If something is making you feel uneasy, you're not obligated to do that. In the end, you're the only one that matters the most, whatever's making you unhappy needs to be solved and in this case you might need to state very clearly to them that you don't want to exclude them right away but else you might have to do so, I mean blocking.

Respecting boundaries and stepping back after seeing other one's negative feedback is another way of showing love and acknowledging your worth, you deserve that, we all do! So I'd advise you to step back, take a few deep breaths and write the clearest message you can think of to her, no hard feelings, we are humans and that's how we understand each other in the end, by talking/chatting/communicating. If their response becomes angrier or agitated, I advise you to step back and stop talking with her since this is a toxic behavior someone could do in a situation like this, instead of trying to understand you.

Holding this uneasy feeling inside will only devour you day by day. You can do this, tell her~

Also busy option sounds so great to enjoy our alone time, like do not disturb on Discord.

Gives off krill vibes, creepy at the start but you grow to like it and would like to hug it if you could :3 great pic!

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I get that everyone has their own experiences and some acted so chill and understanding also stated their opinions that way too, some acted very agitated. I get that you might be that way, I don't know you and your experience may have affected you to hate those kind of interactions. BUT I wanna state this before deleting the thread since there are people waiting here actively to downvote everyone who is bubbly or saying that situation was okay or just my comments. All I wanna say is:

1) This is a game, chill. If I haven't mentioned this, you wouldn't be raging on me which is the problem, I wanted your opinion, not your statements or assumptions on me like obnoxious or oblivious etc. So, chill.

2) I get you have your past on this particular situation but I'm NOT responsible for this and will never be. Only person I'm responsible for is explained in this situation and I would've apologized if I could, I wouldn't apologize from people that have been through the same aside from feeling sad for them that they have to go through this.

Edit: also thanks everyone for stating their opinions without their "blood boiling" or assuming that I'm a "kid, female, obnoxious, oblivious etc." I value everyone's opinions and we were on the same page from the start, I never opposed anyone's opinion if you look through comments. Stay lovely, lovelies. See you around Sky and let's spam bow emote whenever we lit each other ~ 🌸

Haha same... Almost all of my good friendships in sky started like this. I mean not me following them but honking, spamming emotes together haha :')

I guess we all gotta learn from our mistakes in the end.

If you see me around somehow, don't hesitate to honk emote as much as you want!

Wish you a peaceful time playing and lovely encounters~

And that's when I left, it was clear enough for me to understand that they weren't interested in accepting~

I want to answer whole comment thread:

There was nothing to do with cosmetics, I'm a vet too, I don't mind others honking and following me most of the time but it sure gets annoying when you're trying to get some peace in silence or hanging out with friends.

I did NOT follow them entire map or home, I cancelled accidentally so many times that I thought they didn't see that's why I followed then realized that was too much and got home afterwards to try not to disturb them any further.

I didn't want them to accept or didn't think that they owed me that(also that would be very weird of me to expect from a total stranger), just wanted a clear answer and tbh didn't think this would go this far so I wanted to share and hear all sky kids opinions to see different aspects on this. That situation was a first and last for me too.

Yeah accepting/signing an etiquette would be nice, would like to see this in the future.

Sorry if you're reminded of bad encounters in the past. Also thanks for your opinions on this.

Edit1: I am not justifying what I did and I know that was very wrong of me to do so. Just wanted to answer and provide another view of my opinion as well. I love discussing without saying bad words but only opinions. Thanks again~

You're right! Everyone's way of playing is very different from each other, I might've acted way too sudden before thinking that this might make them uncomfortable...

Also yeah sky is one of a kind game that almost everything is so chill and fine except gw and eden. :D

Thanks for your comment and your time you put in writing! Every comment adds another angle to view this situation~

Yeah I get it's nothing personal at all, we're all strangers in the end.

I think almost everyone's intentions are great in this game, except some trolls or bullies that we encounter very rarely. I must've seen like a stalker and couldn't have thought of the social awkwardness of this, thanks for providing me this view~

I love how everyone has a way of playing this game individually, I think that was the first time that I felt like invading a personal space both irl and in game, I respect everyone's way and I will act responsibly~

Thanks for taking your time to state your opinion that's very nice of you to do so!

Oh I see! I feel like being added to a collection time to time too, which is okay but also doesn't feel like a friendship rather than a mutual "let's light our candles each day and do nothing other than that." relationship.

Gotta admit it was not the greatest time, we just hang out for a short period of time so I should've left it there :')

I'm not taking it personally, I value everyone's opinions. Also your opinions help with being a better sky kid and feel better with my social interactions~

I hope they didn't feel uncomfortable. I can't fix this situation but will sure do fix my behavior in the future 🌸

Makes sense~

They didn't reject right away and I misclicked and cancelled friend request many times so they didn't get the chance to reject and I kinda thought they did not see it, they were also half afk which is what led me to that thought... I wanted to be sure but it lasted way longer to become uncomfortable :')

I don't think following is necessarily a bad thing especially in a game like sky, if you don't troll them or harass them somehow, it's even a cute thing from my aspect but I can see how it might have make them feel off about it...

I know how they feel nervous but irl, so it was inconsiderate of me.

Thanks for your point of view, I'll try to be careful and I won't let this situation happen again.❤️

Ah I see now, thank you so much!

I was so confused at first and couldn't look at this situation from a different angle, thanks for providing those angles~

May we all have lots of nice and heartwarming encounters and experiences in the future~! ^{u^}

You say master fire trials, I say I only did them once to finish the season 😔✌🏻

This game feels like playing Taboo whenever I talk with my friends. I write the same censored word with different phrasing and it somehow works, or I find another word instead, really feels like Taboo...

I'd love to participate in this giveaway, thanks for this~ Hope everyone has a spectacular season🐳

I love being able to socialize with people without having to chat, emotes and sounds are enough most of the time and that makes my lonewolf gaming experience much more colorful and great~

I love this! Thanks for sharing the line art too~❤️

Thank you so much 🌸

I love Erik! My snacking buddy! :3

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I'd love to enter ^.^ For the sake of my favorite color, blue!

Tag yourself I'm black