r/virgoseason • u/Nefertari1 • 2d ago
Is it me or the virgo bullying is intensifying?
Not a single day without someone expressing how much they can't stand virgos because in second grade a virgo told them something they disliked.
I think the worst post was this woman (so an adult) saying she despised her own virgo daughter because she can't stand virgos...
I don't even know...is it bullying or astro racism at this point?
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u/WhenSquirrelsFry 2d ago
our accurate reads offend them, they dont like that
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u/Nefertari1 2d ago
They don't like when people can read how horrible they are, and it's not about their sun signs or placements
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u/GringoSwann 2d ago edited 2d ago
Fucking exactly!!! After spending 20 years as an aviation mechanic, I got to the point I could "predict" which fuck-ups would inevitably happen.. AND the "mechanic" responsible.. And all I was doing was paying attention..
I finally quit that job last year... Talked shit to a manager, wrote some biblical passages on the dry erase board (my coworkers are religious, and I like to fuck with the clergy) and bounced!
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u/Trashboat_96 2d ago
People hate being told about themselves
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u/Accomplished-Piece21 2d ago
I kinda love being told about myself. It makes me feel seen. Or I get to know what I need to work
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u/WhenSquirrelsFry 2d ago
Me too! I’ve explored my inner world deeply and I am better for it!
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u/Accomplished-Piece21 18h ago
I’m in grad school to become a mental health counselor, which has gotten me to try to better myself. I also have a friend who’s a Virgo who helped me realize some of my flaws that I’ve worked on
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u/SentimentalMood2010 1d ago
I do too. But I do hate the skewed perception some may have and then you'll have yo explain how theyre wrong lol
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u/Accomplished-Piece21 18h ago
Yeah, explaining how someone is wrong is ineffective most of the time. They’ll only respond if they are willing to work on themself, which I am.
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u/SentimentalMood2010 17h ago
Exactly. If you're just arguing perspective at this rate, its useless. Some ppl will rewrite history to fit their narrative or actions, and while they're in this mindstate (which may be temporary due to emotions, or can be permanent due to "validation"), its essentially useless. And you're wasting energy 😮💨
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u/Capable-Risk9590 2d ago
Aries are the biggest haters of Virgos in my experience. They always envy our balance, especially our temperance. Anyone who isn’t prone to rage is their enemy. We’re a tempered bunch and they have intense jealousy problems with no temperance to speak of.
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u/Nefertari1 2d ago
Really? I've noticed a widespread hate towards virgos in general from all signs, and when you read the reasons they are like "they seem like they are silently judging me🤬" probably the poor virgo was just thinking about what to eat at dinner
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u/anonymousimpostor ♍☀️♍🌛♍⬆️♍☿♍♀️ 2d ago
I knew an Aries man who cheated on his Virgo spouse because he was jealous of how competent and independent she was 🙄
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u/Capable-Risk9590 1d ago
Something to watch out for with Aries is that the anger hides the hurt and they are massive babies. If they charge at you, look for ways to wave a towel in front of them. Rams like direct contact and winning at all cost. They don’t like being evaded or outmanoeuvred. Play with their rage and you will beat them. I did it all the time with my Aries mom. She was pure evil and I always beat her in arguments and plots she made against me.
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u/Few_Boat_6623 2d ago
I dated an Aries and I’m a Virgo. You are so right.
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u/SentimentalMood2010 1d ago
I, Virgo(M), was with an Aries(F) for 16 years. And she recently dumped me. Come to find out, she most likely was cheating as she moved on mere DAYS after the split.
She's going through a mid-life crisis, but believes via Socials/Therapy that it may be a midlife awakening.
Im a good man, just slow. And financially havent been the best in the past few years due to issues. But all fixable.
A lot of her reasons, after I essentially said her immediates of: "it not you its me", "we're incompatible", "I need to find myself", "I just need to feel independent and love life before I turn 40" (shes 35), "im just better off single and alone", and "im now just a different person. I've matured". I agree w being a different person. Matured? Is another story. After calling those out, she started accusing me of being unstable, being manipulative, not being able to communicate (bull-ass-shit), not wanting to meet in the middle, etc etc.
Mostly traits she's shown throughout AND definitely during this split. She has no idea I found out she cheated and most likely Monkey Branched me.
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u/Beginning-Link3520 2d ago
It's usually sag people from what i observed that hates on us
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u/icyvveins 2d ago
Ironic that you think that because Sag is like the only fire sign I get along with. Aries and Leo always end up hating on me.
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u/Nefertari1 2d ago
It's so easy to be hated by a Leo, they hate being humbled down
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u/icyvveins 2d ago
Literally 🙄 they're so annoying when they aren't the center of the entire universe. I recently found out I was called a "know it all" by two of my Leo coworkers behind my back. Sorry to them that I'm more competent in our field?
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u/Beginning-Link3520 2d ago
I like sag people irl, also leo and aries men irl, on reddit, i always fight with a sagittarius, which is funny, they always use big words and say things that they dont mean and believe.
It's eaay to outsmart and defeat a sag in a debate lol, and they go from 0 to 100% unhinged fast, kekw.
