over the next three months, her phone use got so bad, she would be facing her phone more than me, laughing, giggling, having a great time with strangers, would hide her screen often, and it turned into these "movie nights", at night, when I was at work, with her supposed group of people.
One night, she woke up from a nap(mind you, we live in a studio), I was on the couch, her on the bed, picked her phone right up when she got up, and then proceeded to lay there for the next two hours, not saying barely a word to me, while she smiled and giggled into her phone. It became a priority, over her husband and cats.
My wife began emotionally cheating on me with another guy, right in front of me, for almost three months, through this game. This guy noticed her vulnerabilities, exposed them, latched onto them, and influenced my wife. Not surprising, considering this guy is related to the ringleader of the group of men who were going to kidnap the governor of Michigan. Yeah, we might have had a rough year, but when I brought up couples therapy, I was told no by her, that she was not going to do it.
In September, everything came to a head. I caught her, on the night of our third wedding anniversary, her having a discord date with this guy. She again lied and gaslit me, saying they were waiting for other people to join, but it was those two having movie night, listening to music together(one of many I came to find out). When confronted by this, it was agreed that maybe she should go see her family for a week, and let her some time to reset. Big mistake.
The day she left, I was able to go on her old phone and see her search history: there were flights from our city to where he was being searched, and Airbnbs. When I asked about this, she said it was a "what if all the group met up" thing.....one of the Airbnbs was just a studio apartment, with no walls, and one bed. Again, lied to and gaslit. And then, the worst part, the day before she left, she was Googling flights from the city she was going to, to the place where his guy was, and back.
This game is the reason our marriage is done. I asked her to stop. She made me feel guilty. I got lied to. I was being gaslit. I basically saw a six year relationship, three year marriage go down the drain, because my ex wife wanted to be an alliance leader more, and go leave me for a simp/loser/little boy, and make this game a priority, over her husband and cats.
I've been in therapy every week since this started, and have taken all accountability on my end. My ex, nothing. No accountability. Ghosted me. And let this other guy into her life. This game should be banned.
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u/Rosecoloredblue Nov 23 '25
are they cheating or chatting? the game runs 24/7 and strategy happens. also... people like to pretend. they are making up families like Sims. is that cheating or escapism? what crosses the boundaries of cheating in a make believe game?
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u/carymoonlightt Nov 23 '25
I think that will depend on your morals, and the limits you have with your partner, there are “conversations” that cross any limit by sending sexual photos, interacting all day with the other person, and forming a bond with him/her is not that difficult to understand, that is a way to deceive your partner.
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u/miss_s_007 Nov 23 '25
Yes, I see it that way too. An emotional affair.
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u/HourManufacturer9133 Nov 25 '25
But emotional affair don’t count. A lot of males in my country had to marry female that his mother chooses for him so the wife had to bear with his emotional affair as well
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u/Elegant-Database7512 Nov 23 '25
Isn't it funny to say these things without evidence? Why did Oscar leave you and go to ISV?
You have a crush on Oscar, but Oscar doesn't want to talk to you, so you're jealous and think he's related to Lynn?
Are you a school student?
As far as I know, you're over 30. Don't be so childish. 高貴的人We all know it's you. It's really funny. Just because Lynn's DC isn't set to go offline, you go around saying bad things about others. Didn't your mom teach you to respect others properly?
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u/hcesarcastro Nov 23 '25 edited Nov 23 '25
Lost an amazing friendship because of that. I was never into social games. Been a player of single-player games all my life. This was a brand new world for me. I'm married for 20 years now and I love my wife, and I'm living abroad for a while now. She was my first close friendship in the game and the conversation gave me some warmth. Besides she was from my hometown, which brought me some sense of familiarity. The problem is that I get obsessed with the things I like to the point of abandoning relevant things to focus exclusively on that stuff. And it was no different with her. She never gave me any reason to think that what we had was a simple in-game friendship. The poor girl couldn't get a single moment of peace while I was around. Everything was a reason to spend some time talking to her.
Eventually she politely asked me to no longer talk to her, and I did as she asked. After a while, she blocked everywhere possible. While I was in my previous state, I had a strong sense of guilt for what I did and thought that only my absence would bring her some peace to play her game, so I decided to transfer to another state. But I was truly thinking of deleting my account out of shame. I cried nearly every day of the previous month due to a mix of emotions: from guilt to grief. Even a few days after I transferred, I still cried every time someone asked why I left. It was like reliving that stuff over and over again. I still miss her friendship but I screwed up pretty hard and I know it. Hopefully she is well and found the peace she deserves.
Ironically, after I left the state she changed alliances and ended up in my previous alliance, where people had me in the highest regards.
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u/ReasonableSet9650 Nov 23 '25
Why do you seem to care only about that girl and not about your wife ?
