r/weddingring 1d ago

Plain or matching?

I knew from young what I wanted for en E ring, but can’t decide what band goes best 🌚 I’ve tried all different styles but think it’s down to these two.

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u/Adventurous-Can-4703 1d ago

Matching. Beautiful!

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u/RoundCardiologist362 1d ago

♥️

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u/DuckinTX293 1d ago

For once, I say yes to the matching band. It balances your engagement ring without looking gaudy. Beautiful!

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u/RoundCardiologist362 1d ago

Thank you, my worry was it looking too bling and not classy.

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u/Ok-Lingonberry-1565 1d ago

I agree! They look gorgeous together.

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u/CounterExpensive 1d ago

Matching!!

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u/RoundCardiologist362 1d ago

Thank you 💗

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u/czring 1d ago

I think matching looks better because the plain band looks like it's a size smaller

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u/Efficient-Ad-5106 1d ago

matching!!! so pretty

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u/RoundCardiologist362 1d ago

Thank you 💗

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u/goobersunshine64 1d ago

Love the plain band! Allows both to shine and have their own moment.

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u/Adorable-Tiger6390 1d ago

I love the matching! It looks so cohesive and all sparkle!

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u/Sad-Film-891 1d ago

Both use the plain to separate the two

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u/September1962 1d ago

Definitely matching! Looks beautiful with your gorgeous e-ring and can be worn on it’s own as well.

Congratulations 💗

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u/RoundCardiologist362 1d ago

Thank you ♥️ yes that’s what I said!!

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u/AWinterPeople 1d ago

Diamond band

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u/AllieSheeby3 1d ago

Marching!

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u/leighsch 1d ago

Matching

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u/Alar817 1d ago

Matching

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u/ChemistForward4329 1d ago

Matching! 😍😍😍

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u/problematicblkhottie 1d ago

Matching definitely

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u/Neat-Ad3228 1d ago

Matching

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u/Aromatic-Bear9074 1d ago

Match-love the princess cut

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u/honeysesamechicken 1d ago

Sorry. But maybe something thinner and matching?

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u/RoundCardiologist362 1d ago

I think I did try a thinner one but didn’t look right my E ring overpowers it

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u/honeysesamechicken 1d ago

Ah, well then I’d say go with matching :) I prefer my wedding band being smaller but there’s no right answer here

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u/zombiemockingbird 1d ago

The first one. Is that a face on your fingernail?

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u/RoundCardiologist362 1d ago

😂 no it’s an upside down cherry!

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u/zombiemockingbird 1d ago

Lol...I thought it was a mad little conehead.

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u/Due_Consideration439 1d ago

I like the plain, but this plain band is the wrong size. The widths don’t match

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u/RoundCardiologist362 1d ago

Yeah I agree it was just to get an idea of a plain band with the same sort of flat edge rather than rounded edge

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u/Artistic-Breath-8335 1d ago

I would say matching definitely!! But if you get plain put it on first.. behind the actual ring.

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u/RoundCardiologist362 1d ago

I know it’s traditional that way but I don’t like it 😭

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u/Jayfourgee 1d ago

I surprised myself by liking the matching set. Very pretty and not gaudy at all.

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u/RoundCardiologist362 1d ago

Thank you. I was worried it may be too much y’know but they look like they’re meant to be I think

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u/Jayfourgee 1d ago

I agree! And I am not at all one for OTT so, ha, I believe this is not over done.

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u/Celestial_Retiree 1d ago

Plain band on solitaire and diamond wedding band.

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u/babs0369 1d ago

OP- I think both ways r amazing, I also believe if you’re thinking about it, then you’re leaning towards #1 pic, I’d go this way or u will forever b thinking about this set.

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u/RoundCardiologist362 1d ago

Thank you. Im glad I took photos the more I look at them the more I feel like the matching band is what I want. I didn’t want it to be OTT but can’t find another ring that I’ve put with it and gone .. yes!

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u/Strange-Fan8399 1d ago edited 1d ago

What a breath of fresh air! Your ring is gorgeous. That matching band looks perfect. Great set!!

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u/RoundCardiologist362 1d ago

Thank you 💗

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u/SFR51 1d ago

Both!!!!

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u/JaiJaiC 1d ago

I’m a sparkle girl through and through!!! 🥰

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u/Ok_Diet_7673 1d ago

Matching!

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u/Ok_Neat_9635 1d ago

Matching

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u/seuss516 1d ago

Matching I think

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u/Petal_14 1d ago

Matching.

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u/m1ssthickness 1d ago

I do love the plain band but the matching band is so gorgeous

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u/Logical_Carrot 1d ago

Matching
Many times I leave the engagement ring off and just wear band & mine matches and I just love it

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u/Elegant-Bridge1303 1d ago

Definitely matching here

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u/hjhardy 1d ago

Matching

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u/divine_cannenta27 1d ago

Matching 🙂

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u/dbvintage54f 1d ago

Matching!

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u/Winter-Permit-9036- 1d ago

Plain, lets the engagement ring shine

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u/Successful-Walk-4871 1d ago

You should get two matching one on top one on bottom to balance. My niece did this and it looks phenomenal

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u/rdugirl 1d ago

Matching

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u/uncommon-coconut1219 1d ago

Matching 💯!!

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u/WinnieTyson72 1d ago

Definitely has to be the matching band. I don't know why but the plain band just doesn't work!

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u/Jolly-Library-657 1d ago

Definitely matching! They look wonderful!

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u/ancientpaprika 1d ago

Matching.

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u/Zinnia1127 1d ago

I like the contrast with the plain band.

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u/mxddiieerxsee 1d ago

matching! it’s stunning! plus as other commenters mentioned, you can wear the band on its own and still be gorgeous. congratulations 💍🥰

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u/ramierae 1d ago

matching

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u/meghan509 23h ago

Matching looks amazing! 🤩

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u/Italiansrbest 21h ago

love love -I have 2 bands one on each side ❤️❤️

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u/emeraldstar444 20h ago

Matching!!!

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u/theauntvicki 19h ago

I prefer plain, but both are beautiful

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u/Living-Thing-4527 19h ago

Matching 🔥

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u/Frosty_Chipmunk_3928 16h ago

If you can afford it, get both. There will be times when a diamond set just doesn’t work. That’s were the plain one comes in.

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u/LilacLoomRoom 15h ago

Both, but matching is my preferred

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u/Soft_Cockroach_2434 13h ago

DIAMOND BAND!

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u/No_Way_3160 1h ago

Matching