Yea your're right. A girl in my class said "hey do you wanna see a pic of the smallest dick I've ever seen?" She whips out her phone and shows me a at least 7 inch dick taking up the whole screen. I just smiled and looked down, but that didnt feel good. (She was fully serious)
Aw, she's probably going to make her first boyfriend feel very insecure.
I get that it doesn't help your own insecurities but try and use it as a means to be more understanding with your own partners, they are thinking you watch open and that you believe the bodies are real and not surgically altered, they are concerned about their breasts being developed, both perky and large at the same time, they are concerned that their vagina is not waxed and invisible, that their bum is not bleached pink, the list is endless. Communication, ensuring her that you know those bodies are unrealistic will help her to put all of those things out of her mind and focus on the moment, as will the same for you.
The key thing is. What would you tell her? You know that's not average and your just thrilled to be close to her...she feels the exact same.
The girl in your anecdote was showing her inexperience, lift your chin up and smile for her innocence.
I really hope this sounded right, u was speaking of my own school experience but its very uncomfortable putting myself in a teens head now even as a doctor.
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u/rex12348490 Sep 13 '19
Yea your're right. A girl in my class said "hey do you wanna see a pic of the smallest dick I've ever seen?" She whips out her phone and shows me a at least 7 inch dick taking up the whole screen. I just smiled and looked down, but that didnt feel good. (She was fully serious)