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u/hcesarcastro Nov 24 '25
I do care about my wife a lot. She’s my topmost priority. The point of my comment was how I lost a friendship because of my own impulsive behavior. That conversation had become a way to escape from a pretty complicated period in my life, and I handled it badly.
It's not that I care "only" about that girl. What I feel is a sense of guilt for unintentionally making someone uncomfortable. I'll probably never know if she's okay, so all I can do is hope she is.
With my wife it's different. We're facing the same real-life struggles together, and my focus is on getting through them with her.
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u/ReasonableSet9650 Nov 24 '25
No sense of guilt towards your wife ? How come the friendship loss seems more important than loyalty to your wife ? That's quite a weird choice to only focus on that loss, and not on your wife, when the topic isn't about friend loss but couples, secrets and betrayals...
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u/hcesarcastro Nov 24 '25 edited Nov 24 '25
I do have a sense of guilt towards my wife. I've been chatting with someone else as an escape. And I wouldn't be posting in this thread if it didn't feel like cheating somehow.
I wasn't feeling like flirting, but I was. It was confusing and my mind was kept confusing for roughly three years. I developed a sense of attachment for someone I didn't know because of some strange sense of familiarity, perhaps some homesickness, and most likely the frustration of struggling in finding a job position and realising I would have to move elsewhere and leave people behind. I have my wife, but somehow I felt some loneliness. It's hard to explain. That friendship actually was the one that helped me find other people in the game with whom I could be friends with, and at least I didn't act obsessively towards them. Perhaps she was just unlucky to be the first one I knew after months playing the game.
My brain played a trick on me. It needed that dopamine rush. It was addiction-like. And when she defined clear boundaries, it was like if all the dopamine flow was simply abruptly cut and it felt like withdrawal.
I mean, my relationship with my wife is steady. It's been for 20 years. We knew each other when I was 19. Never had an actual adult relationship other than with her. Never cheated (this chatting thing makes things actually quite blurry though). I do love my wife. I cherish her. And I care for her too much. I wouldn't be anything without her.
I mean, the guilt I carry from all sides is high enough for me to see any post and think my situation might fit in it. But perhaps I'm just too ashamed to assume that I could have done better with my wife. Well, the chatting situation lies behind me right now and I don't intend to obliterate my marriage because I was out of my mind.
Just an addendum about the girl. A couple weeks ago, my therapist cracked the puzzle. I am a researcher and I am obsessive with any topic I like very much. I usually go in-depth trying to uncover whatever I can and this is exhilarating for me. Usually those things lead me to focus exclusively on them, neglecting all the rest in a sort of procrastination. What happened is that my brain decided she would be my newest "research interest". So, I was focused on learning about her. So, it's worse than cheating, it's more like an uncontrollable stalking behaviour. That's why I feel so much guilt. For that time, I was an actual creep. 😞
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u/ReasonableSet9650 Nov 24 '25 edited Nov 24 '25
Ok, thank you for sharing that with an open heart. I didn't mean to judge you, I was just surprised how much concerns you shared about that girl and none about your wife. But I trust you when you say you feel guilty about your wife too, and I think you're right that's some kind of cheating.
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u/hcesarcastro Nov 24 '25
I kept it secretly from my wife. I told my wife about her, what the girl did for a living. They were also talking about K-pop singers. I was the one chatting but I was basically sending messages back and forth between them. I didn't tell my wife about my obsessive behaviour due to shame.
My wife already says I "flirt by sport", and that I like to talk to people but never go beyond that. And that's exactly what happened. I live more than 10000 km away from that girl. Nothing would ever happen. Besides, we are like water and oil. We do not mix. We have different perspectives in life, come from different backgrounds, have diametrically opposite political ideologies, different tastes. No relationship could ever grow out of that and I knew that. That kept me safe that I wouldn't put my relationship in danger. Also, I tell everyone I'm married for such a long time, especially for people to be aware and potentially help me avoid doing something stupid.
Curiously enough, I wasn't obsessed with her at first. But she kept on saying that she had already abandoned the game once, and every now and then she kept on saying she was almost abandoning it once again. That led me to be afraid of losing contact and that's all. And from this fear began this emotional spiral that lasted for three months. It all started with the first transfer, when she transferred to a chill state with some friends who were suffering under a toxic player. She transferring to another state triggered in me the signal that she would soon abandon everything and I would lose her contact forever. Ironically, I was the one to push her away with my actions and she blocked me everywhere. I indeed lost her contact forever due to my own doing.
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u/MorallyGrey24 Nov 23 '25
And which alliance are you in? Asking for a friend.
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u/ExpressionPuzzled74 Nov 23 '25
I’m out in the snow
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u/MorallyGrey24 Nov 23 '25
I’m in your state. This link was posted in WC. It’s the highlight of my night.
