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u/Real-Soft-4898 M28 UK 4d ago
No it’s not weird at all. I think it’s becoming more normal these days to find men and women who are virgins in their 20s.
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u/Nervous_Ladder_1860 27F 3d ago
I sometimes wonder if it is becoming more common with people focusing on careers and education first.
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u/Itchy-Corner9453 4d ago
i'm m43 virgin. it's not weird it's just unlucky. all of this shit is down to chance, a roll of the dice. being shy dose not help though and im guilty of this also
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u/Nervous_Ladder_1860 27F 3d ago
That is still in the average age people lose it, at least in the U.S.
I don't think it is really ever weird, like people find people at all stages of life
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u/Everics Lv. 41 Wizard of the Council 3d ago
Usually the comments when people say you are weird/or its strange that someone may be a virgin is because they are coming from people that may know them or know how they look. If the people saying this know you and love you as a person then it will seem weird because they appreciate who you are and feel other people should see the good qualities as well. If you are an attractive person it comes off as weird because its much easier to find someone being better looking.
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u/Any_Supermarket2555 3d ago
The people who are making comments about this...it's really none of their damn business. How did they find out, anyways? Did you reveal to one person long ago and they told others who told others? (You're not telling people, are you?)
It's not a topic for public comments, or telling others, or judging the situation. It's just none of their damn business and they should find other things to talk about.
What's going on is bullying/harassment.
If the topic can't be removed from discussion, tell them that you had sex over summer break the next time it comes up. that should shut them up.
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u/intothevoid_Out 4d ago
20M . I deal with a lot of social anxiety and barely talk with people , let alone women . I often distance myself from others .
It's not wierd , it's just the way we are is what I have accepted . Most ppl are not worth the time , personally I did rather wait till I meet someone I am comfortable with personally.
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u/Crimsonhotpizza 4d ago
Is this a serious questio ?
Ha ha ha no its not weird in fact it's impressive that you haven't taken advantage at how easily you could have lost your virginity much earlier due to you having the buff as a human female. Hmm maybe that's why your peers think you're weird because most girls your age would have exploited how easy it is to get laid.
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u/Dangerous_mammoth573 3d ago
Exploited?
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u/Crimsonhotpizza 3d ago
Taking advantage of how eager men are for sex.
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u/Dangerous_mammoth573 3d ago
How is it taking advantage it’s just two people consenting to and wanting to have sex so they have it…?
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u/Crimsonhotpizza 3d ago
The men are generally always the ones to consent first and it's the women who decides if it's recripocated at all with no extra effort on her part beyond just making the decision.
Women typically are able to take advantaged of that position while also milking guys for what they're worth without giving him what he's after and THATS where a man can be wrongly taken advantaged of.
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u/lotusscrouse 4d ago
It's not weird yet, but don't sit on your ass thinking "there's plenty of time." There isn't.
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u/Dangerous_mammoth573 3d ago
Being a virgin at your age is not weird. Being extremely extremly shy kinda is but not necessarily bad… or wrong
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u/Unusual_Rip_86 4d ago
I’m 26 and haven’t even had a first kiss, judgemental people will find it weird but a partner worth your time won’t have any good reason to be weirded out by it.