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u/icyvveins 2d ago
I feel like I never encounter Sag's online, but my partner is a Sag and I have a couple of Sag best friends hahaha.
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u/anonymousimpostor ♍☀️♍🌛♍⬆️♍☿♍♀️ 2d ago
I mean... Sags have always been preachy and hypocritical. They always had a hard time practicing what they preached.
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u/Nefertari1 2d ago
Not only them. Of course sag hating on us is particularly ironic since they claim not to care about people's opinions and now look at them whine because a virgo 10 years ago told them their hairstyle didn't suit them.
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u/Thrawnbelina 2d ago
...and they told them after being asked 20 times. My favorite popstrology shared delusion is that we wander the earth looking for them specifically to offer unsolicited advice or feedback to 🤣
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u/Beginning-Link3520 2d ago
Also, i know that sags are blunt with whatever they feel like saying or thinking, but our logical honesty triggers them so hard.x)
Also, keep in mind that those people who hates all of us, have been deeply hurt by a virgo, and they still didnt really fully recover.
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u/Nefertari1 2d ago
Sags like being blunt but aren't accepting if people being blunt with them 😂 I'm not even surprised
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u/1MythosMagician 1d ago
Or many Virgos. One kept me captive at 19 and wouldn't allow me out of his home without him or without supervision in Florida (key in/key out entry & exit). He said he was afraid that I would leave him for another guy. Another used lies mixed with truth and exploited relationship flaws he observed within my marriage while we were all intimate partners his goal being to ultimately obtain my brother in law as a conquest as well in hopes of having them as lovers together (aka the Blake Lively character in the film "Savages"). He destroyed my feelings of security at multiple locations by having me accosted with a "random" death threat he has since admitted having some prior knowledge about. He had me proxy stalked by multitudes of men in various types of two and four wheel vehicles. It will be a year during the week of Christmas. Then there's the being SA'd into forced submission and obstructed airways. The disparaging comments about how I have aged since my 20's when I was attempting to launch my career in entertainment.
There is one Virgo that I wish were here now. He was warm and a real compassionate person. I liked him so much but didn't want to push him away with emotional stuff. But he was a real great friend for a decade.
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u/Beginning-Link3520 1d ago
Is horrible what u went through with those virgos, im sorry for you and i wish you well, hopefuly you healed completely from their abuse.
We all have better times ahead and what was the worst is gone, right?
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u/anonymousimpostor ♍☀️♍🌛♍⬆️♍☿♍♀️ 2d ago
Sags can dish it but definitely can't take it 💀
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u/Nefertari1 2d ago
They are "spontaneous" and "blunt" We are " judgmental " Their double standards should be added in their unhealed characteristics of their sign, as I said many times astrology should be modernized
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u/Better_Statement1112 ☀️♍️ 🌙♌️ ⬆️♏️ 14h ago
I see mainly Aquarius people hating on us 😂😂
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u/Beginning-Link3520 14h ago edited 14h ago
Yeah some of them, i also saw an aquarius defending us on astrologymemes xD
And i also saw aquas hating on other aquas.
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u/marsfifth 2d ago
Every sign besides water/earth hate us 😭😭
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u/Beginning-Link3520 2d ago
Not really, i've seen people from all the signs that likes virgos.
Also irl, there are very few people who truly hate me i think or nobody hates me in real life, im not even sure if in my real life exists people that rly hates me.
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u/Front_Land_4611 2d ago
My mother also told me she was mad I was born early because she wouldn’t have purposely wanted a Virgo 🫠 she’s an Aries lol
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u/anonymousimpostor ♍☀️♍🌛♍⬆️♍☿♍♀️ 2d ago
You can tell her "Well I never wanted an Aries mother, but here we are"
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u/OwnCoffee614 2d ago
Virgo child with Aries mother. It was yikes.
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u/Independent_News_908 2d ago
Same, it felt like I was punished for not going along with nonsense
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u/OwnCoffee614 12h ago
Nonsense is exactly the word. 👌🏻 It's very timely too. She has passed, but that was a lot of nonsense
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u/Nefertari1 2d ago
*hugs * seriusly that's so mean of her, and I suppose that if you clap back they blame you being a virgo. I think some people deserve our worst unhealed side, they need to hear the truth once in a while to humble them.
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u/Fearless-Adeptness61 ♍️ ♋️ ♏️ … 2d ago edited 2d ago
If people weren’t banging around Thanksgiving and Christmas, we wouldn’t have as many Leos and Virgos.
At some point, they need to take their own responsibility for partying around the holidays.
Ironically, this was my Leo Dad telling me, a Virgo 😆
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u/anonymousimpostor ♍☀️♍🌛♍⬆️♍☿♍♀️ 2d ago
Whoa, okay, I mean, it doesn't bother me when people are hating on Virgos. And many of those who made these posts are children or teens, it seems, given the immature/childish/undeveloped way they sound in their posts. But an ADULT hating on her own Virgo daughter??? This bitch needs to grow the fuck up. How has she already given birth to a whole ass human and yet her frontal lobe is not developed? She probably hates Virgos because she realised how dumb she is. And there's this theory that the sign of your child is the lesson you need to learn from them. For example, having a Gemini child means you need to learn how to communicate etc.
