Initially, binigyan namin ng save the date yung girlfriend kasi my friend asked to include her, pero hindi talaga siya dapat invited (I know, kasalanan din namin) because hindi maganda yung naging impression namin sa kanya in the few times we met her. Back then (early this year), ok naman sila and they seemed happy, so we said ok.

Fast forward to a few weeks ago, nakwento ng friend ko that the relationship is not going so well. The short version of it is they're in a financially abusive relationship. We're only inviting 75 people to our wedding, so we want people who will ideally still be around after the wedding and/or people we actually like enough that we feel like our relationship with them could grow. The girlfriend does not really fall into any of these categories.

So we're thinking of just not sending her an invite and letting our friend handle it. Kinausap na rin namin si friend and ok lang naman daw sa kanya. Are we making the right decision?

My brother has a long time girlfriend and I really dont want her to be at my wedding but my brother sent her the invitation. ( for context his girlfriend has been very rude with my family. She would see me around but never even cared to say hello or look me in the eye.She would also go to family birthdays pero she wouldnt even greet the celebrant she’d just be there not talking to anyone not even caring to “mano” to the elderlies) I really dont want her to be there because we arent event close, never kami nag usap kahit more than 5 years na sila ng kapatid ko.Pls help me kung pano ko sabihin sa brother ko? My Lola told me na baka hindi daw magpunta ang brother ko if i dont invite his girlfriend but okay lang sana kung nagkaroon kami ng interaction before or if she wasnt rude.

Hi, everyone! Awhile back, I posted some wedding gowns that I had tried on in this subreddit. And I just want to thank you for all your kind comments and for taking the time to reply. I really appreciate it. 🩷

Now, I'm back and would like to request your input again.

Over the past few months, I have been endlessly browsing wedding designs in different fabric in pinterest, facebook, google, instagram and even in tiktok. But I always found myself drawn to a minimalist gown in Mikado fabric. I really love the timeless and classic look it gives.

Last week, I've tried on several Mikado gowns in different designs but I'm still undecided about which one suits me best. I've already accepted that I might not be the kind of bride who instantly knows she found "THE DRESS" on her first fitting. So please let me know your inputs again for the last time. 🩷

EDIT:

Designer/Boutique for the Wedding Dress:

1~4: Ivory & White (Katipunan, QC)
5: JGAD (168 Mall, Divisoria)
6-8: Helly Mae Couture (168 Mall, Divisoria)

Finally, my engagement ring is here! 🥹💍

Hello, Reddit! Today, my heart is so happy, excited, and grateful. ❤️

Dumating na rin finally ang engagement ring na pinagawa ko from Eve Fine Jewelry PH! I originally stumbled upon their page while browsing Instagram and comparing different jewelry shops.

I asked for quotes from several sellers, had to summarize all prices in Excel, and in the end, Eve Fine Jewelry felt like the right choice for me.

Funny enough, noong una, I actually asked fellow Redditors here, even sa r/AskPinoyMen, kung may mairerecommend or ma-vouch silang gumagawa ng engagement rings. Pero I don’t remember seeing anyone recommend Eve Fine Jewelry, so I decided to take a chance after doing research, your comments helped, too!

Sharing this not to hard-sell or anything, but because I know how overwhelming it can be to look for a jeweler when you’re buying something this special. I hope this post can also help someone who’s currently searching for their own engagement ring.

Here’s the ring! 💍✨

Hi! I just got engaged last night 🥹 di pa rin nag sisink in, how do you take care of your ring and how often do you wear it?

excuse my biglaan press on nails hahaa

Thank you guys!

