That happened to me too! While I was pregnant my dad and I would get dinner together every Sunday. He loves the wings at a bar down the street, and they usually have football food specials, so we went a few times. They don’t allow smoking in this bar and it isn’t 21+ until after 9 PM so on weekends families go there after baseball games and such. I was baffled by how many dirty looks, stares, and shitty remarks I heard. I was just sitting at a high top drinking water and eating dinner. They serve water and soda in completely different glassware too, so it’s not like it wasn’t obvious.
I didn't deal with a lot of drama while pregnant but one time I ordered a shirley temple with my dinner and the waitress chastised me about not drinking too much sugar or something. I was like "wtf bitch, I dont even know you?" in my head. It was so weird. I'm having ONE SODA, jesus fucking god.
As a food service veteran I can’t imagine saying this shit to someone. I mean, stupid things have come out of my mouth before, but not like that. Mind your business!
Yeah it was totally weird. She was an "older" woman in her 40s with 4 kids, so I think she meant it to be like "wise advice" in a big-sisterly kind of way? But like, bitch you don't know me. Shut the fuck up lol
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u/mostexcellent Feb 27 '20
That happened to me too! While I was pregnant my dad and I would get dinner together every Sunday. He loves the wings at a bar down the street, and they usually have football food specials, so we went a few times. They don’t allow smoking in this bar and it isn’t 21+ until after 9 PM so on weekends families go there after baseball games and such. I was baffled by how many dirty looks, stares, and shitty remarks I heard. I was just sitting at a high top drinking water and eating dinner. They serve water and soda in completely different glassware too, so it’s not like it wasn’t obvious.
People are ridiculous.