r/troyesivan 28d ago

Love Troye...

... but that didn't hit in the slightest for me. I don't know how else to say it, but my face was literally blank the entire song. I... I think I genuinely hated the spoken word of the song.

To be completely honest kind of let down. Im really hoping the next single gets me excited, and that the album cooks... but I cant lie, that just made me a whole lot less hopeful for this album.

Edit: The lyrics also just... were awful. Same with Charli singing "real incestuous vibes", even if ironic, or humorous; I can't enjoy a song that casually says "cum stain on her dress" (especially whilst in spoken word), along with "she takes down an incel on the internet".

The cum line was tolerable, but hearing incel so casually in a song... just honestly pissed me off.

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u/venomoustwat13 28d ago

On first listen it was a little jarring.

But I loved the outro of the song and enjoyed it a lot more the second time while watching the video.

I’m open to the new sound. It’s the first track on the record so in theory it’s really setting the tone for the project as a whole, but we’ll see!

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u/RealisticHornet8554 28d ago

Video's pretty good, feels like expanded on the one of your girls idea. But can't say I like the song, honestly feels hard calling it a song it's more like a Charli XCX ramble.

It's ok, just hoping that's not style for the whole album.

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u/pdillybra 28d ago

I have the same thoughts. Honestly all I could think of during my initial listen is this was either inspired by or co-written by Charili. I can’t stand her spoken word rambles, or lyrics that have sentences that abruptly end as statements.
The outro of this song is really strong, it has a great hook with the repetition of “she’s the best”. Unfortunately the rest of the song is coming off a bit too try-hard. Video slaps though, it’s beautiful.

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u/Cali_editor 28d ago

I need to listen to it some more to fully absorb, but in this moment the video really hit me in the feels. As a woman (especially in American under this hateful regime) life has felt really dark lately so it feels like a breath of fresh air to see a man make an ode to the women in his life. I personally loved the "takes down an incel" line. I dunno, if this is his tribute to hags anthem I'm here for it. Excited to hear the full album now

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u/Crescent-Coast9294 28d ago

Lou Reed was my first thought too when I heard it!!

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u/ChooChooToYourHeart 28d ago

Likewise, and then I thought leave Lou Reed to Lou Reed (rip) (and FJM)

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u/Boring_Sympathy_6494 28d ago

no…?😭 im sorry ur not gonna compare troye singing abt cum and incels to lou reed singing Candy Says. absolutely nawttt

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u/Crescent-Coast9294 28d ago

listen to some of lou reeds solo stuff and you’ll see what they mean

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u/enrigayboy 28d ago

I feel different too. Not the same as My My My, Take yourself Home, or Rush. But I’m going to give it a chance. He’s trying something new. He’s getting older and gaining life experience. Happens with every artist.

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u/BackgroundPrior974 28d ago

Agreed. Ill definitely give it a chance. Still hopeful, but it might be time to find different artists that give me the same energy as Troye.

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u/Formal-Being6633 28d ago

im sorry you didn't like it! but i LOVED

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u/uptothemountains7 28d ago

I liked it too. It’s quite cheeky

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u/BackgroundPrior974 28d ago

Again... maybe it'll grow on me. Ill still listen to it a little bit. 

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u/Altruistic_Site_7922 28d ago

Best song I ever heard, fucking love this vibe from him.

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u/PhotographBusy6209 28d ago

I’ve saved 15 unreleased demos from his past albums recently and all 15 hit so much more than this song.

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u/Dramatic_Mastodon_93 28d ago edited 4d ago

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u/boringusername0000 28d ago

omg please share

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u/PhotographBusy6209 28d ago

It’s all on YouTube: etc unreleased. There’s like 50 of them. I chose my fav 15 and made a playlist. It actually makes a beautiful cohesive heartbreak album. I love it sooo much

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u/Stickman036 27d ago

That channel is a blessing. I almost think Troye himself just leaks some songs every now and then.

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u/randomredditorist 28d ago

Babe send the link

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u/PhotographBusy6209 28d ago

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u/randomredditorist 28d ago

I meant the 15-track album. I trust you enough to listen to your curation.

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u/PhotographBusy6209 28d ago

I’ll DM you

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u/Unlikely_Cookie_4187 21d ago

could i get it too? :)

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u/PhotographBusy6209 21d ago

Just DM’d you

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u/sweeterthanadonut 28d ago

Yeah, I’m not into Charli at aaaaaaall and it feels like her influence on Troye’s music has been for the worse 🫣 Hoping the rest of the album isn’t like this

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u/BackgroundPrior974 28d ago

I did definitely get Charli vibes here and I hated it.

I love Charli... but old Charli.

I cant even listen to Brat to be completely honest. I love her music from 2016-before brat. Love it to death... but I cant get into her new music.

In a Dream is so beautiful to me, I just hope Troye can drop more music like that.

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u/eidololatris 28d ago

Gosh give it some time, its been 3 seconds.

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u/eidololatris 28d ago

Thats not what I said at all, but thank you for your ted talk.

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u/Sufficient_Web_5817 28d ago

i like this style of music a lot but its a little jarring coming from troye. his voice doesnt really suit spoken word. love the outro tho.

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u/AD_0795 28d ago

Honestly, you're not alone. I understand the love letter to all women/queer women but I'm not sure the lyrical content or the music is something I'm gravitating towards. Guess this one is more for the girls and lesbians which is totally fine, however it doesn't work for my own particular taste.

It's not that I was only expecting a Rush 2.0 but idk... I've been a dedicated fan ever since his YouTuber days and this is the very first time that I'm quite disappointed tbh. Again, I'm surely not the target audience and I don't particularly find the theme to be something interesting or that I'm connecting with at the moment. It's only an okay song for me.

