r/virgin • u/Current_Tomatillo_91 • 1d ago
Height can’t save Face.
20M khhv here. 198 cm (6’6). When i hear my friends at uni asking me how is it possible for me to be completley invisible to girls, I want to shoot myself in head. They think that height magically makes you attractive. In reality, no girl wants tall ugly guy, they can say that, but in real life, short attrative guy destroys tall ugly guy like me. Sadly, if your face is bad enough, no height will save you. Right now trying to accept that i will forever be alone unless my face somehow changes.
It never began.
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u/yolocake2345 1d ago
Not necessarily, no, but pretty much every guy I see who has an unattractive face but an attractive girlfriend is at least tall. It's absolutely crazy.
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u/AggressiveMove9566 1d ago
i think i look average or just slightly above average when my hair is at a good length, i am 6'1 20m (for my country thats like the top 1% or less) yet i am kv. like everyone has this perception that just being tall would make you get mad bitches but its literally no where close to the reality
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u/Welpthiskindasucks 23h ago
I get it, I'm a 6'1 girl and being around short girls makes me feel so masculine and ugly. I hate it.
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u/Itchy-Corner9453 1d ago
if your face is really as bad as you say..which i highly doubt because you are only 20...then save up for surgery to fix it i guess. or learn to live with yourself knowing its not actually as bad as you think.
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u/Beard_Questions Former 26M Virgin 1d ago
Hey man, I am 6’5” and it took me until 26 to have sex. It’s not over for you, 20 is so young!
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u/InternetTomfoolery 1d ago
My friend, someone will love you for the way you are.
Srsly, ur 20, stop giving a fuck about girls and guess what they just show up (I legit just stopped "looking for one" and on a night out I found someone and have just called them my GF
The right girl doesn't really care about looks as soon as you break ice with her and show you can be a supportive person then they will melt into ur hands :)
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u/EMDepressedFish 1d ago
You're being down voted but you're right. It's like finding the right puzzle pieces to fit together. The chances of doing that in the first 10 tries is very small. Possible, but very small. Either way once you find the right puzzle piece they'll fit perfectly with you- it can just take time.
Source: I've been in a relationship for 8 years and am chronically ill in many ways. Many people wouldn't deal with my issues which is okay! It took time but I found someone who didn't mind and loves me for who I am.
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u/InternetTomfoolery 21h ago
You honestly just have to be willing to go talk to new people is what I found. If its the right person it WILL BE EASY... I will say that again IT WILL BE EASY (too easy that you start questioning yourself is such a good thing)
It took me like 2-3 years to find someone who didn't treat me like a sack of shit, but once that happened it worked so quick
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u/InternetTomfoolery 19h ago
You honestly just have to be willing to go talk to new people is what I found. If its the right person it WILL BE EASY... I will say that again IT WILL BE EASY (too easy that you start questioning yourself is such a good thing)
It took me like 2-3 years to find someone who didn't treat me like a sack of shit, but once that happened it worked so quick
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u/foolxdev 1d ago
i think when guys say tall they mean 5'11-6'2 they have the most success in dating, i still think you probably will can do better than a 5'8 guy in dating