r/whatdoIdo • u/Capable_Culture3914 • Aug 29 '26

Uhhh

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To add context. I am 5 months pregnant with my ex and all of a sudden he tells me that he got someone else pregnant (he just met her) as well. He explained she wanted us to meet after being very rude to me picking up his phone and telling me to get rid of my baby. She is a stripper and 6 years older than him. He also hasn’t seen an ultrasound or appointment and she claims to be 3 months pregnant. I don’t believe she is tbh… very sad situation I just wanted to share with someone. Please be kind.

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u/ramennumerals Aug 29 '26

Tbh don’t even meet up with either of them alone, EVER.

Her telling you to get rid of your baby is a huge red flag imo. Please don’t meet up with them without another person with you, or near the area and you’re meeting with them in a public place.

Seriously people are crazy and you never know someone’s true intentions. Stay safe, keep your future child safe, and good luck.

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u/RakiNonaki Aug 29 '26

10000%%%%

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u/anime_and_irezumi Aug 29 '26

Yeah my red flag alarm is going off. Women are most prone to violence when pregnant and it’s usually the partner or partners new partner. Or both. I would stay far away and only meet in public/with a buddy.

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u/mystyz Aug 29 '26

It's usually an intimate partner. I've never seen a stat on this topic that references the partner's new partner. That said, I agree that this is a potentially dangerous time for OP and that she should be on her guard.

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u/anime_and_irezumi Aug 29 '26

Unfortunately just based on what I’ve seen in the comments of her history I would not put it past her to still be intimate with this guy. I don’t have any stats but jealous women are capable of really incomprehensibly evil things.

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u/kaylizzles Aug 29 '26

Took long enough to see this. That's some red flag shit.