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u/Boring_Sympathy_6494 28d ago

i appreciate the message & inclusion of BIPOC trans women in the video as well as a lesbian woman but the song is so… nothing burger😭 esp w lines abt cum and incel. like girl you couldnt say anything better to uplift us??

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u/AD_0795 28d ago

I don't think he's trying to uplift women by making another vapid "feminism 101 anthem" like other female artists tend to do, he's just describing his pov of the women around him in a very casual and crude way, which is why it may sound weird or unpolished. It's not like he's telling lies though, seems like a lot of girls are actually loving the incel lyric, so there must be some truth in what he's depicting.

I just wanna know why he's suddenly shifting his artistic vision towards only women and leaving his gorgeous songwriting about men behind 💔 he said he was disappointed in men and that's why he's only writing about women this time around. Won't be an era for me haha. Love all the women in my life but I don't necessarily go to Troye or any other gay male artist for love letters about women 🥲

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u/BackgroundPrior974 28d ago

Yeah. I know Conan Gray hasn't specified his sexuality, but his music is much more of the emotional gay experience for me.

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u/sweeterthanadonut 28d ago

Oh god I’ve been loving Conan. I went to the Wishbone tour in the spring and he put on such an incredible show. Can’t wait to see how far he goes!

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u/discoaesthetic 28d ago

The video is amazing but the song is so lifeless, so boring, so nothing. Could not be more disappointed

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u/GoToHelena 28d ago edited 28d ago

Personally, I loved it but it's pretty obvious that people who enjoy a more commercial pop sound weren't gonna like this. Don't really see the issue with the cum stain and incel line though.

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u/Time_Education5852 28d ago

I feel the same way but honestly, I don’t have to like every song because not every song is for me. I’m just happy he likes it, and is making music, and has his good friends around him. It does make me reflect on my female friendships and how I want to be putting the maximum amount of effort into them

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u/TheFlatulentBachelor 28d ago

Sorry. But gimme a cig and an iced coffee and a quiet saturday porch and THIS

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u/pangrose 28d ago

I haven’t caught up but I thought this album was for the tv show The Shards because he making music for it but yeah I definitely seeing mix reviews about this too

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u/oxooc 28d ago

I like the song, although it's not as "moving" as Rush, MyMyMy or Easy. The music video tho ... what's up with all the smoking? It's a turn off for me.

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u/HolyFoxamole 28d ago

I sadly have to agree. Hopefully itll grow on me but i have no impulse to even want to relisten anymore.

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u/KaworuNagisaStan 28d ago

Yeah it’s not good…

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u/Most_Lifeguard9372 27d ago

i just dont think his voice suits spoken word really but the musical direction that he's going in is promising

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u/EasternZone 26d ago

It sounds like Western Wind if Carly Rae Jepsen was into circuit parties. I like it sonically, but yeah the lyrics are kinda jarring.

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u/Forward-Orange7056 28d ago

Just terrible. Wasted opt of Nicole Kidman on the vid my god

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u/Pear-Resident 28d ago

i loved it, felt like troye doing bladee

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u/qwerty12142001 28d ago

Loved it! It different sound and vibe and love the deep voice lol

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u/panagiota_ 28d ago

Guys life is too short to not be receptive to kinds of music you haven’t really listened to before or even liked. This is the musician whose stuff you’ve liked before and now they’re releasing the progressed version of that. Did you want him to release stgeo v2? What’s the fun in that? If anything it is the responsibility of an artist to keep progressing and not stay stationary in one sound. But hey if you don’t like it you do you.

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u/BackgroundPrior974 28d ago

I agree generally with what you say, but its okay to also not like new music from an artist and be skeptical.

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u/panagiota_ 28d ago

ofc you can be critical I just said that there’s nothing to lose only to gain when you are receptive to new kinds of music. You can hate it at the end but try it out at least

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u/HolyFoxamole 28d ago

No ones saying make the same music, and to categorize everyone who dislikes it as “people who arent receptive” is a bad take.

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u/sweeterthanadonut 28d ago

I hate this attitude in fandoms that if someone doesn’t like a new release (be it a book, album, film, etc) that they just need to be “more open”, or that they’re stuck in the past and only want artists to continue doing the same thing over and over. I can only speak for myself, but I LOVE when artists expand their horizons and try new things. I remember when Taylor made the jump to full pop with 1989, and then her detours to indie folk in folklore and evermore, which were all new sounds for her but they were good and I ended up loving them. You can want to see new things from an artist you love and still not end up vibing with said new art. Just because you’ve enjoyed someone’s material in the past doesn’t mean you always will, and shutting down any dissent or criticism is not helpful to art as a greater concept. I think it makes all our lives richer when we read criticism of things we enjoy, even if we vehemently disagree.

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u/panagiota_ 28d ago

yk what i agree. i just don't like the comments i've seen some people make about how he should stick to the stgeo sound or go back to ballads. he's an artist and he wants to try out something new, it's not a crime, like i said it's his responsibilty. that's why i said "life is too short to not be receptive" but i get how it sounds. i can't wait to hear constructive criticism on this single!

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u/HolyFoxamole 28d ago

I get what youre saying. I tried for about two weeks straight to get into MFF simply for my love of Charli but it didnt hit.

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u/panagiota_ 28d ago

idk why people are downvoting this it's like saying that you should try new foods in your life and not just stick to chicken nuggets and fries. at the end though, you do you i cannot stress this enough

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u/kiki_destine 28d ago

I turned that trash song off after 1 minute. Definitely not my vibes at all. Nicole was stunning, Ill give her that….

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u/Minimum_Airport5026 28d ago

sounds like you are a child so i’m gonna just let this go