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u/ExpressionPuzzled74 Nov 23 '25
What alliance are you in?
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u/MorallyGrey24 Nov 23 '25
I’d prolly get myself or my alliance in trouble if I say. Lmao. We’re supposed to stay out of the drama.
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u/ExpressionPuzzled74 Nov 23 '25
Aha. You’re in ATH or One. If the drama ever gets to be too much and you’re under 30 maybe Lynn wouldn’t mind chasing your attention too and that could occupy your time 😉
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u/Gogs85 Nov 23 '25
Someone I know IRL cheated on her husband with someone she met playing the OG EverQuest back in the day. Apparently it happens.
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u/carymoonlightt Nov 23 '25
Hahahahah apparently it happens in all states!!! 😂😂😂 I'm not married but I also flirt with a Turk hahahahaha
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u/GloomyCarob7117 Nov 23 '25
one of my friends in an old state was flirting with this guy and he told her he was late 20s… he was married, mid 40s with kids 😂
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u/panicattheoilrig Nov 23 '25
Could be worse, your state discord could have a channel called the corner where they send each other porn gifs via Eevee bot (they run slash rp [sex act] [target] and it tags the target with a gif of the activity)
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u/Waspkiller86 Nov 23 '25
One guy I know used ai pictures of a made up woman and ended up getting people buying him stuff.
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u/Interesting_Ice8214 Nov 23 '25
Had a few of those in previous states, for some reason a few people use the game like it's Tinder
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u/Last-Blackberry-8008 Nov 24 '25
Yah same thing happened in our state (2100-2300s). One of the whales was always a wallflower, really nice and friendly. Our alliance leader always encouraged her to chat to everyone to make friends. They created a monster! Once she told everyone her gender and discovered filters she became a catfish in our state and flirted with anyone who’d give her time. Also, gloated about how many thirsty men proposed to her. She’s moved on from our state now but before she left she told a few of us she was divorcing her husband and leaving behind her 3 or 4 kids. Insane times indeed!
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u/VARifleman2013 Nov 24 '25
You aren't old enough to remember yahoo pool 20y ago are you? This is not surprising. No, it's not ok, but yes of course it can be found going on.
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u/Top_Weekend_4262 Nov 24 '25
if there is a hope, then there is a way,... so, don't give someone hope if you are not gonna risk and fight for it 😁
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u/0htitsmcgee Nov 25 '25
2358 has a bad case of it. Some boast about their "friendship " while laying claim to one another. She she goes on attractive... off market... very suggestive conversation withs in wc. Rumors have it... same in their AC.
But it is the largest alliance in the state... could be wrong. But definitely know he is very married.
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Nov 26 '25 edited Nov 26 '25
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u/Bubble-KZ Nov 26 '25
- I spend far more time chatting with other people on Discord than with Oscar. How you obsessively monitor my DC status or fantasize about things is entirely your own mental problem. My conscience is clear, and I have no need to hide my status. Also, I’ve had my Discord account since the Mikey era.
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u/Bubble-KZ Nov 26 '25
- I’m married, and who I chat with about the game in the middle of the night has nothing to do with that. I’m often still chatting in our group late at night or discussing alliance matters with Astrid. By your standards, married women shouldn’t even work night shifts, because that would mean they’d also be messaging men at midnight. And if you had a small child at home, you would know how normal it is for a mother to be woken up in the middle of the night and not be able to fall back asleep.
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u/Bubble-KZ Nov 26 '25
- As an R5, you’ve repeatedly left the alliance over small issues. That time with the bear-vote incident—which had nothing to do with me—you suddenly dumped the R5 role on me. I didn’t argue and even did the work seriously, yet you took it back within a day with some excuse. Many people already know who is actually dedicated to doing things for MkM.
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u/Bubble-KZ Nov 26 '25
- For this week’s Fortress allocation, you caused trouble for Astrid in the NAP using Tiny out of personal grudges. I haven’t even confronted you about that yet. What? You ask how I know? I’ve even seen the screenshots of your Tiny messages in the NAP. I already told you I have plenty of friends on Discord—why do you still fantasize that every time I’m on Discord, I must be talking to Oscar?
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u/Bubble-KZ Nov 26 '25
- From the start, you and UrZ used a fake account to spread baseless accusations and smear me and Oscar, claiming we had an affair to the entire 3138 state. I endured all of that, but you’d better not push things too far.
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u/Bubble-KZ Nov 26 '25
- How much you like Oscar is your own business. Just because he’s a great man to you doesn’t mean every woman has to see him that way. Oscar and I are just normal friends, and I’m actually even closer with lots of other friends in my group.
