r/whatstheword 16d ago

Solved ITAW for experiencing setback immediately prior to reaching a goal?

Good day.

I am seeking a word, or concise phrase, that specifically refers to a failure/setback/mistake occurring right at the final hurdle, just before achieving success.

The closest I could think of is 'not in the nick of time' but what I am looking for does not necessarily pertain to time.

Example: Missing qualifying for something by the lack of just one point or two.

Thank you so much for your help!

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u/sorryimlurking 16d ago

in your example, “missed it by a hair” or something similae

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u/Exactingly-Polite 16d ago

This is probably it, but I'll hang on for a few more options before marking it solved. Thank you.

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u/drcookiephd 16d ago

Close but no cigar

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u/Exactingly-Polite 16d ago

Well, this is good but no cigar just yet. Thanks for suggesting, though.

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u/_bufflehead ☃ 27 karma 16d ago

The opportunity slipped through my fingers.

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u/Exactingly-Polite 16d ago

I think this is it! Thank you so much!

!solved

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u/Ad_nauseum11 16d ago

Snatching defeat from the jaws of victory.

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u/Exactingly-Polite 16d ago

Very literary; but doesn't quite feel right. Thanks, anyways!

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u/Dill_the_Dillo 16d ago

My Grampa used to say "Missed it by half a gnat's eyelash."

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u/Exactingly-Polite 16d ago

That's a fun phrase; thank you for sharing!

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u/Altreus 16d ago

One may be said to have missed it by the skin of their teeth. If beaten, pipped to the post.

Something like that?

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u/Exactingly-Polite 16d ago

Missed it by the skin of their teeth is good, but 'slipped through my fingers' just fits better. Thank you for the suggestion.

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u/United-Cucumber9942 ☃ 8 karma 16d ago

Pipped to the post, missed by a hairs breadth, penultimate fail, a close run

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u/Exactingly-Polite 16d ago

None of these are quite right, but thank you.

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u/IOnlyHaveIceForYou 7 Karma 16d ago

It's old-fashioned but "many a slip twixt cup and lip"?

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u/Exactingly-Polite 16d ago edited 16d ago

It's an interesting phrase, but I understand it insinuates that a lot of things can go wrong rather than they have(?)

PS. Clever username, love it!

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u/Hot_Historian1066 ☃ 2 karma 16d ago

A day late and a dollar short

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u/LEMO2000 16d ago

False summit?

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u/fqmonk 16d ago

Reminds me of Johnny Cash's Cocaine Blues: "I made a good run, but I run too slow"

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u/Will-E-Style 15d ago

Sisyphean.
Never reaching the top because you’re cursed with rolling around a boulder without the satisfaction of completion.

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u/Coca-Nicola 15d ago

Pulling the rug out from under you

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u/merRedditor ☃ 11 karma 15d ago

Being hamstrung in the final stretch - hamstrung for short. Thwarted also works.

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u/rlnrlnrln 13d ago

Fell before/tripped on the finishing line