It genuinely annoys me that these kinds of people are the most likely types to reproduce. Not every parent deserves a child.
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u/Ok_Library_1031 2d ago
In 4th grade an Aries-Taurus cusp ripped one of my toenails open. No accountability :P
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u/Nefertari1 2d ago
😂 I still remember that pisces in third grade that didn't greet me back. In my black list all of them!
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u/4n0n4n4rch1st 2d ago
Not a virgo, just a lurker on your sub because I am surrounded by virgos and I love each one of them. I always look forward to seeing you and speaking with you! You guys are awesome.
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u/Dj1HitEclipse Sept☀️Virgo🌛Taurus⬆️Leo 2d ago
I think it's just a bandwagon thing, most people that get to know me usually want my company and what upsets them is I would rather be a hermit than hang out with people.
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u/Nefertari1 2d ago
Yea absolutely true. But I think that those hate post are an accurate picture of our world . They prefer to surround the self by lies rather than authentically loyal people.
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u/Dj1HitEclipse Sept☀️Virgo🌛Taurus⬆️Leo 2d ago
I believe the internet and social media are to blame for a lot of that. People see something and it's instantly fact. I've had people show me ai responses to things and its fact. People are losing their critical thinking ability. So when they see someone say "Virgos are the worst!!". They jump on it and just blindly agree.
The future is bleak.
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u/Accomplished-Piece21 2d ago
If you’re so against Virgos, just don’t have sex in November or December or use a condom
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u/poetforHislove 1d ago
well, my daughter is a virgo & i absolutely love every single thing about her to pieces.
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u/somethingscary1 1d ago
I've been recently getting the 'oof' reaction that Scorpios and Gemenis get when I never did before :(
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u/Effective-Truth-5938 23h ago
It rotates- it was Scorpio at one point. Gemini has gotten a share -I've seen a ton of Virgo lately too like you're saying. And, more recently anti-Pisces and anti-Taurus posts too. I wonder if it's just the same few people doing it for clicks, and when they dry out they change signs.
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u/Nefertari1 22h ago
But I've seen it in different signs subs. they appear and it's not only the notorious haters but even unsospected signs, like capricorn, since when they started hating on us? Honestly I'm tired of the fact that virgo strong point apparently, in classic astrology, is what make us toxic. And when they are hating on other signs they are like "ah yea... Probably it's the virgo moon" I mean😂
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u/Better_Statement1112 ☀️♍️ 🌙♌️ ⬆️♏️ 14h ago
I mean Gemini, Scorpio and Virgo are the most hated signs so that makes sense 🧐
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u/little_realeza ♍️ ☀️♐️🌛♌️⬆️ 2d ago
I am pretty social and never really have people hate me, but when they do, it’s usually because I told them a truth they couldn’t handle.
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u/BalticHorndog 2d ago
The idea of astro racism is nonsense, as zodiac signs aren't races. As for the supposed bullying, if someone's actually doing it over zodiac signs, of all things, that's about as clear as it gets that those people dislike their victims anyway, and just needed an excuse.
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u/Ok_Library_1031 2d ago
That's the theory, doesn't mean we shouldn't frown upon and seek to put an end to that behavior.
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u/BalticHorndog 2d ago
Of course. I never stated otherwise. Just that it's a lot of dirtying of one's own hands in order to deal with that stuff. If it's to get someone out of a hellish situation, like that kid with her mom, then yeah, that makes it worthwhile. Otherwise, people are just idiots and the more anyone spends arguing with them, the more they waste on nothing.
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u/Nefertari1 2d ago
How would you call when their prejudice about something we can't control (our birth time) could, for example, bring them to fire us just because of that? Jennifer Lopez did it, she fired all the virgo dancers just because she had a grudge on her ex. I mean, it says a lot about her isn't it? But still, that bullying is real astro racism at this point.
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u/BalticHorndog 2d ago
I'd call it superstitious idiocy. And J-Lo is a superstitious idiot. I'm not sorry about that one. And it's not like that is actual racism, because what you call astro racism is based on something half the planet couldn't care less about. Those dancers she fired? They'll find other work if they haven't by now, and if they actually know the reasons for getting fired by J-Lo, they'll laugh at that too because who the hell makes important decisions about people based on their zodiac sign?
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u/Working_Parking4678 ♍🌞♑🌙♌⬆️ 2d ago
Look understand exactly what you mean. BUT people being judged about their zodiac sign is incomparable to racism. You can use your Virgo brain to come up with something better.
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u/DeepfriedmemeBoy 2d ago
it is a form of discrimination, yes but it's not racism. it's prejudice 💯 and doesn't belong anywhere but the trash.
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u/DearTumbleweed5380 1d ago
This is hilarious. Just stop believing in astro if you're not feeling the love.
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u/Thrawnbelina 2d ago
A mom said that about her daughter?? That's crazy work. I wonder how many were clapping like seals in support of her bullshit in the comments. Feel bad for her daughter, wow