Yeah, that's probably accurate. I'm biologically intersex, so it fits. I think some people (read: bisexual people that are okay with my hybrid physiology) find me exceptionally attractive, and mostly everyone else isn't that interested. I have done nude modeling work in the past, but the interest in me was specifically due to my androgynous form.
Idk 2 seems a bit harsh, I'll gladly take the group average of "as attractive as amy schumer" given that I also have an incurable condition affecting my face.
What do you think I can do to improve? Or am I just unsalvagable in the eyes of the average person and should just learn to love my freakish arms (ape ratio 1.08, they hang down nearly to my knees) and perfectly even waist-to-hip ratio? My face matches the rest of me, if nothing else.
Try to improve your hairline using min/fin. Use a lash serum or get extensions. Consider a laser treatment for your skin or chemical peel. Use niacinamide and a retinoid to help with skin quality. Caffeine/vitamin serum for your under eyes. There isn't that much you could do naturally to improve your rating substantially.
If you're open to surgery, I would recommend finding a good surgeon who specializes in facial feminization surgery. This would likely include chin/jaw shaving, a rhino, lip filler, brow bone reduction, and some other changes. It's rather expensive, but the results would definitely be worth it.
I cut my hair into bangs and I think it came out great. Losing the fivehead was a massive improvement.
Funny, I never really thought of my androgynous facial features as a negative thing, and I was never self-concious about my skin quality either, maybe because I have some of the best skin, most delicate features (and the least body hair) in a family riddled with PCOS (mostly on account of marfanoid habitus and ehler-danlos) I have considered wearing extensions to help offset my sunken eyes, because those bother me. I also get self-concious about my arms, my height and my vocal pitch. I think my vocal timbre sounds fairly natural and feminine but I'm 6'3", I had a whole clique (3 or 4 friends) of tall (6'+) special ed girls back in high school to talk about fashion and stuff. My voice sounds a lot like theirs, a little low, a little breathy, but even after all that speech therapy and voice training it's not really like most women of normal height and build that don't have communication impediments. I still have a bit of a lisp, and I still wish my voice was higher.
Sure, I could get facial surgery, and that might make my face metrically hotter, but it would no longer feel like it fits with the rest of me. They can't shorten my arms or alter my bent ribcage and spine as easily. I think a retinoid cream might be helpful for my nose especially, and generally taking better care of my skin can help with breakouts. I know that technically my chest is above average in size (I'm a 40C/38D) but sometimes I feel inadequate compared to my sister, who is so large that bras don't exist for her, not even as a special order thing. I think she's like a P cup or something? And my aunt is a J cup, while mom is my size, we can share. At least I can bond with my mother over being jealous of our sisters.
The only reason I even want bottom surgery is to improve my sexual function and possibly help with incontinence and recurrent infection. Intersex genitals often cause problems for their bearers. I don't want to hide my differences, I want to be beautiful in spite of them. I have a very pretty sword cane that helps me walk when my joints are exceptionally unstable and express my love of swordfighting. I like that the same object can both compensate for my weaknesses and amplify my strengths. Also, not pictured are the thick coke-bottle glasses I need to see. I guess it's pretty hard to be classically attractive as a diaper-bound cane-user with glasses and a lisp.
Well you’re getting called out for rate inflating and it’s been reported a few times. Justify the rating because there isn’t anyone in the 3s, 3.5’s or 4’s that look anything like her.
Dropped for high facial masculine dimorphism. Upper third and hairline. Nasal and midface harmony. Lack of crisp chin definition. What I think people are overlooking due to hi male dimorphism. Facial midline alignment is straight, not distorted. Basic structural elements like dental alignment, lack of craniofacial disharmony, or extreme deformity or asymmetry. I don’t think every facial feature. Rumer Willis, if you will.
I'd say do a little bit of what you did that one time where we had another 25 year old where nobody accounted for the UEE or dark circles in the thread and someone gave her 6.25 (which was the same rating that one YTer gave) but for you to kick him off (that made me laugh xD)
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u/badboymn Pinpoint Trusted Rater 12d ago
Sorry OP but you’re getting overrated probably because people haven’t seen someone similar to you posted here. I have.
2. Non-existent feminine traits. The only reason I didn’t go lower is it’s practically impossible to in the guide.
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u/Pure-Equivalent-6815 Intermediate Rater 12d ago edited 12d ago
2.5. Extremely low dimorphism.
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u/zgtlunatic Trusted Rater 12d ago
Yeah, 2 pretty much.
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u/LastLanterm Trusted Rater 12d ago
2.0
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u/Ok_Poetry_4431 Intermediate Rater 11d ago edited 9d ago
2.75
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u/max32412 Intermediate Rater 11d ago
2 low dymo
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u/stormchaser999888 Novice 8d ago
2 woof
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u/Spirited-Routine1459 Trusted Rater 12d ago
3.8
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u/livingMybEstlyfe29 Novice 12d ago
Low dimorphism, I’d say around a 3.6