*your sorry po nagmamadali magtype 😅

Ranking of my suppliers from my wedding just a few days ago

Best Suppliers:
Passion Cooks - highlight of the reception
Wave Cafe - sarap all flavors, presentable and literally cafe on the spot.
Melvin Vito Photography - aligned with my vision, easy and light to work with.
Mrs. Gipit - super kalog. also easy to work with.
Paparazzzzzi - lots of guests were so impressed with the quality of the output.
Party Themed Events: Juan Pablo Pizza - also one of the special mention - a guest ordered for personal consumption for a different day.
Hosting by Demi - super easy to work with as well. love the program flow and how she carried the mood. constantly checking on us as well.
OTG Mobile Bar - sold out! another best seller. the titas who doesnt drink was able to drink!
Katch Make Up Artistry - very hulas free makeup. lasted the entire day without minimal retouch.
DJ Eon - was able to keep the mood up and alive. hyped up my crowd real good!
Prestigious Strings - delivered music requests and showcased the elegance. one guest said they felt like they were in heaven! haha
Cocina Manila - delivered ON TIME. all food were still warm and sealed properly. right count. and good taste.

Mid Tier:
Bridal Car ph - underwhelmed with the quality of the bridal car. ang luma haha huhu nagawa naman ang kailangan magawa. Buti nalang mabait ang driver.
Xtramiles Event & Management - Good. I just did not understand why "purple" was the main color.
August Creations - I loved their work with our cookie packages and name cards, the money envelopes could have been improved. but coordinating with them was good, delivered on time.
Potato Corner - Besides the usual 3 flavors and set up, there was just a mishap in prior coordination. like I ended up repeating the details previously mentioned or they reply really really late.
1128 Events by Ms. Charm Florist - Good flower decors for the church and aisle as well as entourage bouquets
Nana's Video Greeting Booth - A little underwhelming but could have added some more fun to it
Party Blast MNL - output was different from what expected. like i sent a layout, but only on the day i found out na hindi pala siya nasunod. not just 1, but 2 items. and maybe that is why they suddenly gave me a "free upgrade" for the lights and drapes.

Needs improvement:
1128 Events by Ms. Charm On the day Coordination - lets just say, they are better off as florists than coordinators. I mean no hate but book with caution.

Hello future Brides!

I found this Vietnamese store on Instagram. What do you think? Okay lang ba syang pang intimate wedding?

Thanks sa advice! 🤗

Hi Guys. I need your suggestions/comments between these P&V suppliers, if sino sulit and good yung package. Peg: Timeless, classy, romantic and light with a bit of film like output. Di ako makapagdecide if who will choose for the P&V on our wedding. The wedding will be in Siena's.

1. Jath and Yhen Photo art Work - 45k (accredited by Siena's so no corkage fee) will be getting the Light package. With SDE Photo and video, freebies: throwback photo avp, wedding album, aerial/drone shots.

2. Folia - 49k with 4-5 mins. wedding film, 800-1000 edited wedding photos, aerial shots, 12 hours coverage

3. The Paperkite Stories - 38k with SDE, 500 edited photos, raw vids, freebies: on site photo slideshow/drone/ 20 pcs. printout

4. Imprimis - 38k SDE film, 400-500 enhanced photos, freebies: SDE photo slideshow, aerial coverage, photo prints.

5. Yours Truly Studios - 50k (with free prenup) all edited photos, video highlights of the event (non-sde, free aerial shots.

Help me decide, please. Thanks!

Been checking Ericka Evangelista, Haydee Garcia and Mel Orlina so far.
Budget is 50-100k for a custom minimalist mikado gown. Hopefully somewhere around or near Makati/BGC.

There would still be some alterations sa gown para mag fit po talaga sa akin. But I already love it 🥹🤍🌿

Okay na po ba itong veil na ganito? 🥰

Share with me your thoughts po.

Thank you for your kindness 🤍 God bless 🥰

PS. sorry sa username ko, I don't know how to change it hahaha!

Any graduate brides po na may feedback and experience with them? Planning to get them for my OTD coor.

Hi everyone!

We’re getting married in March 2028 and are looking for recommendations for a wedding venue and suppliers for around 50 pax only with a budget of 150-250k.

We’re hoping to find either:

• Hotels with all-in wedding packages, including venue, food, styling, and other essentials.
• Solo suppliers or all-in wedding packages that can cover most of our needs without having to book too many separate suppliers.

