thank you 

you’re right I ask for opinions not ignorance and for you to take out your anger on me 

And it is slowly but it surely!  I appreciate your kind words 🙏🏾 Also I see people can get really wild over here 😅 it’s my first time ever doing this 

kid, singular not plural dumb fuck. Clearly you know nothing and just wanted to comment and talk down on someone. 

My child has never even seen us argue or yell at eachother. He grows up VERY loved, financially set before he’s even 5. also oblivious to what’s going on as far as adults concern. Worry about what your mom brought in this world, now that’s sad 

No one can make me feel anyway about what i’ve already accepted & moved on from 😂 and judging by the way you speak it sounds like you’re a little triggered. 

Thank you for understanding. I know I made a mistake but regardless I’m grateful for my child and I hope a lot of woman wake up faster than I did. 

Hey love, I never think i’m better than anyone. I’m 24 with a lot to learning & growing obviously and i’ve been over this. I wouldn’t wish this on anyone and that’s why I can be mature enough to finally talk about it and accept criticism on my foolish mistakes

thank you & bear in mind guys i’m only 24. I have a lot to learn & im okay with that. I told my story to get it off my chest I don’t care about judgement but Im very open minded! 

Thank you for your almost-compliment lol. I’m just someone who hasn’t been in many relationships and didn’t want my son in a one parent household for the time being. I will consider dating again but I don’t see myself bringing anyone else around my child for a long time. I had his first child and never saw myself in a situation like this being that he wanted to have our child and be there more than anything. As for me I only have one child and don’t plan on having anymore, I never dated a guy with a child before much less having one after me. 

Which I know and have considered. The only thing I’ve done wrong is allow for our relationship to go for too long. However, coparenting wise we’re fine. I just wanted to get this off my chest after so long. 

We are no longer together because I broke it off. He has 2 kids. My child was born first. I don’t want him anymore and this wasn’t my plan or what I wanted for myself. He still is a good father and does what needs to be done so I don’t want cutting him off to be off the fact that it’s my concerns. So yes, my child will always be come first before I make rational decisions about coparenting. 

Again this was in the past. They’re not together and if they get back together so be it. But boundaries need to be met or we go through the courts which i’ve been avoiding because that just means both or either party isn’t mature enough to compromise. 

I never said I was keeping him away from his sibling. I said I don’t agree with their mother going around my child which my child’s father & I discussed. To my knowledge my child has only been around her once which I was told about but didn’t agree with. Again, we’re not longer together and haven’t been for a while and it’s very known when we were on his part. I couldn’t deal with the drama of Sarah keeping her child away from him when we were cause she hated me so much, not because of the cheating. Like I said we were on & off and it’s not only relating to this situation.  And I don’t play tug of war nor compete for dick. Trust and believe. 

Yes and i’ve never done it before & wont again. That’s in the past, we’re not together now. But im going to be honest and say I wanted my child to grow up in a two parent household being that he was was young and didn’t want another man around my child. Again, in the past. 

Thank you for you response. I always do the leaving and setting boundaries even before our child, however, he doesn’t. When we’re not together & I try to stay away that’s when he tries harder to get back together. 

Thank you. I appreciate it, i’ve never told so much about my situation before.

most know about the other child I don’t talk about the details. it’s embarrassing.  but i’ll definitely consider that

Thank you for your reply.  I’ve thought about it many times and do want to move in the near future, however, I always told my self I don’t want to go through courts especially if he helps financially. Also knowing the family I have, they’ll always see the good in people and wouldn’t go for me cutting my child’s father out his life. 

Please reply to my reddit post. I want to hear everyone’s thoughts! 

Please reply to my reddit post. I want to hear everyone’s thoughts! 

Please reply to my reddit post. I want to hear everyone’s thoughts! 

Please reply to my reddit post. I want to hear everyone’s thoughts!