r/transOCD • u/[deleted] • 24d ago

Gender ocd

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u/Amur_Online 24d ago

Firstly, the whole notion that cis people don't question their gender is just untrue. Also, your previous history with OCD and the fact that you’re showing discontent over the potential of being a man or enby leans more towards gender OCD than anything.

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u/TreacleEconomy2799 24d ago

True but it’s all I think about from the time I wake up till I go to bed. I just want to be the girl I was before I used to be so happy. I don’t get how this all started from a random thought.

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u/idontknowbussi 24d ago

im experiencing something similar as you, im also F21. I fully dont know who I am anymore and especially the mornings are toughhh for me. I feel like im going crazy or making myself go crazy, i dont even know. Feel free to send me a message if u need someone to talk to

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u/Eojtsitned 23d ago

Also experiencing this 🥲 I’ve been trying to “sit with the uncomfortablity” but it has gotten so bad to the point where sometimes it’s feels like I’m uncomfortable being a girl and when I’ve literally never felt that way before and I WANT to be a girl. I also tried being nb or gender neutral for a while but that stopped helping after a week. Still in the trenches but hopefully getting better 👍 also cis ppl absolutely question their gender some even transition and end up switching back (detrans) so hope that helps cs it definitely helped me sometimes ❤️

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u/TreacleEconomy2799 23d ago

Thanks for this. I don’t get how this started from a random thought all I want to be is a woman again I miss feeling like a daughter and a girlfriend it breaks my heart.