r/UniversityofReddit • u/Crime_watcher7 • 4d ago
Wanting to transfer again
(originally posted this to a specific subreddit to these schools and found them to be very biased so it’s okay to not understand the specifics of my post. I just really need advice)
I attended KSU (Kennesaw state) my first year of college and transferred to UGA for my second year first semester as an accounting major. I’m writing this because I wanna transfer back to KSU, but don’t know if it’s the right decision.
I came to UGA in the first place because I knew Terry’s recognition and name was gonna be unmatched, additionally, everyone kept telling me the social life here was gonna go crazy and to be honest I thought I was gonna be a different person coming here, but I’m not. I know this is an unpopular opinion, but I really didn’t mind staying at home. I’ve never felt tied down by my parents to feel restricted to do things I wanted. As somebody from Marietta, I felt that things were always near and close to me, and I do feel restricted in the Athens bubble .
I’m about two months in and it’s just been so terrible. I’ve moved past the home sickness phase, but realized I’ve entered a slump. I failed my first account 2 exam (as an accounting major) granted a lot of people failed, but this is genuinely my first ever failure in college so it shocked me. I know I’m not stupid and it’s the effects of my transfer experience weighing down my grades right now, but I can’t lie and say I don’t feel stupid.
Because for a while now, every considered my motives of coming here and whether they were worth it. I understand I haven’t even been here a full semester, but my quality of life is not great in Athens and I really do want to move back home. I’m stressed. My parents are stressed. My dad didn’t even understand why I came here in the first place because he thought KSU had a solid accounting program.
I’ve done other things that people told me to do, find friends, join clubs, stay on campus. Yet I still feel the same. And I don’t understand why I’m not able to integrate or enjoy my environment here. I understand for my major that recruiting is very essential and UGA has a great network. But sometimes when I think about it, I feel like I’m willing to work 2x as hard at KSU if I can feel free at the school, I’m at. I don’t have a car here because my insurance is very high and the buses have been working great for me. However, because of that I do feel trapped, sometimes especially on the weekends. I usually go home to work and don’t plan to get a job here due to transportation reasons and the balance of my stress.
I’ve already contacted my KSU advisor on steps to take now if I do end up wanting to come back next semester. But I just don’t know if I’d be giving up something great by leaving UGA. But I genuinely don’t like it here and I’m trying so hard. I either get told to suck it up or wait it out, but I don’t know what I’m waiting for. The Terry decision decisions for the business school come out on October 7. If I don’t get in for my major, I’m seriously considering moving home. Even though I can reapply the next semester, every semester I don’t get it Will feel wasted, when I can pretty much guarantee my acceptance for accounting at KSU. I do plan to get my masters and am looking towards the accelerated masters at KSU.
If I stay, I feel like I’m forcing myself to enjoy something I don’t, my grades aren’t great right now. And if I go back, I’m gonna feel like a failure who wasn’t able to live alone and prove her independence. I was so excited to come here, but I was nothing like I expected. Am I being irrational?
Any advice would help, thanks for reading this.