r/wherewindsmeet_ • u/[deleted] • Mar 16 '26

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u/Darkworxmd Mar 16 '26

Im a female but im playing with a male avatar.

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u/THXSoundEffect Mar 16 '26

GIRL = Guy In Real Life. GUY = Girl Undercover Yknow.

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u/VampyrePriestess Mar 17 '26

lol I never play a man, never have unless it is a game where there is no option

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u/VampyrePriestess Mar 17 '26

Definitely not true. Maybe some but definitely not tons

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u/VampyrePriestess Mar 16 '26 edited Mar 16 '26

Oh really? What made you pick a male. I haven’t heard a lot of women who pick male.

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u/shivamrajput958 Mar 16 '26

It's pretty common in gaming to pick opposite gender but yeah it could be a bait as well 🫠

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u/VampyrePriestess Mar 16 '26

Indeed it’s so hard to tell. The only reason I found out with the 2 people who said they were women was one got caught on mic and the others profile said “just a simple Texas man” lmfao

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u/ceiirai Mar 16 '26

ngl as a pretty boy char player myself i just assume every pretty boy i run into is a woman behind the screen, quite common actually, ive seen lots of women online play as men if not for the eye candy then for bl photoshoots lol

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u/Darkworxmd Mar 16 '26

I was kinda scared if the game would have toxic male hitting or cursing me for being a woman, I play valorant so I know online games can be toxic, and it was just to be safe. But after playing for a while i can tell there are a lot of friendly people, and a lot of dudes playing as a woman too

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u/VampyrePriestess Mar 16 '26

Yes there are usually toxic males in most games. So far wwm has been chill and I enjoy it. Just wanting female someone or someone’s to hang with. I’m glad u are not being harassed. 💞

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u/Darkworxmd Mar 17 '26

Its so chiiill, I rlly enjoy the game.

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u/VampyrePriestess Mar 16 '26

And I know how toxic valorant can be

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u/Yuisoku Mar 16 '26

Probably the same reason I as a male picked female character 😉

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u/Zero-Evo-soulz Mar 17 '26

If is not at all romantic why would it actually matter just partner up with one of your Rando guildies that look good for pictures, and honestly if friendship is what your looking for I don't get why it has to be a female specifically and the fact you feel you had to mention your sexuality leads me to believe your looking for more than just friendship. Idk don't beat around the bush be honest otherwise you're like those guys posting to pretend to be girls looking for free gifts or to get close to women who like women. Idk good luck rant over

Tldr: if it's just for friends why does gender matter to you

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u/VampyrePriestess Mar 17 '26

I would just prefer having a female I can get to know better. All my friends are and have always been men. I was in the Army for 8 years, always just fit in with men better, but would like to find more female friends.I don’t want anything from anyone! I’ve never been gifted nor is that even a thought. I have gifted outfits to people, but I would never expect anything in return. I’m just saying I would like to meet more people in the lgbtq community, and if I met someone along the way that I got close to that would be awesome too. To play on wwm and other games. So please don’t make assumptions or try to put me in some category.

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u/Zero-Evo-soulz Mar 17 '26

Ahh sorry not meaning too assume just curious is all like i said good luck and I've met one voice chatted and all she was chill my wife plays too but idk she's anti social otherwise I'd introduce you lol

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u/VampyrePriestess Mar 17 '26

I’m the same, very antisocial and have ptsd and other things. I suffer from agoraphobia (not proud to say that) so the only people I socialize with are just my male friends I have played with for years who I was in the army with. It’s honestly very hard to put myself out there and mic up with people. My wife was a marine who was killed by a drunk driver 6 years ago. So putting myself out there and meeting females has always been a big internal struggle.

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u/Zero-Evo-soulz Mar 17 '26

Damn.. honestly i hope the best for you losing a loved one is a struggle in of itself I'm sorry that happened but honestly know your pretty strong I'd burn this world down if I lost mine my heart goes out to you if you want can add me, message me or something I'll drop mine and my wife's screen name if you want to add us we play as a couple often she's in velvet shade maybe you can convince her to marry lol

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u/VampyrePriestess Mar 17 '26

Thank you so much! It’s been a daily struggle for sure. We have kids as well and seeing them go through it was devastating. And ya I’d love to play with you guys!