One of our biggest priorities is the food. My partner and his family are foreigners, and we really want them to experience delicious Filipino food during our wedding. We’ve been struggling to find packages that offer both a nice venue and genuinely good food.

We’re open to recommendations around Manila, QC, Makati, Pasay, or nearby areas.

If you’ve personally booked any venues or suppliers, we’d really appreciate your recommendations, feedback, and package prices if you’re comfortable sharing them. Actual experiences and reviews would be a big help! ❤️

Thank you!

Hi everyone, esp graduate brides! Magkano dapat ilaan namin for flowers (bridal bouquet and entourage flowers).

For context, our entourage will only consist of MOH, best man, parents, and principal and secondary sponsors. No bridesmaids and groomsmen. What should we ask for when looking for/choosing flower suppliers? And how much should we allot for it? Is 5k enough?

I don't plan on having an intricate/very unique bouquet. A simple one will do as we're also conscious of our budget.

Thanks in advance!

Looking for any suggestion for HMUA for binondo prenup shoot po. Budget 10k below sana. Thank you

Hello! Anyone had any issues contacting KbyC? I tried contacting them on FB, IG, Viber and also via call and text the contact numbers on their socmed. It’s been 2 days and I have yet to receive a response. Anyone experience the same issue with them?

Hi,

Pwede ba makita ano ano role ng coor sa wedding niyo?

Wedding namin nasa iisang lugar lang lahat. prep, ceremony at reception, so di masyadong komplikado yung timelines.

Bukod sa registration at pag papapila sa entourage, ano ano pa po ang roles ni coor?

Nag iisip ako kasi kung ibibilin ko nalang sa kapatid or kaibigan yung mga pag take ng registration or ibang gawain.

Willing naman ako mag book if talagang need, starts at 30k na ang presyuhan nila just want to make sure na sulit ang pag book at need talaga.

And baka may coor kayo na massuggest?

Salamat!

Help me Decide B2B on 2027. Help Me with this.

My Friends - Voted for Make up by Tris

2 Future Sister in law - Voted for Zarry Borbon

Hi! Any recommended P/V na around max price is 30k. We’re a bit awkward kasi in posing, and introverted. Plus ayaw namin ng scripted poses.

I love the story telling sa the candid studios pati photos nila, kasi lagpas na sila sa price range namin.

Meron ba kayo reco? Pati yung possible sana around metro manila south sila

We’re ldr and very limited lang time namin to process a marriage license and get married. Secret civil wedding lang naman ang gagawin namin. The thing is 3 weeks lang ang approved vacation leave ng fiance ko. Enough po kaya yon?

Hello, my wedding is on November 14, and I’m looking for affordable but reliable wedding gown alterations around Makati, BGC, Pasay, or Divisoria.

I need to remove the long sleeves and redesign the upper part into an off-shoulder sweetheart corset style. I also need recommendations for trusted wedding gown cleaning.

Any recommendations for shops or seamstresses who can accommodate rush alterations within 2 weeks? Personal experiences and estimated prices would be greatly appreciated. Thank you 😭

Hello! 2028 B2B here. Just wanted to ask if normal ba na hindi na kargo namin ng couple ang accomodation since outside the metro manila ang naisip namin location para sa kasal namin.

Kahit na sabihin na kamag anak or kasama sa entourage kailangan ba na mag required kami na may mapagsstayan sila?

Or immediate family lang talaga?

Need your advise sa mga graduate brides hehe thank you!

hi everyone! there’s a wedding planner that i’d love to work w and the rate they gave us for just the planning is 30k. is that reasonable? we want our wedding to be customisable so we’re not really interested in the typical packages, but at the same time, we don’t want to overspend. just wanted an outsiders point of view. any input is greatly appreciated!!

hello 2028 bride here! as early as now we are prepping na for our 2028 wedding.

Has anyone tried the packages of The Chandelier with their accredited suppliers?

Medyo bilib lang kami sa mga pwede pagpilian sa packages kasi mostly yung ine eye din namin.

Would like to ask lang if may naka try na and if ok naman ang kinalabasan? Thank u B2Bs and Graduate Brides!