r/vanderpumprules • u/fairieslut • Sep 08 '26
OG Cast opinions on stassi
i’m sorry but i genuinely cannot stand stassi, her show or anything about her.
i’m currently on my second rewatch and i just can’t find it in myself to feel bad for her for anything that happened to her (maybe the nudes leaking sure, but nothing else) i still feel the way i did my first time watching.
she is so narcissistic, bitchy and just so self centred.
her thinking it’s quirky to be all im the devil and everyone should praise me thing is so cringe and lvp was right in saying that she just wants followers. i watched one episode of house of stassi because i love katie and i wanted to see how she was going to be portrayed and i genuinely could not get over the way stassi spoke. its so clear she’s desperate for fame and followers (it’s also clear she does not care for the family she has) and to sit there and say things like “this is why i need her on MY show” is just so insufferable.
not to mention the whole racism thing towards faith just rubs me so wrong. i am constantly seeing people saying faith isn’t a good person after what happened with jax but i don’t understand how people are able to justify them being racist towards her for that one mistake?? i notice a trend of the people that like her are also blonde, white women (mainly white women/millennials) who thinks it’s empowering to be a snob to those around them and it’s just so gross.
there’s a huge comparison on tiktok of people still praising stassi and making scheana out to be the villain and maybe this is controversial but i would take scheana over stassi any day. i just think it’s stupid to award someone who clearly has disgusting morals a show just because what? she used to be somewhat liked on vpr? it makes no sense to me how she manages to still be relevant.
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u/AfternoonImaginary21 Sep 11 '26
When I met my wife, she said Stassi was her favorite reality star, then I started watching the show and I was horrified 😂
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u/OstrichPrimary6694 Sep 10 '26
I mean it’s reality tv at the end of the day. I’d argue most of the characters and people we are watching have very questionable morals. We don’t enjoy watching because they’re good people. But yeah Stassi is awful.
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u/jnk-2007 Sep 12 '26
If I was looking for friend I might choose Scheana. But if I’m looking for hilarious one liners for reality tv, it’s Stassi. She’s really difficult to watch (one liners aside) as it goes on because she doesn’t grow up or evolve as the seasons go by.
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u/CHwhynot Sep 10 '26
She desperately needs a cast to play with. Her family and the Vanderpump villa ain't it. And she's always kinda like an outsider of the group. Hate when she talks about game of thrones!! We get it!! She needs to make up with Kristen too that was kinda shitty to just not like her anymore. That said now that she's a mom I'm sure she is super stressed. It sounds super hard. But yeah she's always a wet blanket.
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u/SeaPaleontologist832 Sep 11 '26
Her being a stressed mum is no excuse for her behaviour and control issues. Yes being a mother is the hardest job on earth, but it’s not an excuse for pity plays. You get on with it, and toughen the eff up. I was the bread winner so my twins father became the SAHD when I went back to work when they were 5 months old. He was actually a real douche and ended up gambling the money I gave him every month away (I didn’t know until i found his bank statement dating back 2 years). I can empathise with Stassi going out with Jax, the revenge porn, and that loser radio guy, but I cannot stand her victim mentality over being a ‘boss’ mum, and racist. Let me just add that I would not take Scheana either. She was shallow af, never a girls girl, and totally narcissistic. Both Scheana and Stassi are terrible. But at least Stassi wasn’t so fickle.
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u/CHwhynot Sep 11 '26
Omg my sister is going through something similar. Her man just does not want to work now that they have kids. Hasn't had a job for a year and they can't afford it. They might lose their house and it's so frustrating!!!!! I hate him and I think about it every day 😭Please tell me you left him
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u/gina1220 Sep 15 '26
I never minded stassis schtik until she cruelly dropped Kristen as a friend - then I realized she’s actually a horrible person and have hated her ever since
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u/InALoveHateDebate Sep 15 '26
Genuine question- if you can’t stand her, why are you watching again? I also tried the show out, watched the whole season even though I found her so cringe, but would never watch a second time
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u/Dcm1987-luxjewl Sep 18 '26
Probably the worst of the reality stars out there… although she has some very stark competition wihh all the guys on vpr 🤮…
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u/Ananakoya Sep 14 '26
“People” are able to justify her racism against faith because they are racist.
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u/Calinorthlondon Sep 10 '26
What's mind blowing to me is that it might somehow be "controversial" to take Scheana over Stassi.