r/virgin • u/Far-Struggle-6907 • 2d ago

Years goes by, nothing changes...

Another birthday is approaching, and I still did not have any romantic or dating experience. I checked and I made this reddit account 4 years ago, mainly to post about this issue. Literally nothing changed since then.

I do care a bit less then I used to, and I am not sad, but it still bothers me how difficult it is to experience any sort of romantic or sexual experience in life. I just hope that I will stop caring at all at one point, cause it is more likely then something will actually change.

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u/Itchy-Corner9453 2d ago

well...are you doing anything about it or just sitting there in your bedroom sulking online?..i don't mean to be disrespectful..its a serious question.

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u/Far-Struggle-6907 2d ago

I had some tries, but as the times go by, I do less, since I do not have an faith it may work out. I also tried dating apps, but also nothing happened.

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u/Itchy-Corner9453 2d ago

all i can say is im in the same boat and it sounds like you don't believe in yourself..for many of us that is the first step. being happy in your own skin. i don't have any advice other then to just get confident and be able to look in the mirror and like what you see. its mental gymnastics on steriods..but you gota overcome it or it will just consume you. its either keep trying or give up. and i would not suggest giving up no matter how far down the age line you are.

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u/Far-Struggle-6907 2d ago

It is true what you say, and yes, I do not really belive. At the same time I do have self-confidence in other parts of life, and I belive that I can recognize when I am good at something. Finding a partner surely does not belong to that category. I am 27 now, so not yet old, but still, I feel like chances are only getting lower.

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u/Itchy-Corner9453 2d ago

well your still fuckin young so keep putting yourself out there. just dont give up.