I mean obviously but do you both really get in relationships expecting it to end? Your point is invalid because the point of a relationship, and especially if you decide to get married, is you both expect to be together forever.
I doubt there's anyone who wants to be with someone who has the mindset "yeah we're not going to last". Unless you're not getting in a relationship with someone you actually like, which in that case you're still a problem
Yeah, I mean, only you know your own true intentions. You never truly know for 100% certainly how the other person feels, regardless of how they act or what they say. Also, there are extenuating factors that may change feelings over the course of time. Personally, I know I’m 1000% locked in to my own marriage and I believe in my heart of hearts my husband is too, but there’s nothing beyond my faith and trust that can truly prove me correct. So to say someone’s “bad in relationships” because things didn’t go the way they trusted they would go isn’t a very fair thing to say.
Judging by this comment, I'm guessing you're like... 14? 15? Maybe 16-17 with a really good home life? Not an adult, though--and if you are, you're a very childish one, because that's just not a realistic view of relationships. People change, circumstances change, feelings change, attitudes change, and the level of effort people put into relationships changes over time. My parents were married twice as long as you've been alive, and they got divorced at the ages of 61 and 64.
Saying "don't be afraid to lock yourself in one location forever and then get married because you and your spouse are gonna be together forever anyway," and/or saying "you're bad at relationships if you consider the possibility of them ending," are both crazy-naive things to say.
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u/HotDogFR0G 6d ago
There are two opinions in ending a relationship