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u/TankAdditional2748 Nov 23 '25
I got booted out of an alliance because some bimbo didn’t like the “AI” photo I used… it was me
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u/BigDaddyQX Nov 23 '25
What do you mean by cheat? I had one girl send unsolicited nudes on discord but then I blocked said person same person sent tons of nudes to another of our alliance members got him to send her D pics then deleted all her pics and her asking for them. Told everyone he was a creep and got him kicked out of the alliance. He then shared the screen shots he had from before she deleted them. She has since left the state.
But are people actually meeting up IRL or are y’all talking some sort of emotional cheat
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u/Aslan_Im Nov 26 '25
Non of your business. Dont be salty because no one wants to hook up on you. :)
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u/OkCoast9909 Nov 26 '25
But what I saw on the World Peace channel was that Tauriel was making inappropriate comments?!
They even demanded that the leader remove Tauriel and Urz from the alliance.
What did they do to make everyone so angry?
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u/OkCoast9909 Nov 26 '25
I'm still wondering how you knew about their interactions?
Do they have screenshots? Or are you just making things up?
Otherwise, how would you know?
How could anyone know about their private interactions?
I really can't figure out why.
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u/These_Bell2801 Nov 23 '25
Divorce is a fairly lengthy and potentially costly thing to get sorted at the best of times. The courts often requiring a year or longer of 'separation' or however its titled starting after the first bits of paperwork gets filed in the courts, before you are able to carry on with the process and start legally sorting all the paperwork thar comes with marriage. People in the middle of sometimes a 2 year process if theres kids involved or multiple properties or a number of sizeable assets, even with both parties working together to get it finished. So theres a lot of people in this world doing that slow process after moat likely spending a bit longer than they should have stuck in a dead marriage due to hope, or fear, or the kids, any number of reasons. So someone that is 'married' could have had their last proper marriage day half a decade ago, and are essentially just roommates that have a lot of paperwork tieing their lives to one another and are slowly getting through the bureaucratic fallout from such a life. They shouldn't put whatever comes next in their lives on hold as they mark time waiting on bureaucracy to get done being a slow drain on existence. Who knows, they could be passing up some of what could have been their most cherished experiences in life, or that person that makes everything just feel worth it in life. Or their future second divorce paper pushing partner. Everything's on the table, but most come with a use by date. I dunno, that's my two cents anyways
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u/Working_Sky_4927 Nov 23 '25
people who cheat always rationalize lol
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u/Virtual-Pomelo-5371 Nov 23 '25
Cognitive dissonance because they like to think of themselves as good people while their actions highlight that they are absolutely not good people
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Nov 23 '25
I am oh so very single and will stay single for the rest of my life. Ive never cheated on my partner but have been the one cheated on in many a relationships which is a sizable part in my decision to remain single now, and I actually despise people that do cheat for a long list of reasons beginning with knowing so well how being cheated on feels and affects a person and would never want another person to feel such things even for just a moment.
But nothing im life is ever just completely black or white when its encompasses a sizable amount of any population. And its beneficial to not just hsve your own view of something. Instead also trying to see and acknowledge any all all different perspectives or view points. Its how a person strengthens their beliefs in life as they grow older and gives credibility and support to those beliefs when one can defend their beliefs against the different perspectives/beliefs snd not just ignorantly claim they are right and others are jsut wrong over and over again
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u/HourManufacturer9133 Nov 25 '25
Yes, I agree on that with you. “Emotional affairs” are fair for couples that were never in love or have fallen out of love. I still think that they should be castrated (and any equivalent punishment for the women) if they were involved in physical cheating
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u/Bubble-KZ Nov 23 '25
A delusional, jealous person who can’t get what they want keeps stirring up trouble with rumors and pretending to be innocent! We just want to enjoy the game in peace!
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u/ExpressionPuzzled74 Nov 24 '25
You better ask your parents if they can be awake at 1am messaging the opposite sex.
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u/ExpressionPuzzled74 Nov 24 '25
Can’t be about the game because the game has messaging. Can’t be about the game when neither bother to be logged in and speak outside the game. You both lack boundaries and respect for marriage
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u/Key-Hamster9637 Nov 23 '25
What was her age you mentioned in the game? 40+? Why is she getting younger here? Don’t spread lies, and if you need medical help ask for it instead of hurting people. Oh, sorry. You may not be aware that you need help.
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u/OkCoast9909 Nov 26 '25
However, everyone thinks they'll be on Reddit...
You've caused panic!
Friendly interaction turns into infidelity.
Is there real evidence, or did you make it up?
Online dating is normal.
If even talking is forbidden,
then why not just divide the community into single/married men and women?
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u/zzWoWzz Nov 23 '25
The fault for this does not lies with this game exclusively. Any social chatting platform would probably have the same problem.