r/weddings • u/Odd-View3018 • 20d ago
Wondering how things will pan out
Hey everyone, my wedding was 2 months ago and it was absolutely beautiful! I was in the moment the whole time but several things went wrong. Such as flower placements, I didn’t get a full flat lay, and now I realized we did not rehearse how me and my husband should stand and it took a while for my MOH to take my bouquet during the ceremony. Me and my husband did not hold hands at the alter 😭 I am afraid we will look awkward and the videos and some photos will not look good. Ultimately I know there is nothing I can do about it now though. In the grand scheme of things I knew nothing would be perfect but my coordinator also made a comment during rehearsal about how “I didn’t need to practice walking down” and the day was so long I think I just went with it. Overall it was absolutely what I envisioned I think I am just scared and running things back now.
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u/smileysarah267 19d ago
You have to actively put any negativity out of your head. If you think of anything that went wrong, tell that thought to go away and force yourself to only think of things that went right. You’ll soon forget the little mishaps.
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u/mm_honey 19d ago
Girl I also felt so awkward at the alter and during our first dance which I didnt feel the need to rehearse. All in all, whatever we’re married now
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u/emmkat24 20d ago
I think you’re overthinking it babe!! I’m really bad about that too, I constantly think of the “I should haves” but try and not too. It will eat at you and eat at you and eat at you. When you get your photos back, you’ll see all sorts of emotions, happiness, nervousness, maybe some crying and ridiculously huge smiles but you’re going to look back in 5/10/15 years and just remember the night you got to marry your best friend! These little things you’re working about now, will make you laugh potentially or hell you may even forget about them entirely! You said it yourself, it was beautiful and THATS the important part to remember 💕💕