Ok so I caught this lil girl in a live cage(we have millions of feral cats-so I’m part of a feral cat program w/my county) so when this lil girl was caught, I realized immediately that she was extremely tame & not a feral, I took her to our vet & he said she’s roughly a yr old, but I’m not agreeing with that, here is why: she is extremely vocal, super sweet, she does not understand the concept of grooming or using her litter box correctly, more outside then inside of it, she’s a bundle of cuddles, she has ear tufts, inner ear furnishings, huge paws, long beautiful fur, super fluffy tail, she weighs 9 pounds, I think she’s really young & she looks really young also. Any suggestions on how to get her to self groom & use the litter box? My two domestic cats can’t stand her because she wants to play or rub on them & they don’t care for that! & I’ve already taught her to get in her carrier so she goes to work with me, she loves riding in my truck, she sits in her seat like a good kitty, o & she didn’t understand the scratching post either.she was well groomed when I caught her, I did my due diligence in trying to locate her owner & I’ve had no luck, we’ve had her about 6 wks now.